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  1. Rollo Tomassi

    The idea of multiple women

    It's not that you shouldn't pay particular attention to an individual woman, it's understanding why you are. Are you doing so at the exclusion of all else? Is her interest reciprocated? Answers to questions like these can verify ONEitis. Very few men - and particularly those seeking advice...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    This is just going to come back around to definitions again. "Ho" is just as ambiguous as "Quality Woman." Girl who cheated on you (for any reason) = Ho. Girl who accepts your approach and becomes intimate with you (thus affirming your imagined standards) = Quality Woman. Shoot the arrow, paint...
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    First of all, it's important not to think in terms of absolutes. I use the overweight issue to describe less than desirable traits with regards to an HB6-7 for sake illustration. What is it that separates an HB 5 from an HB 9? I key this on physical, sexual desirability and sexual availability...
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    Absurd online "laundry list"

    Heh, are you using the profile description I wrote? LMAO,..I realize Plentyoffish isn't the best example of online dating sites, but it's sh!t like this that stops me in my tracks when I read about some guy telling me how "great his online game is".
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    The inverse relationship between looks and character

    Well, this may come as a shock for you, but I don't entirely disagree with this observation. Strictly, from a behavior-to-reward practicality, COLOSSUS is really pointing out the obvious - exceptionally attractive women are more often rewarded and reinforced by unsolicited attention from both...
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    Self limiting beliefs kill dreams

    I actually hate posting brief, pithy truisms like that, but it really applies. And yes, it's all in the application too, but you MUST have the sack to take action, to risk. I often get into one of my "moods" about offering advice here and with other men and women I counsel because of exactly...
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    Absurd online "laundry list"

    JANE, if you're going to continue to post in the Mature Man's forum you're going to need to put an age on your profile. Read the Rules
  8. Rollo Tomassi

    Why is my confidence so low?

    The first resort of the insecure is to project faults and insecurities onto others in order to feel better about themselves. Do not accept this. Law 10: Infection: Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky You can die from someone else's misery— emotional states are as infectious as diseases. You may...
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    Self limiting beliefs kill dreams

    Losers visualize the penalties of failure. Winners visualize the rewards of success.
  10. Rollo Tomassi

    Is this forum anti-marriage

    I think that if this forum comes off as anti-marriage it's because it draws attention to the fundamentals of what the "marriage arrangement" has evolved into. As I stated prior, I'm not anti-marriage, nor do I think that it's inherently bad - it's just been perverted, misdirected and capitalized...
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    How Much do you Drink when you Go Out ?

    I work in the alcohol industry, so believe me when I say that I can completely understand the trend of "pre-boozing" in this day & age. It's simple practicality when a high ball or a martini runs $9 to $15 on a weekend (hell, a damn domestic beer will cost you $4 at some places)at a decent club...
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    How Much do you Drink when you Go Out ?

    Martinis are like t!tties - One is too few and three is too many.
  13. Rollo Tomassi

    Man-up

    No, just the ones you'd want to ƒuck.
  14. Rollo Tomassi

    Is this forum anti-marriage

    She loves you when she takes you for granted. That sounds odd I know, but it's when she's not fawning all over you and you're in your 10th year of marriage and it's just part of everyday conversation. "OK, love you, bye" is at the end of every phone call. You're not thinking about it, because...
  15. Rollo Tomassi

    Man-up

    This is from part what I posted in the Positive Masculinity thread. The "man-up" terminology is a perfect example of this male gender Catch 22. When a woman says to you, "Man Up", the context is entirely different than when another male tells you to. When a woman uses 'Man Up' it's used in the...
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    Funniest videos on YouTube

    Liam Lynch = Funny as hell http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pj6qv1iZJWo http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PSIF1d5tT8&feature=related
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    Positive Masculinity: Where to start?

    For the most part you're asking the same question here, just restated. And you'll be happy to know I agree with your perspective to a certain degree as well, but there is no grand conspiracy, no secret mysterious cabal pushing a negative perception of masculinity - and this is exactly why what...
  18. Rollo Tomassi

    Money for Pu$$y

    How to spot a rich guy
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    Stupid online dating phrases that women use

    'I need to be treated like a princess' Read this thread. Quite possible the funniest one ever created on SS.
  20. Rollo Tomassi

    The real secret to getting women

    Confidence comes from acknowledging ones own options, and or the proven ability to generate more. Translation of the OP: I'm comfortable in my nice warm Matrix, and you should be too, so just be yourself and women will want you for who you are. AFCs are like crabs in a barrel; as soon as one...
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