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The problem with Jay's response is that it simply fed into her false world view that she is some kind of prize, which she isn't. It also tells me that on some level you feel (at least with her) that you have to pay a woman or do things for her in exchange for sex, when in reality, if a woman is...

p.s. As a sidenote, and in all seriousness, most of the time when a woman threatens suicide, she won't go through with it and is using it as a way to manipulate you. She wants to force a decision by scaring you into not leaving. Ultimately, if you're really concerned, instead of telling her...

Hahahaha! I don't know why but for some reason this cracked me up! Seriously though, this is a case where Soulforge is in lust and is mistaking it for love. This woman is messed up and has a lot of behavioral and psychological issues. If I were in your shoes, I would avoid sex with her at all...

This shouldn't be so hard for you to grasp. If you're dating someone and she sleeps with someone else behind your back, you dump her. It's also very disrespectful for her to go on a ski trip with her ex after you started dating. And so what if it was just a day trip and not an overnight trip...

This isn't about your insecurities. This is about a man being disrespectful and not taking no for an answer. It's also a lesson in how women don't do a good job of setting boundaries. They say "no" in a half-a$$ed manner because they fear confrontation. At this point, I think leaving worked to...

Make her surrender to what? First, women don't have a mental picture of Peewee Herman when they say this. They have a mental picture of a man they are attracted to. First, be attractive or find a woman that finds you attractive, then make it easy for her to surrender to her own desires.

It sounds like she wants nothing to do with him and the ex is being disrespectful and won't take no for an answer. In the old days if a person harrassed you non-stop and wouldn't leave you alone, you could just take a six-shooter and blow his brains out or you could run him through with a sword...

Atom Smasher said : It would be a cold day in hell before I let either a kid or a pet in my bed. Exactly. When pigs fly and hell freezes over and when Antarctica melts over and becomes a desert. The kids get enough attention all day. There's no valid excuse for parents to allow a child to...

Backbreaker, I think you're forgetting who the parents are. Rule #1- Parents should never allow their children to run their lives. He can hardly think and reason, and as of just recently, would sh*t himself like a dog. You had to train him LIKE A DOG, not to sh*t himself or sh*t on the floor...

You're probably wondering why Danger said this. On the surface it seems cold IF you live in fantasy land. That's where most men live. In fantasy land. Most men believe that when they meet a single mother and choose to take her children under their care that these women will be sweet, kind, and...

He's right. You don't play her games. If the relationship starts to turn sour, you're better off just walking away, or if you have the same code of ethics that most women have, then meet another one before dumping your current girlfriend. I actually don't reccommend doing that but breaking clean...

In a situation like this, I will say that the moment she wants you to be part of her life with a 3-year old son, is the moment when all of the fun you're having now will start to diminish. Maybe not all at once but slowly. The more light and fun and un-involved with her life you can be, the...

Now she calls me insecure via her facebook status. Now she claims that SHE broke up with me. *** So she cheated on you, then she badmouths you, and then she lies to everyone. Sounds to me like a real winner. Many times in the past appeared to be sad through her posts ***Why should you care...

Thanks to SoSuave666 for solving the problem and to Bradd80 for offering to help via PM. I also appreciate Beginning DJs response. Unfortunately it didn't resolve the problem but I appreciate taking your time to try to help.

Moderators, Hi. First, I know you don't have to be moderators and it's voluntary, so I appreciate it. Now on to my issue. I recently gave a lot of thought and time to replying to a certain topic only to see the topic completely erased (which means my replies were erased as well). I could have...

She's just a low-quality woman. Picture being her boyfriend and dealing with her and her drug habit and then getting a phone call from police that she was arrested for burglary, fraud, possession of narcotics, forged bills, and committing a felony while on bail. Sounds like nothing but a...

Her showing a unique interest in me would apply to a fling or a long-term relationship. You bring up a good point when you mention observing her interactions with other men. This is so automatic with me that I didn't even think to mention this. I simply assumed other people do this. A woman who...

Ronniel said: I' m not sure about going complete NC though. Wouldn't this seem that i'm bitter towards her? (which is an emotion itself and means that i care) You should completely avoid contact with her. Don't worry about whether or not she thinks you're bitter. And yes, you do care, not about...

Mike Ock said: The real issue at play here is to never, EVER get so attached to a woman that you can't bounce back in short order if she packs up and leaves. *** I definitely agree and would go one step further and say to never get so attached to a woman that you couldn't pack up and leave...

Belt, There's nothing wrong with having kids if that's what you want to do. I noticed in your entire reply, not once did you talk about what you want. Now I wonder, does she talk about giving you everything you want as a husband and in a marriage, or is this just a one-sided effort to make...