picking up girl at the club, very early in the evening

[Die Hard]

So you go out to the club, it's still quite early, not many peope there yet. You're with your best pal or maybe with a bigger group of buddies.

You get eye contact from a HB8, she's with a bunch of her girlfriends. So you open the group and seduce the HB8...lots of kino going on, eventually the two of you start dancing, grinding and sh!t. After a while, you go in for the kiss and the two of you start making out. This goes on for about an hour...the two of you keep alternating between dancing, kissing and having conversation. Sometimes she'll take a moment to go to her girfriends and talk to them for a short while, then she returns to you. And sometimes you do the same, go talk to your buddies for a moment, give em an update on the girl etc. then return to her.

Okay, eventually this gets BORING and even though an hour has passed, it's STILL early in the night... So what is your next move?!

I've ran into this situation now and then and always kinda struggle with it. When all of this happens later on in the night, there will be sort of a "natural" ending to it. Either you and your friends decide to go home because it's getting late or her and her girls will go home because it's getting late. This kinda forces the two of you to decide what you're gonna do:

A. Exchange numbers, agree to meet up soon and kiss goodbye.
B. Go to either her or your place and FUQ!


But when it's still so early in the night, I feel both of those options are kinda awkward.

A. You exchange numbers and agree to meet up later that week, then you return to your buddies and she returns to her girls. You are both still in the club with your own groups and it feels awkward. She's there, you're there. You just made out with each other for about an hour and now you just leave each other alone? It feels really awkward...
B. When the night has just started, it feel kinda awkward to suggest going to one your places. When the night ends, it is just a natural follow up. Everybody's going home, so the two of you have no other choice than to extend things at one of your homes. But when the night is really just getting underway, it feel way too FORCED to already go to either of your homes. Plus, she came there with her girls....what, she's just gonna leave them that early on in the evening?

But like I said, after an hour or so of alternately dancing, having conversation and making out, things get BORING!! So what do you do?!?!

 

[Fly By Night]

Keep going? Have fun with her while you're there?

That's what happens, if you go in for makeouts very early in the night, don't be surprised when you have to make decisions like these too early in the night. Next time when you dance with a chick early in the night, tease her a bit. More time passes by (well, not that much) and she will want you more. Or you can just say that was a great dance, exchange numbers, don't say "goodbye", dance with some other chicks, then dance with her some more after some time passes.

The fact that you said "bye" like she was leaving made it awkward. If you just made it seem like you were gonna have fun somewhere else and meet up with her again would have worked out better.

But remember, another guy then has the chance to nab her. But what do you care? You're not that desperate for sex, are you?

 

[Greasy Pig]

When my best mate and I were at the peak of our sarging powers, it happened a couple of times that we would take a girl home, fvck her and then come back to the club to try again. We just made an excuse to leave their place early like: "I've gotta go and see my mate because I'm staying at his place and if I lose him, I'll be screwed because all my gear is in his house and I've gotta catch a plane early in the morning."
We never managed to achieve the `one night, double pick-up' but it certainly solved the problem of picking up too early in the night.

 

[NewAndImproved]

Good thread, OP. I've run into this. Curious to see what the other responses are. I've been lucky the last few times that the girl's friends left (clearly supporting the hookup) and so it was easy and natural to just leave the club, regardless of time.

Read something recently -- haven't tried it yet -- where you get the girl's number and immediately text her "let's meet by the bar in 26 minutes..." then disappear to another room, do your thing and meet up with her later. Another thing to try is that after you feel you've got her interested enough, exchange numbers and let her go back to her friends. Then after club close text her and see if she's down to meet up after hours.

 

[zinc4]

When my best mate and I were at the peak of our sarging powers, it happened a couple of times that we would take a girl home, fvck her and then come back to the club to try again. We just made an excuse to leave their place early like: "I've gotta go and see my mate because I'm staying at his place and if I lose him, I'll be screwed because all my gear is in his house and I've gotta catch a plane early in the morning."
We never managed to achieve the `one night, double pick-up' but it certainly solved the problem of picking up too early in the night.

hahahah...i have done this before as well...

to the op...if she doesn't want to leave her friends and go to your place and you are bored then you have 2 options:

1) drink up and try and have fun dancing with her the remainder of the night

2) get her number, hit up another club, drink up and meet other chicks

I like to do the 2nd option and if she isn't at least FB material past the initial first sexing then you can also say you have to go to the bathroom and stay at the same club and meet other chicks...i do this a lot as well....often times the original chick will come begging after you meet other ones...so really it's win win either way..you will have to girls to choose from or maybe more....

but if you actually like her but she is not down to go back to your place then boom get her number and hit up another club because meeting others in front of her can backfire as well