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Its good that you managed to get that close with her. BUT It's gotta keep progressing physically and everything else I've said still stands to drive her IL high. Don't get comfortable at hand holding and hugs, get her into bed, get her to cook for you etc etc Again her attachment to...

In one of your threads I concluded that she just wasn't really into you (based on your post). She obviously didn't dislike you enough to turn down a date. Even if she had told you she loves you, need to see through this and look at her actions. And you should also be working to raise...

That's a profound statement. When in a relationship that goes the distance, perhaps this is the secret element that keeps the sparks going? It's so easy for either party to get comfortable, such hardwork. I hate the fact that I get the feeling of not missing the girl, usually the...

Has she always been like this? If she teases you (which is different from insulting you) just tease her back. Maybe for that particular moment, like give her a big paternal face and pinch her cheeks "aawww am I your big dawwky waaaky guy then?" then laugh, give a big bear hug and snort like a...

I wouldn't measure it out in conversations, I would save it for special romantic moments to give it some extra oomth. It needs to be tense enough so my girl jumps my bones when I say it. Meanwhile I give her affirmation in other ways Kaine

Karma has nothing to do with it. He's just naturally feeling a sense of satisfaction knowing that the girl who rejected him is realising what a catch he was. It's good to be on the other end of the stick. Enjoy. Kaine

What did she mean by burden? Was she unsure about whether you cared? You need to calibrate your behaviour, maybe you were been too detached. I am not too clear on your details but don't be too quick to next her. Kaine

Trance Is this the same girl you have mentioned in past that wanted a break because her friends were talking s.hit behind your back? So this is the second breakup drama? Kaine

1. Compliment on her when you mean it and rarely. Too much of a good thing loses it's a affect. Occassionally take the compliment back (soft neghit). 2. Lead her, women are attracted to men who lead. When she asks you to make a decision for her do it. 3. Don't show her that you think too...

Yes definately, the younger the girl the more their expectations will have been defined more by the media, hollywood etc. Also their expectations may have been built up by a history of dating AFCs who have been kissing their a$$ and been a nice guy. In these cases it won't be unusual that...

Yes it is quite a learning curve to give them just enough attention so they keep wanting more. Each girl is different, and in their individual experiences they will likely have unique expectations. Some may expect more attention from you in a certain way. I think success in keeping a girl...

These are all good signs of interest if done in a playful way in return. Kaine

Sounds to like she is using s3x to control you. I agree with the suggestion to play hard to get. In this case it comes off to me that she is acting like a drug dealer selling crack to a crack addict. If you guys don't act needy for s3x then woman won't use it control you. You need to...

Agree. You handed your balls to her. You were e.a.s.y and now she thinks you are like everyother AFC chump out there. She will try to maintain her higher value over you this includes game playing and generally disrepecting you. Good fun Kaine

My definition of a good girl only extends to her attitude. Does she sleep with a guy she wants to persue a relationship with or does she sleep with guys for the sexual experience. All girls can get a little "freaky", which is fine and fun, but when she does one night stands just to get off...

I feel compelled to post because I feel like we share a similar experience. I thought I was dating a good girl. She was young and I was her second BF. She cheated and I dumped her, did and pretty much did the whole theatrical thing too. She cryed and bought me expensive gifts etc. I succumbed...

You've had ONE date Don't expect much unless you came off as prince fcking charming. or are actually in a relationship with her. Don't overanalyse Give her the benefit of the doubt, if she gives another lame excuse after that then let her go. Meanwhile feel free to date other girls...

She's gotten emotionally attached to you She's either doing a pull on you by playing hard to get or she's found enough strength to end it (situational) Either way you are laid back Let her reinitiate contact Kaine

Great thread, I can imagine how tiring and challenging it is for you. I don't think anyone has suggested that you keep her around as a fcukbuddy yet. Tell her that you've lost all respect for her and that you don't feel as strongly as before. Tell her that she can see you but you don't...

Skinnydart, she likes you, but not likes you likes you. A girl that is really into you will be interested in you. Treat her as a friend and get her to hook you up with one of her hot friends. Kaine