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Actually, my ex Emma and my flatmate Claire are honest with themselves about the seduction game - they generally give quite good DJ advice. They like to play mind games. But then my brother's GF says stuff like "call her the same day and make her feel special". Like blitz said, be wary and...

Hmm thanks guys! OK, number one lesson I guess is LESS DRINK. I can't seem to get into the right mood without a few beers but maybe I have been going overboard. Getting caught out lying is NOT good either, so ur probably right about the brother/sister act. Perdon my newbieness, what's...

Hey Ulsterman, there is a NAME for northern UK and its SCOTLAND. And yes a lot of us say "us" in the singular. We also have a plural of "you" which is "yous". Makes sense I think. Dave which shoe shop? I'm in Glasgow, maybe I'll give her a try hehe

OK this is quite complicated, but I hope someone can give me some pointers cuz my head's going in circles! SAT 29/06 I was out with my 4 year ex - Emma - as friends on the pull together. We help each other out and masquerade as brother and sister. We have been friends for over a year...

I am from a little town called Ayr and I just moved to the city (Glasgow) a couple of months ago to meet new friends and more importantly chicks! I found the best way to meet people is just find a club you like and go out and have a good time. Talk to everyone! Treat everyone as your friend...

yea its mad in the UK with txting. everyones a txt junkie - i had 300 free txts a month on my phone at one point. losing that phone was the best thing i ever did! its bad cuz you never really know for sure if (when u dont get an instant reply) if youre being ignored, or if the person is...

Since I found this site I have met about 10 cute chicks that I see regularly and even got intimate with to varying degrees. But not one of them is as involved my life as I would like. I think even one or 2 AFC mistakes is enough to screw your chances, as well as trying too hard to...

I started seeing this cute chick KB (7.5) on the rebound after a 4 year relationship (with an 8.5), then ended it after a month cuz I "wasnt ready for another committment". Thing is, KB wanted to keep seeing me (ie having sex), even when i started seeing this other cutie, DD (7). I was...

silver, i seen three posts about this same chick :) i think u already lost her by caring so much. u learned for next time right?

Well, I didn't define love, just the AFC "in love" concept. Let me try LOVE: 1) Trust (being able to share inner feelings, and believe promises) 2) Companionship (true ease of "being yourself" in each other's company) 3) Understanding (instinctively "knowing" where each other is coming...

Maybe the fact that she never challanged you (tried to make you angry) was a bad thing. I reckon guys like a bit of drama too from time to time. Plus, guys are always gonna look elsewhere no matter how much they love their woman. I suspect that this is what makes you a man comote :)

Yea, I can see what you're saying too. I understand that the kind of intimacy you get with your girlfriend(s), can generate companionship on a new level (ie. you'd tell your LTGF stuff you wouldn't tell your mates and vice versa). You can therefore love her on a deeper level. But it's still...

Most are lying to themselves ;) My definition is the make up behind the AFC's mythical "in love" romantic ideal. I built this description up from my own experiences (once I stopped lying to myself) and most relationships I see around me day to day between the unenlightened. The point I'm...

I cheated on my 4 year ex right at the start and owned up to it the next day without getting caught. In a way it cemented us (she knew I would always tell her if I did it again) and killed us (she always EXPECTED me to do it again). No regrets.... not now I'm a DJ :)

OK, my definition of IN LOVE 1)Sexual attraction 2)Companionship (friendship?) 3)Infatuation (obsession?) 4)Possessiveness (jealousy?) 5)Inadequacy (thinking you can't do any better) 6)Complacency (thinking you don't HAVE to do any better) Any I missed?

how serious is herpes? can someone answer this? im getting tested on thursday....

I'm still pining for my first love deep down, even though I know the truth we should all here know. But seeing it eloquently described in such a fashion helps me put it into perspective even more. FlyGuy you are describing companionship. Same as you would get with any good friend - just add...

I met this french-canadian chick in a club once. I caught her looking at me a couple of times, so i went to talk to her. She was quite aloof and showed me no interest, so I went away - but I could still tell she was looking. I kept going back and she kept refusing my advances and acting all...

i'm in GLASGOW too dave11. i managed to pull some chicks in the garage niteclub tho... sadly, i can only seem to meet chicks in a nightclub or bar (lots of) but never in the street/supermarket/etc im not sure if its cos I'm drunk, or cos THEYRE drunk, or both, or because maybe, just maybe...

lol i spent friday night before last in a police cell cuz some slease was harassing a girl i was with, and she asked me to help out. my advice to save A)being kicked out, B)bruising your pretty face and knuckles C)sharing my fate on a concrete slab is: tell the bouncers about the slease -...