Sick of hot girls showing low interest

[Trump]

I catch girls that are like 4s and 5s staring at me all day long, but I think I'm an attractive guy myself, and I should be able to get with a 7-10 for sure. I'm just like wtf. Anyone else feeling this frustration?

You being attractive has NOTHING to do with being able to get 7-10, it just gets you a look. They don't owe you anything so you have to prove to them you are worth it.

But I know the frustration, all hot girls are married or taken or you have to drop loads of cash on them to keep them interested for more than a few days. I've dropped thousands and thousands on models only to keep their attention for 20 days, then they leave and go on to the next thing.

It's unfortunate we value them so much, but I guess if I were an 8/10 I would milk it for all its worth too, gotta go with the highest bidder.

 

[kay2003]

I view myself as an attractive guy, athletic, I eat healthy, I'm cultured, I read a lot of books, I'm a straight a student, I'm a pianist too. I think I gotta stop putting so much stake on these women, and develop my care-free attitude further, just be an all around great-guy and f these hot shallow "bzchs". I guess the trick now is to find attractive women that have down-to-earth psychologies.

ARE YOU ME??? I play piano too (no biggie since it's beautiful and most played instrument), but im also having these problems. I monitor my food intake and exercise regularly and keep in shape. Girls seem to think i'm a great guy whos "attractive", but ive never had a gf and no real experience. However, I plan to improve myself and my game, and have recently found a great girl who is "down-to-earth" but we're still a while away from being an item.

 

[GotED?]

Ask yourself the question, WHY DO YOU NEED TO HAVE A HOT GIRL'S ATTENTION??

Do you have low self-esteem? Are you one of those newly turned AFC guys trying to go Alpha and now reaching for the Holy Grail (that is, to have a 'HOT' girl to call your own because it only boosts your own self-image/self-esteem).

I think most men here who have HAD hot girls/women only realizes how much SH!T is involved with damaged goods and learned that being hot doesn't mean SH!T.

Also men who have never been able to reach the Holy Grail (having had a woman to call 'HOT' to repair their own self-esteem) will spend the rest of their life ruining relationships in order to get to the 'HOT' one.

You miss out on a lot of what is called life with empty pursuit.

With respect,

Exodus

 

[nismo-4]

7-10's want guys with dough. You can be good looking but if you don't have the dough they wont date you. They can find a good looking guy with money and get both of what they want. be successful then you wont have to worry.

I agree with this and what 5string, Dust 2 Dust, & floyd said.

Understand that men value love, but women love value. Women don't know true love from a pop tart! Also, with hypergamy and flaking and attention wh0ring at a super high, the price of love, sex, and companionship has gotten overinflated. Both women and men (don't know who's worse here) are jacking that price up. No wonder why women are "dating up" and men are "dating down". Hell, women empower themselves on social things, men empower them by using these PUA guides and other things, and use chump behavior.

For the hot girls, looks are just one thing, but your bank and status and power have to be high IN THE NOW. Game only does so much, considering how shallow these women can be, and lots of women 6- are like this. Looks get the attention. Money and most other things keep them.

But hypergamy is a b**ch.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Every high value "hot girl" who most guys would consider an 8-10 in looks is only a car accident away from being a 1-5 in looks. This is compounded by the fact that she will only be an 8-10 until she is around 28-32 depending on genes, health, money, eating habits, lack of car accidents, etc.

At least a man's value isn't 100% based on looks. Work hard to improve yourself and raise your status if you want more attractive women. Simple as that.

 

[Fatal Jay]

No need to make it more complicate than it is, your value doesnt match theirs.

Not to make fun of you, I find myself in the same situation...the good news is that as a man you can increase yours with hard work and disciline, sure you cant grow tall like a andre the giant but you can get a hot body and fight the demons in your personality wheter is any insecurity,lack of knowledge or lack of culture.

Improve your life, your social positin and your body and you will see that your level will match and possibly pass theirs till they will invite you inside them or better yet be attracted from your gravity.

real talk

 

[asa_don]

What you think you are and what you actually are....are 2 different things. If high quality women show low interest in you then you are a low quality guy. There is no shame in that. Ugly men or guys with crappy jobs end up with ugly or fat women. That is how life works. No use in feeling sorry for yourself or being frustrated all the time. Those are the cards you were dealt. You have to deal and play with those cards. So make some lemonade out of your lemons and bang as many ugly, fat or 3's and 4's you can find. You can still be a king and get women. Nothing wrong with that.

 

[NewAndImproved]

Out here in Cali, it's everything the OP said times 10. You gotta really look at what YOU value. ONS are one thing... As long as you're hot I'm cool. But anything longer and I have such a low-tolerance for dumb & shallow girls.

The cool thing is, when I started reevaluating what I care about, hot chicks didn't impress me as much anymore. It's that whole "what do you have going for you besides looks?" It's really true. Was talking to this one chick out recently and all she could talk about is the "scene" -- hip bars, hip restaurants, hip lounges, etc... She might've thought I was interested but after about 10 minutes I just stood up, smiled and left.

On the other hand, these girls are very very easy to fool-- at least at the start. I don't have a lot of money yet but I have a few nice clothes. I don't really have a nice car but I know people who do. When I roll like this, all of a sudden hot girls can't get enough of me. Like someone else said, it's all about perceived value.

 

[floydb25]

Every high value "hot girl" who most guys would consider an 8-10 in looks is only a car accident away from being a 1-5 in looks. This is compounded by the fact that she will only be an 8-10 until she is around 28-32 depending on genes, health, money, eating habits, lack of car accidents, etc.

At least a man's value isn't 100% based on looks. Work hard to improve yourself and raise your status if you want more attractive women. Simple as that.

Tru dat. A woman's sexual appeal isn't very long-lasting, and when they don't have **** else going for them, they pretty much go undetected after their prime. I see a lot of these older, attractive girls who undoubtedly used to be hot, but still have **** personalities. They're just older and more mature - as it comes with their age. They're not actually "mature". Everything else is the same. No sense choosing them over a younger, better looking girl. Neither of them are LTR material, anyway.

So, I wouldn't fret over a "hot" girl in her very limited prime. She's always going to be the way she is - only less and less physically attractive as time goes on. But still acting like she's hot ****.

In many cases, people who lead these sort of lifestyles in their younger years - end up looking like **** later on. They pop out a few babies from random men, gain weight, become miserable and crazy, and still have **** for personalities. They might think they're queen **** now, but everything they do is going to come back to haunt them - even insofar as being treated like **** - as they do to others.

 

[asa_don]

Every high value "hot girl" who most guys would consider an 8-10 in looks is only a car accident away from being a 1-5 in looks. This is compounded by the fact that she will only be an 8-10 until she is around 28-32 depending on genes, health, money, eating habits, lack of car accidents, etc.

At least a man's value isn't 100% based on looks. Work hard to improve yourself and raise your status if you want more attractive women. Simple as that.

Agreed. Most chicks start getting over the hill at 26 now. They look 36 or in their 40's by late 20's. Then when their value drops they go for guys they wouldn't give the time of day before. They say the want to "settle down" and find some sucker to take them.

A man's value is based in his over all worth

A woman's value is based on her looks

 

[Ruxman]

Ask yourself the question, WHY DO YOU NEED TO HAVE A HOT GIRL'S ATTENTION??

Do you have low self-esteem? Are you one of those newly turned AFC guys trying to go Alpha and now reaching for the Holy Grail (that is, to have a 'HOT' girl to call your own because it only boosts your own self-image/self-esteem).

I think most men here who have HAD hot girls/women only realizes how much SH!T is involved with damaged goods and learned that being hot doesn't mean SH!T.

Also men who have never been able to reach the Holy Grail (having had a woman to call 'HOT' to repair their own self-esteem) will spend the rest of their life ruining relationships in order to get to the 'HOT' one.

You miss out on a lot of what is called life with empty pursuit.

With respect,

Exodus

This has lingered in my head for a few days, it's true. When you think about the amount of hot women in ads movies music absolutely everywhere it highlights this. We fawn for hot girls at our own expense.