silverwex
Master Don Juan
hi all,
right theres this girl who i was seeing for a week or two, things were going slowly, but surely, and we both seemed to be having a laugh.
Anyway i asked her out one night and she said yeah. The night of the date came and she pulled out (coz she was 'busy' going for a fitness walk with her friend). I said ok, and met her the same night after her walk, walked her home, teased her, applied C+F etc. We were having a laugh and then i turned serious for a minuet saying usually i dont accpect it when girls pull out of dates. After this we went back to kissing and talking.
She then contacted me the day after saying, "are u looking for a serious relationship coz i dnt think im ready for one yet". I said no, justa casual thing. Didnt hear back from her.
Then last friday night i saw her out, told myself to wait for her to come to me first. She did. I then did something AFC - apologised for getting serious with her bout the date. She said its ok. We kissed. Then i told her id better let her go back off to her friends and i got back to mine.
NExt night, saw her in a bar, ignored her, she also ignored me. HEaded onto a club and saw her again. Once again she ignored me. A while later i went over to her and tried to talk to her but she said she had to go off somewhere and walked off.
HEr friend then asked her what the story between her and me was. She said she just wanted to have fun but she did like me.
I said fine, and asked her friend to dance, we frenched. Then when i came back i saw 'my girl' kissing some other fella (a friend of hers). I couldnt handle it and left the club. (apparently before they frenched, 'my girls' friend told her i had frenched with her).
ANyway i went out again the next night and she was frenching the same fella again. It hit me bad.
The thing i wanna know is should i contact her, in say, 2 weeks and ask her hows she getting on? OR should i ignore her and see if she contacts me first?
Thanks guys. Im beginning to get over her but sometimes it comes back and hits me hard!
right theres this girl who i was seeing for a week or two, things were going slowly, but surely, and we both seemed to be having a laugh.
Anyway i asked her out one night and she said yeah. The night of the date came and she pulled out (coz she was 'busy' going for a fitness walk with her friend). I said ok, and met her the same night after her walk, walked her home, teased her, applied C+F etc. We were having a laugh and then i turned serious for a minuet saying usually i dont accpect it when girls pull out of dates. After this we went back to kissing and talking.
She then contacted me the day after saying, "are u looking for a serious relationship coz i dnt think im ready for one yet". I said no, justa casual thing. Didnt hear back from her.
Then last friday night i saw her out, told myself to wait for her to come to me first. She did. I then did something AFC - apologised for getting serious with her bout the date. She said its ok. We kissed. Then i told her id better let her go back off to her friends and i got back to mine.
NExt night, saw her in a bar, ignored her, she also ignored me. HEaded onto a club and saw her again. Once again she ignored me. A while later i went over to her and tried to talk to her but she said she had to go off somewhere and walked off.
HEr friend then asked her what the story between her and me was. She said she just wanted to have fun but she did like me.
I said fine, and asked her friend to dance, we frenched. Then when i came back i saw 'my girl' kissing some other fella (a friend of hers). I couldnt handle it and left the club. (apparently before they frenched, 'my girls' friend told her i had frenched with her).
ANyway i went out again the next night and she was frenching the same fella again. It hit me bad.
The thing i wanna know is should i contact her, in say, 2 weeks and ask her hows she getting on? OR should i ignore her and see if she contacts me first?
Thanks guys. Im beginning to get over her but sometimes it comes back and hits me hard!
