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Forget about whether mentioning the dad would score any points with her. Common concern and courtesy should come into play in these situations no matter who you're talking to. Whether it's a male friend, an old lady, an old man, a woman you're attracted to, or some kid you were talking to, you...

Let's give her the benefit of the doubt and say she was a legitimate rape victim. I think most people, if they could figure out a way to help a person get over it, would. Unfortunately, it seems to be more dependent on the individual's resilience and reaction to it after the fact. Will she...

I can't believe most people aren't seeing through this. The media has an agenda and I believe there are people in positions of power that are fueling this agenda. Basically, this was nothing more than a case of 2 people who handled a situation very badly and caused it to escalate into a violent...

I could see this particular scenario as being a possibility. When it comes to women, one of the sayings many of them practically live by is "A bird in the hand is worth 2 in the bush.". In a scenario where she chooses to stay with an inferior man in spite of having better options or in this...

Life is a mix of positive and negative. I'm in no way emotionally invested in what people think of the quality of advice given here on this forum. It's a mixed bag really and you're better off comparing what you read with your own direct experience. Does what is being said match up? Does it...

He barged into your home and threatened your life and you want to be discreet? Reread my first reply. I told you what you needed to do. Now you choose to ignore the good advice. If you ignore it, you deserve whatever bad consequences come from it. Without a paper trail, it's a no-win for you...

A few low-cost deterrants. When you leave the house, create the impression that someone is home. Leave either the TV or radio on with enough volume so it can be heard. That will leave a twinge of doubt in a would-be intruder's mind. Do not tell people you do this. Just do it. Most home invaders...

Any time threats of violence are involved, put your tax dollars to work and file a police report. There are several reasons for this. Predatory type personalities are only encouraged when people feel isolated like there is no one to turn to. He thinks that since he hasn't actually assaulted...

Some guys might have sex without a condom and give a woman they just met oral, but that's playing with fire and they are taking a huge chance. They probably have or have had an STD in the past.

Alvafe said that you like the idea of marriage for life and I'd agree with him. You like the idea of marriage for life, you got attached to the idea, your ex is even tied up with this idea in your head, but is it the real her or the fake her that you fell in love with in the beginning? Is it the...

You have to treat giving women oral the same way you treat having sex without a condom. Only do this with women you're sure are clean. In other words, only with women you're in a long-term relationship with and are 100% sure about. Do NOT do this with a woman you just met. That's really the only...

OC Speedball said : There should be a trade-off, yes. But you both need to be equals. The idea of "equals" is a myth. No woman that I know of is my equal. I am the leader and have my own good qualities. She may have her own desirable qualities too. Male and female complement each other but...

Accidentally erased my reply. Sorry/

It cracks me up because I saw this topic (and the video linked in it) back when you first started it. Now every time I see Burroughs referring or linking to a topic, about 9 times out of 10 it's this one. It's like an advertisement! Actually, the funny part is I predict it every time. The topic...

I think me and betheman have a mind-meld going on.

That's the wrong question. You've got it backwards. You should always be asking if she's worth your time, in spite of her looks. Is she going to be problematic and a pain in the a$$? Maybe I'll get tired of her b.s. Very attractive women can also be problematic which can offset their looks...

jjensen, She is the poster child of the worthless, lazy, emotionally screwed-up, drugged up pathological liar. Are you really dumb enough to believe what she says about being pregnant with your child after this being just another of her countless lies? Even if she was pregnant, i doubt it's...

If she wants a decent chance at me, she should be putting some effort into competing. *** The past with her wasn't so great so why revisit it? So... I have no clue what to do with this woman. *** If you had no emotional investment you would have a clue. Should I fvck her and leave...

Meeting women isn't really that huge of a deal. It's actually better to take a minimalist approach to meeting women. The funny thing is, being extremely interested in other things and not making women the most important thing in your life can make it more likely you'll take a minimalist approach...

This is part of a comment someone else made that I totally agree with. Realize the truth behind it and you'll be better off. Mark Minter said: "No matter how beautiful a woman is, no matter how accomplished, no matter how much she brings to the table, she is still a cost, a liability, a...