Newbie Here Please Critique My Text Exchange With a HB9+ Model

[Speculator E]

[Note: This is for a friend of mine that just register but for some reason can't post a thread]

Hi All

Long time lurker here. I'm still a newb at this and want to see if I'm doing this texting right. And this is my first HB9+. Thanks.

I was talking to this girl online. Turns out she's a dancer and model. She does car shows and she's been in a movie. I know because she shared her facebook page. It started out with email exchanges. Then move to texting. I started out good, but I was sensing that my game was going beta so I changed it around on the second day. Here's our recent conversation on the third day.

http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/7272/zk3z.png

I want to know if I did good or did I screwed it up?

Can anyone tell me why she suddenly gotten quiet on the last couple of texts. Before she was energetic and reply quick.

And I know there's some $hit tests in there but I can't be 100% that there were or not. It's hard for me to tell. If so how did I handle it?

I decided to end the conversation after the last text to keep her guessing. Was that the right move or should I have kept the conversation going? And last should I try to ask her to hang out on the next conversation?

Thanks in advance.

 

[zinc4]

horrible texting...just horrible all the way around....use texting to set up dates and get out...stop texting crap like this...you killed all chances...next

 

[pinkfl]

That was painful to read.

Anyways, stop texting. Stand out and call her and ask her to hang out, or invite her to do something you know that she likes.

 

[JoeMarron]

Too many questions bro. It sounds like she applying for a job as your personal pleasure servant and this is the interview. The general rules to go by in conversation with women is to keep it playful, always tease, have her do more of the talking but dont bombard her with questions, be sexual and dont reveal too much about yourself. You really should be getting her out on a date soon. All this texting and emailing is counterproductive.

 

[JohnChops]

that really hurt, what makes you a great catch? did you ask her that?! You are the great catch my friend, not her. Just stop, read the DJB and apply that information. Less texting. You can tell after that last question she was thinking to herself "wow forget this guy".

If it helps I only text girls for fun Monday, wednesday, or friday (maybe) and anytime to set up dates.

 

[Fruitbat]

What's wrong with "you want to come out for "insert activity"?"

Sorry mate, but that was an epic fail.

I was trying to work out which one was the girl, if I have this right, you, as a man, are using terms like "great catch"? Chickspeak.

You need to make her want to prove herself to you, I can see where you were sort of coming from, but you can't do that stuff overtly. You do that by not playing text games, asking her out, and walking away at the hint of low IOI.

remember, this HB9 model has had probably 5 texts already today from dudes, and the one that did a C+F immediate ask out was probably the one she is going out with. My last time I text asked out a girl:

Me "Do you like pidgeons?"
Her "What?!"
Me "Honest question"
Her "Wierd question. They're OK I guess"
Me "would you want to see them starve to death?"
Her "Wierder lol. No obviously not"
Me "They have plenty at "my local coffee house". You want to go feed them? Breads on me"
Her "Well, I can't say no can I?"
Me "correct....time blah"

If I got resistance for this I would have gone on about how there will be dead baby pigeons etc, means you can save face as its just a bit of fun, you haven't got all clingy and even if she isn't into you at all you made her laugh.....there is nothing she can tell her friends other than you are a funny dude she just doesn't have the hots for......

I am a bit wierd, but this is how I tend to roll. Ask them really abstract stuff to get them thinking.

But, OP, you are new and I have a feeling you may be heading for the nearest tall building following the critique you have had from all of us, remember, you have learned what not to do, you won't do it like this again. Also, top marks for actually trying with an HB9 model, I don't even bother these days, so although your technique was appalling, take heart in many ways you have more balls than many, even most, men out there. And you must of done something right to get her number, I would seriously doubt I would even get that bro!

 

[cordoncordon]

[Note: This is for a friend of mine that just register but for some reason can't post a thread]

Hi All

Long time lurker here. I'm still a newb at this and want to see if I'm doing this texting right. And this is my first HB9+. Thanks.

I was talking to this girl online. Turns out she's a dancer and model. She does car shows and she's been in a movie. I know because she shared her facebook page. It started out with email exchanges. Then move to texting. I started out good, but I was sensing that my game was going beta so I changed it around on the second day. Here's our recent conversation on the third day.

http://img690.imageshack.us/img690/7272/zk3z.png

I want to know if I did good or did I screwed it up?

Can anyone tell me why she suddenly gotten quiet on the last couple of texts. Before she was energetic and reply quick.

And I know there's some $hit tests in there but I can't be 100% that there were or not. It's hard for me to tell. If so how did I handle it?

I decided to end the conversation after the last text to keep her guessing. Was that the right move or should I have kept the conversation going? And last should I try to ask her to hang out on the next conversation?

Thanks in advance.

Brah that was brutally brutally BRUTALLY bad. IF I was a girl, especially a hot girl who can have her pick of the liter, I would be like "who the fawk does this guy think he is"? You come across as very possessive. Very clingy. Very serious. Almost psycho. Who wants to answer all of those personal questions over text with someone you don't even know? No one.

Keep initial texts light, fun, and BRIEF. Set up a date and go from there. You are acting like you are setting up a marriage.

Just wow.

 

[NewAndImproved]

When Trying To Seem Like A Challenge And The Prize Goes Wrong...

That's what this text exchange felt like.


It's like you're trying to come from a place of superiority that you feel the need to vocalize it at every point. BUT THE GIRL WAS 10000% RIGHT. She doesn't know you and the conversation you were having was ridiculous, not to mention if you truly had balls you'd be asking these kinds of things (not that you should go about it in the way you did) face to face. Keep it simple. Take her out. And then show (don't tell) how much of a challenge you are on the date.

 

[gravityeyelids]

You have two of these threads open brah

 

[Purefilth]

He didn't like the answers he got on the other one. :crackup:

 

[Greasy Pig]

My last time I text asked out a girl:

Me "Do you like pidgeons?"
Her "What?!"
Me "Honest question"
Her "Wierd question. They're OK I guess"
Me "would you want to see them starve to death?"
Her "Wierder lol. No obviously not"
Me "They have plenty at "my local coffee house". You want to go feed them? Breads on me"
Her "Well, I can't say no can I?"
Me "correct....time blah"

[/B]

Who the fvck is this guy? I love it! I'll be using that and variants of it, Fruit Bat. Good shyt mate.
Sorry, I won't be paying royalties.

 

[Ronaldo7]

Haha. What kind of a faggot texts like that? She must think you are a scared b1tch.

 

[Fruitbat]

Who the fvck is this guy? I love it! I'll be using that and variants of it, Fruit Bat. Good shyt mate.
Sorry, I won't be paying royalties.

Thank you, you need this type of game when you are a fruitbat.

As you say, you can substitute this for anything, pretty much. The pigeon one works well, but I have used

"Do you like ducks?" - go to park. baby ducks starving to death etc.

Another I like (has to be for the right girl, high risk but can be funny - better if you have been speaking already than out of the blue)

"are you a racist then?"
"No WTF?!!"
"So, you'll come help community relations by coming for an indian/chinese/whatever"

(if she says no, she is a total racist!) LOL

Mate, some of the fvcked up ways I have started these you wouldn't believe!

 

[Partizan]

Holy ****. I'm still new to the DJ ways and I cringed while reading that exchange.

 

[frisco]

Your qualifying and comfort building when you should be running attraction and setting up a date! And fruit bat that is pure gold deff. gonna try it.