So a few weeks ago, I was out celebrating my birthday with some close friends, we joined up with girl A, a girl I know from a long time ago and a couple of new girls she was with.
I'd already had the lecture from girl A about not bedding any of her friends, but I thought I'd have a bit of fun and just go crazy with what you guys probably call "****y and funny" - my natural style is to rip into chicks pretty hard and dark, but smile and play it off afterwards. This has had a range of results, from getting me laid to reducing a girl to tears (she was overly sensitive and PMSing, and I felt pretty bad about it afterwards. I'm not a bastard.)
Anyway, one of her friends, roughly HB7, who we'll call girl B seemed pretty offended by my attitude and actually ended up screwing one of my friends (who badly needed to get laid, so that was a result). They've been screwing ever since, and sometimes she comes over and chills out at our flat. She now knows I'm not such a hardass the whole time, only to strange girls for kicks.
Then yesterday, I came into the room and they were talking about me:
Me: Did I hear my name? Are you ladies gossiping again?
Girl B: Yeah, I was just saying how funny it is that on your birthday, I totally thought you hated me, otherwise I probably would have ended up in your bed.
My friend: ...
That exchange just blew my mind. She said that in front of my friend who she's sleeping with! They're only casual, but that still strikes me as unbelievably disrespectful. Maybe I'm too old-fashioned?
Just another insight into the sort of crazy we're up against!
I'd already had the lecture from girl A about not bedding any of her friends, but I thought I'd have a bit of fun and just go crazy with what you guys probably call "****y and funny" - my natural style is to rip into chicks pretty hard and dark, but smile and play it off afterwards. This has had a range of results, from getting me laid to reducing a girl to tears (she was overly sensitive and PMSing, and I felt pretty bad about it afterwards. I'm not a bastard.)
Anyway, one of her friends, roughly HB7, who we'll call girl B seemed pretty offended by my attitude and actually ended up screwing one of my friends (who badly needed to get laid, so that was a result). They've been screwing ever since, and sometimes she comes over and chills out at our flat. She now knows I'm not such a hardass the whole time, only to strange girls for kicks.
Then yesterday, I came into the room and they were talking about me:
Me: Did I hear my name? Are you ladies gossiping again?
Girl B: Yeah, I was just saying how funny it is that on your birthday, I totally thought you hated me, otherwise I probably would have ended up in your bed.
My friend: ...
That exchange just blew my mind. She said that in front of my friend who she's sleeping with! They're only casual, but that still strikes me as unbelievably disrespectful. Maybe I'm too old-fashioned?
Just another insight into the sort of crazy we're up against!
