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Agreed. I think you got hung up too much on the literal meaning of her words. The subtext is that she wanted you to come to the club where she was. And that's definitely plenty of interest.

Didn't this happen in Entourage?? But yeah, do what the above guy said.

This is gold. A lot of people in the community give women waaaay more credit than they actually deserve. It's really just another form of pedestalization, if that's a word. They're just women. This stuff can be complicated but it's not THAT complicated. I think at the end of the day, you...

Gold man. Just my style. The interesting thing is that when a woman is indifferent toward you, it's the absolute worst position you can be in. Better a girl hate you than not care one way or another. That's the kiss of death. You can't come back from that. But when we flip it around and act...

Good stuff man. I "liked" it, lol. Dude at the end was a chump. Is that UCLA's campus? Or UCSB?

Good thread, OP. I've run into this. Curious to see what the other responses are. I've been lucky the last few times that the girl's friends left (clearly supporting the hookup) and so it was easy and natural to just leave the club, regardless of time. Read something recently -- haven't tried...

Heh, that online dating jpg is pretty funny. And there's some truth to it. However, I'd like to suggest a 3rd variable at play. I took stats back in the day and this seems like a good example of Simpson's Paradox. http://www.math.grinnell.edu/~mooret/reports/SimpsonExamples.pdf Basically it's...

Out here in Cali, it's everything the OP said times 10. You gotta really look at what YOU value. ONS are one thing... As long as you're hot I'm cool. But anything longer and I have such a low-tolerance for dumb & shallow girls. The cool thing is, when I started reevaluating what I care about...

Depends on the situation man. The longer & better the interaction, the longer I wait. Also, when I do reach out, it's definitely by phone because I figure she'll be comfortable enough to pick up. If it was just a short 5-10 minute thing, I actually text the same night, some kind of "nice...

Just approach man. That's the only way to know whether your limiting beliefs are true or not. Regret sucks. Far more than rejection. Once you finally figure this out for real then you'll be on your way. And for the record, I would say good looks matter more for night game in the club, where...

Short field report. Thought maybe it was worth posting just because it shows just how everything is relative and that anyone can remake themselves. Headed to a lounge for my boy's birthday. It was a 2 weekend celebration and this was the final night. Get there dressed in my good luck zara...

I think you're doing fine, overall. Being in your boxers why she's fully-clothed isn't a good look, though. I'd say your goal now should be to do things that you enjoy, not just things you think she likes. By this I mean -- Do you really like bitting her? Or did you just do it because you...

Sounds like you pulled out all the stops. Towncar, bouncers, cabs from place to place in NYC where most get around on foot or by train/bus... Maybe she felt intimidated and overwhelmed. It might've been all too much too soon. (Notice how she started talking about her ex fiance... if you're...

The judges don't even respect him. Even bleeding-heart Paula Abdul.

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LOL, sounds like you had a fun night man. Wouldn't worry about the HB6. Though usually when I get a huge compliment like the one you got, I keep it simple. "Thanks" and leave it at that. Keep it moving. No big deal. And you made out with the hottest in the group anyway.

Her loss. Stop contacting her now. She made up a lame excuse with no counteroffer. If she counteroffered then I say keep going but she didn't. She didn't "lose her phone" either. Game over on this one.

Not that high apparently for the dimes of all races that have been interested in me. Get what I'm getting at?

Good stuff:up:

Hmmm... I get what you're trying to do & like it. However the problem with both is that it comes across like you're affected by her non-response (you are) and have been stewing over why she didn't respond (you have been!). If you do send something like this wait until at least this evening...