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An attractive man would go and watch if it interested him and he didn't have to sacrifice anything. He may even be a little ****y and funny about it or ask for something in return You need to read some more works by Pook etc, you are overanalysing things Kaine

Frivolous, I agree that you need to give women affection and attention in a LTR but I sense you are treading on dangerous ground, and your advice a little borderline Here's my 2 cents about how you can help safeguard yourself from potential heartbreak while things are still good...

"I said thats OK and asked if I should give up on her." It is unattractive to woman when a man ASKS her what he should do. A man needs to take the lead and and act, the woman will respond accordingly. That sentence was certainly a kiss of death, and reeked of neediness. You should have...

When she is the one calling you Reaching for your hand Asking to hang out with you Doing favors for you and buying you gifts FOR your attention Then that is her chasing you When she does something nice for you, then reciprocate with a little something. Its like a reward system...

Hehehe Penkitten is right Do romantic things sparingly and only as a reward for her good behaviour Otherwise it is not challenging, she MAY appreciate it initially but it is ammo for certain death in the long run. She will subconsciously think you are buying her attention Give her...

Definately "I love you" might have been the last nail in the coffin. Challenge is a definate requirement in maintaining attraction, and this means getting her to chase you for affirmation of love and committment. I recommend generally not to push too much, and let her be the one to do it, if she...

Drama has such a negative connotation. Sensuality and Romance is also drama Playfulness causes drama Rockclimbing and boxing is dramatic Actually by definition anything that causes a moving change in emotion can be defined as drama Fact of the matter woman are emotional...

rjherche: There's nothing wrong with mixing things up and keeping things exciting. However you need to do it in a non supplicating way. When you said: "I'm going to dress up for you" This is supplication. If you do something to impress her, the last thing you should do is verbalise...

Yeah I had the same problem too, except they were both swedish twins. I busted them in bed with my dog, my grandma, boss and what's worse they had used my electric toothbrush in the process of doing the dirty. I got a new toothbrush but can anyone give me advice on how I can stop my dog...

How old did you say Brad Pitt was again??? Kaine

It would depend on which culture they were raised, i.e. expect higher mileage from Americanised Sex and the City types. Kaine

"You must have missed the part where I said we have a weird relationship." You missed the part where she was hitting on you. Did you escalate it? Did she actually say NO! Don't listen to her words, look at her actions Lead her and go for home run Kaine

You let her go when she insists on going over to your house, hits on you while she is there and you ask is she a **** tease? :crackup: What? Do you need a formal invitation or a letter from her mom? Kaine

"If you really love a chick, you can easily say I love you. After the first date you really love a woman, tell her." Guys....This is an excellent example of what not to do. You can never stop been challenging, especially in an LTR ever. She cannot feel attraction for someone she does not...

Be mysterious about your past, but don't be apologetic for your desires as a man. Not all things need to be said. You can be ****y and funny about it and not give her a direct answer. Or you can perhaps give her a challenging answer, "You know I've always played around, but I'm always...

Too much rapport and not enough attraction = you become her girlfriend and boring. Girls need a man who can't be controlled in order to feel attraction. Kaine

Looks are important But power and confidence are even more so especially for the long term game Its all about attraction. Your aura can make up for superficial appearance. But firstly STOP moaning and start doing something about:: It's pretty obvious what you need to do...

Telling her you love her indicates that she has you. This is antichallenge. If you still have AFC tendencies once you go down this path you need to be particularly mindful of supplicating behaviour. The most important thing is to maintain the dominant leader frame always. And never allow...

I'd like to know how does been a jerk correlate to having good genes? Is this not a pattern of behaviour and hence psychological, therefore not purely genetic? Kaine

Love the example. I wonder what proportion of girls feel this way, if so whether the majority suffer some kind of insecurity issue. Kaine