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When Trying To Seem Like A Challenge And The Prize Goes Wrong... That's what this text exchange felt like. It's like you're trying to come from a place of superiority that you feel the need to vocalize it at every point. BUT THE GIRL WAS 10000% RIGHT. She doesn't know you and the...

Since time has already passed, just continue on without talking about it. And in the future, instead of talking about whether or not she's easy, disqualify yourself. "What makes you think I'M that easy?" or not even a question: "All good. I'M not that easy anyway." Notice how your way made...

"Cool" "Word" "Totally" etc... Sometimes a longer witty response is good but I'm realizing more and more that one word/short responses are better. If you really are the best of the best, insults don't faze you and neither do (backhanded) compliments.

I'm gonna read between the lines a bit and guess that at some point your girl suggested that you and her start doing salsa together. In your own words you say "you don't do salsa" which suggests that you take yourself way too seriously... So your girl goes out on her own to try something new...

Fun times... and great non-needy persistance with the texts.

Worked in the past for me. I sometimes say something like "at the very least you and me can be good friends."

Having layers I think is the best place for a man, and a person in general to be. You just have to lead with the "best" and most attractive stuff first. For example this weekend I met this teacher and was ragging on her. Then I realized that the town she was born in actually played a big part in...

Good post. The other side of the coin, though, is that while the white race has been propped up, other races have been put down. You can't have one without the other. Sure Asian men are seen as smart and successful and the media perpetuates this. But the very same media also emasculates these...

Maybe comments do. This girl recently reappeared after a year of mutual silence. Sent me a private message first congratulating me on something job-related that I posted. Oddly, it was 3 months after I posted it that she PMed me. Then when my response was neutral, she started liking my...

You got a counteroffer. Not only that she was keen on continuing the convo. She says she's out of town til Sunday so hit her up again after that. No big deal. Now if she asks for a "rain check" after that then you know where you stand but for now you seem fine.

No offense but your logic in this entire thread is ridiculous. You're giving this girl way too much credit. If you "flake" your "social circle will be ruined?!" Gimmie a break. Go or don't go, doesn't make a difference. I have a feeling you're already in the friend zone already anyway.

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Good stuff. Keep us posted.

You're not coming across as attractive. Simple as. TELLING her you like her instead of SHOWING her. Too much self-deprecating humor. Too much confessing ****. You're fine as is man. Took me years to figure this out but you are. Too much texting/talking... y'all haven't even been out yet...

Easy. You're not her number one option. But apparently she's yours (or you want her to be). Accept it and enjoy and get more & better options. The balance of power was "shifted" from the beginning. Go NC for a bit and see what happens. Another thing that's worked for me in the past is...

I notice a lot more women chasing me these days... and women in the past who didn't seem interested now noticing that I'm-- well -- new and improved.

You're not good with women yet, then, OP. People talk about abundance, which is definitely part of it. The more women you have in your rotation, the less precious each becomes. But the other side of abundance and experience is simply that you trust the process not the result. A good freethrow...

Backwards rationalizing. If "in the beginning" he was kind and good, that justifies your good girl pal falling for him in the first place. NOT ONLY THAT BUT IT JUSTIFIES HER CHEATING ON HER BF. It wasn't with a "jerk" it was with a nice guy who was stepping up when her BF wasn't. So it's...

Wouldn't have responded to the last text about "why not" but otherwise well played indeed. Curious to see what she does next. One thing I've done in the past that seems to work is seeding a flake. For example often when a girl flakes on a date she still tries to get you to answer...

She sounds loco. That said, if everything is on her end (her changing her cover photo on her profile, her uploading some pics) simply untag yourself and keep it moving. It's not like you guys have mutual friends, right? However, if I were you I'd smash a few more times and then run!