How often do you bang/date HB8.5s and up

zinc4

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I have been thinking lately that i have been underachieving settling for HB 7-7.5s......a few HB8s here and there....one HB8.5 a few weeks back who i banged her friend and it blew up in my face...but what is the significance really of getting with the top tier looking women.....is it ego purely? Or their bodies...i have become immune to onitis and never emotionally invest in any girl...that is an alien feeling to me at this stage in the game....so that is not a problem...

I just don't like the feeling of underachieving....i feel like i should have a stable of 8.5 and 9s at my disposal instead of my 7-7.5s...i am taking the easy way out by settling with lesser looking women.....how much emphasis do you guys place on looks and how often are you banging the best looking chicks?
 

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I doubt you'll find too many people at all with stables full of only 8.5s and 9s. That sounds like celebrity/rich status to me. And 9s are few and far between. I see probably only a handful of 9s a year. I see a decent amount of 8s though.
 

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And then, there's the fact that there is no universal HB scale (..or is there?). A HB7 for you, might be a HB9 for someone else, and vice versa.

Plus, I bet that the scale shifts depending on the quality of women you have had the chance of ; Coming from a place abundant with "Super-hot-babes"(tm), I remember being called chauvinist and "ridiculous in my standards" while in United Kingdom, since I found huge majority of girls there sub-par (i.e., 80% of women were <HB7 in my eyes).

What I've noticed, though, is that there seems to be a general "ratio" in our heads of rating HB's by abundance.

Allow me to explain:
Say you live in A, and the percentage of HB7/HB8/HB9/HB9.99's one meets is 15/10/5/1%. So, one out of seven girls is a HB7, one out of 10 is a HB8 and so on (rates may vary)

If you move to a new place (B) and suddenly find yourself meeting HB9's 10% of the time (1 out of 10, instead of 1 out of 20), subconsciously you relegate them to HB8's over time, since the general numbers show there can't be that many HB9's out there, and whole quality scale shifts, introducing hotter girls than you ever met at the very top of the scale.

The quality of women, therefore, in B is somewhat higher than in A. However, if you spent your whole time in either A or B, there is no way to find out how that quality is different in your place compared to others.

Now, I don't think it works exactly the same if you moved from B to A. Sure, scale may shift somewhat, but since you have seen the quality of HB9's at B, the same women regarded as HB9's in A are now only HB8's in your eyes. Just like once I've got a 40" TV, I couldn't get back to using a 21" TV - once you get a taste of better, it stays.

And now, with advent of internet/tv media, it is easy to get to see the top of the scale, and reserve the HB8.5+ spots for the very gorgeous women that are very hard to find; Look at some random scary movie or something - the girls there are often handpicked babes, all HB8.5-HB9.5's. However, since that is all the girls you see when watching the movie, you subconsciously spread them out to "fit the scale", so the HB8.5 becomes "Meh, she's a seven, I guess" and so on;

So, are you sure you are not rating girls you are getting with too low? Would you mind posting examples of what you would call a HB7/7.5, since I'm rather curious (I don't mean *your* HB7/7.5's, I mean some random girls of the net that fit into the rating for you)?
 

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I have never been able to rate on a scale of 0-10.

Maybe my games not good enough, but whenever i see the type of girl that makes all the guys jaws hit the floor, i usually don't think she's that attractive.

Is there even really a point in rating below a 6? My friends will be like "she was a four, five at best" but all i really think is "would i want to fvck her."

I guess i just don't get it.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
I've hooked up with one 9 and two 8.5's. The 9 and one 8.5 were some sort of cluster b sluts. The other 8.5 has a history of dating shorter guys. So I dont expect them and it would be unrealistic and a self-****block to expect only that. It is vitally important that you are realistic about your own smv to avoid dry spells and frustration. For the longest time I did not realize that just because youre a cute pretty boy does not make you a 9.9/10 lol. Also it was really hard to come back to reality after these women. I met all three in social circle, i can't get past a number close with 8.5's in a club and 9's won't look at me (height...grrrr).

The rest of the girls I date are all 7-8's. With an 8 right now but id be happy with a 7...any lower and Im a cheating risk, although there are girls that are objectively 5-6s that I have crushes on for whatever reason.

Yep...number closing the really hot ones means very little....mine are all flaking lately...with a few exceptions here and there of course...
 

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zinc4 said:
I have been thinking lately that i have been underachieving settling for HB 7-7.5s......a few HB8s here and there....one HB8.5 a few weeks back who i banged her friend and it blew up in my face...but what is the significance really of getting with the top tier looking women.....is it ego purely? Or their bodies...i have become immune to onitis and never emotionally invest in any girl...that is an alien feeling to me at this stage in the game....so that is not a problem...

I just don't like the feeling of underachieving....i feel like i should have a stable of 8.5 and 9s at my disposal instead of my 7-7.5s...i am taking the easy way out by settling with lesser looking women.....how much emphasis do you guys place on looks and how often are you banging the best looking chicks?
When I first started this game, I had a date with a 9 that went nowhere because I was so clueless. After that there were several 6-7's which really wasn't what I was looking for. As I perfected my skills and gained more confidence in my abilities, I went for hotter women and got hotter women. Eventually I was able to get 8's on a regular basis. I've had two 9's in my entire life, which was the one I went out on a date with and then another that turned into a girlfriend. Both had a lot of issues upstairs and were not good long term prospects.

For me, acquiring an HB9 was the ultimate goal. I went out and did something that the majority of men never do. Once it was over, it didn't take long to realize it was no big deal but it did teach me that I can accomplish whatever I set my mind to. I used to want a girl with perfect fake boobs. Once I had that 3 or 4 times I realized fake boobs were no big deal either much like having an HB9 for a girlfriend. A woman's physical beauty does not have the power over me it once had.

So to answer your question, no guy is banging the best looking girls 24-7 unless he's a rockstar/actor. There simply aren't enough HB9's to go around. I'd say if you can put together a stable of HB8's you are doing pretty good. A lot depends on where you live and how much time you have to devote. I always found the largest quantities of the best looking women in the high end bars/clubs. Luckily in my city there are plenty of those.
 

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To be honest, I have gotten to be very picky about rating girls lately. In fact, at the moment I can't think of a single girl I would give an 8.5 or over to. I have known a few, but their personalities were massively fvcked.

If a girl is really, really hot I might give her an 8, or an 8.2 or something like that.

1-800-HellNo said:
Is there even really a point in rating below a 6? My friends will be like "she was a four, five at best" but all i really think is "would i want to fvck her."
To me, a five is a girl I might think about doing, if I were really desperate or really drunk, but when it comes right down to it, I'm not going to do it. But four and below, yeah, not even worth listing. I agree six and above are doable, and that's about it.
 

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Several things I've noticed since my game has improved:

1. The distribution has refined. Before I was getting with anyone from 4-8. Now let's say it's 6.5-8.5

2. It's much easier to get with those on the bottom end of the spectrum. Used to have to bring my A game to get with a 7. Now it's like taking candy from a baby.

3. My ranking system has changed. Girls I thought were 8s from way back when were really 7s etc...

I guess in answer to your question, "several" but I don't think it's the best way to determine success or improvement.
 
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