Agreed... there's a lot of chumps and losers out there... it's very easy to stand out, and appeal to women. You might end up being "fake", but that's how it is. This is the game you signed up for. You can't just be your plain self, and expect to get noticed. It doesn't work for women, does it? The plain Janes get married, or whatever, and you could too... with them. But that's not what you want. Well, you gotta put in the effort.PoonChaser said:
I don't agree with not fitting in, and being an outsider, though. It's better to be unique, so long as it's done in a manner where you stand out and appeal to women. And really, you'll end up being an outsider regardless, because people want everyone to be on their wave-length, and tear down those who rise above them. They're not interested in seeing someone who has nicer things than them, has a more appealing personality, attracts better looking women, isn't just a full of bull**** braggart who talks about getting laid with their boyfriends, etc... especially if you aren't deemed "one of them". Most ****s out there can't get ****, and believe this is how it is (or should be) for everyone, so who cares about them. Don't listen to their BS about what you "should" do - when they aren't getting ****. Always do you, and don't give a damn what others think, or trying to fit in and being on their level (of not getting ****, and being a loser).
It's a very good thing to exceed others, stand out, and be different. Even insofar as being laid back, a little stuck up, mysterious, independent, free-going, and ****y... guys may not like this, and will shun you for being different, but who gives a ****. You're not there to make friends. Just make sure everything you do appeals to women. Most of what appeals to one is a turn off to the other - especially when you're attracting what they want. Being "one of the guys" does nothing to attract women, so don't even worry about that. In fact, chicks dig the opposite.
