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Got this cutie's number last week at this concert/lounge thing. It was at the end of the night but we had a lot of common, both creatives. My buddy actually approached her (I was looking the other way at the time) but it was clear she was attracted to me. She was there with her friends (all...

How's this for ridiculous?! Just joined OKC. Getting a few messages back and forth now. Went to this pretty cute latina's (from the photos at least) page and clicked to message her. I get this message: "She’s out of message storage! She can’t get messages until she deletes a few. But we can...

#2 seems obvious. She's down. But clearly you're more interested in #1 (either b/c she's hotter, she's not making things as easy or both)

Not sure what this is about exactly but I'm in... Just joined OKC the other day.

A lot of great advice in this thread. Echoed about bowling dates. They used to be my go to first date but you really have to plan ahead, make reservations/go when you KNOW there won't be some kind of b-day party or league play clogging up the entire place. I've learned my lesson. Also, you...

One more word of advice based on experience: These girls were just passing thru. The extended text conversations you had were not productive at all. You just needed to show that you were a cool dude, implying that you had the hookup at certain spots and TELLING them that they had to come out...

Can't say I'm not surprised. Everyone here called it. Can you just stop replying now?!!?! Don't respond to her text you'll just sound bitter and butthurt. Just go NC. And you keep saying she's "manipulative" but at least half of this is your fault. A different kind of guy would have never...

You're complying to all of her requests when she's not complying to all of yours. That's why you're being used as a "tourist guide." Right now she's stringing you along, getting information out of you knowing that you'll keep giving it to her so long as you have hope that you'll get that date...

With all due respect, I don't fully believe you when you say you're not a "thirstbucket" (heh) or have played it completely smooth. The teasing her and negging her is good, but I have a suspicion that ever since you got the number you've become increasingly needy, culminating with her flaking...

Not sure why you're convinced she was an AW, man. I mean, she could be. But to me it sounds like you didn't strike when the iron was hot. She directly said she wanted to sleep with you and you left. She felt rejected, some degree of buyer's remorse for putting herself out there and when you...

If a girl is making things easy for me, all the better. I'm not doing to complain. Not sure what you mean by "drag." I've dealt with these agressive types before. At the end of the day, though, it's still up to the man to take things to the next level. For example, pulling back when she's all...

Great thread. Was about to start a thread of my own about how women have a much much longer memory than men. Sure, we get oneitis, too, but women I think get it longer and much more strongly even if they've seemingly moved on and have their "needs met". Recently I've run into a couple of...

Saw this earlier. Funny ****. It's not that it's harder out here, though, necessarily. Back east I'm considered good-looking but I find I don't get the same crazy response out here. I get some love but I feel like most women -- at least the young crowd -- prefer pretty boys. I'm a bit more...

You can't really be surprised with this one. Good you've got a fresh crop of numbers. No contact & on to the next!

What's up, sage? Very curious to see what happens tomorrow. For me, you're doing way too much chasing. The longer these text threads go on and the more times you ask her out (without a real substantive counteroffer on her part), the more she's taking control of this thing. I also feel like if...

I like night game. It's the only reason I'm now good at social circle stuff or like PlayHer Men talks about where you get a preparty with some girls and then go out to a club. I feel confident that I'm at least going to get a kiss close in these settings now. Night game hardens you. I think...

I think you need to get some of the other parts of your life handled, too. If you're not happy with your current situation at home, it's up to you to change it. I grew up an only child, overprotective parents. I didn't know how to do things for myself and was quite shy because of it. I moved...

One of the first things out of a ONS's mouth when we got back to her place was "I have great feet." She did, too. Fun times.

Just as a follow up, went out with this girl over the weekend. She didn't respond to my first phone call and then when I texted her, waited a day to reply. I then didn't reply to her message and she double texted the next day. Test passed. Had some banter about the Super Bowl the previous...

Flirt with ALL women. I used to take myself way too seriously. I would only try (and fail miserably) to hit on chicks I was really attracted to. That's probably why it's still awkward. LOWER THE BAR. Practice your witty banter with everyone. I'm far from a natural now but I'm way better...