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I have been through similar experiences. A 4 year relationship that ended turning me into an afc, and meeting a seemingly perfect girl that I could not fall for because of comparing her to the first girl (that ended and funnily made me more of an afc). But the general conclusion I made -...

One of the best posts I read in the DJ bible was to plan in the long term. Think how youre going to deal with the woman of your dreams when you actually MEET her, 2 years down the line! Everythin in between is just learning material. Every girl you meet until then is just practise! Sorry I...

if they dont wanna take ur hand then ur screwed, otherwise it always seems to work... theyre usually drunk remember lol if she doesnt, theres 50 more who will

eye contact + smile reciprocated? repeatedly? take her hand and ease in slowly ;)

i been going clubbing with a DJ mindset for a few weeks and at first i was out for one reason - to find a hot chick for ONS or LTR! Well I got a good few dances and kisses but no digits and only 7/10 or 8/10 chicks. on friday there i went out with a bunch of my friends and said from the start...

I kinda got the impression that a DJ combines the positive qualities of both the Jerk and the AFC, while casting off the negative ones, to create a perfect hybrid that meets every womans requirements for any length of relationship - if it's done properly (still learning :)).

Don't care, don't try, just do.

Think of it this way, lets say you did win her back, and you stayed together, had kids, house, car etc. When youre 45 and getting divorced you're gonna look back and think "Man, I coulda had so much fun when I was young and handsome, DJing all these different women, living my life to the max...

Okay I've been thinking about it and must confess ur right that I had some experience to my advantage. I have slept with 18 women in my life, some babes and some stinkers. But the fact remains that at the point I found this site, I was in the same state of mind as any other...

I pity those immature halfwits. They're probably jealous cos they don't have the motivation to get healthy. Good thing you don't give a sh!t!

go to her town and screw her, then get some bodyguards :)

An interesting point crackhead, and perhaps there's some truth in there - but that doesn't mean for a second that anyone's beyond hope. I've had girlfriends, but I've always had major insecurities not just with girls but with everyone I come in contact with. I guess you could describe me as...

I must agree with the Flyguy. I was obsessed with Emma (my 4 year ex) for a whole year, and it was only once I realised that there were other women not only as hot but hotter - and within reach that I suddenly realised I didn't need her. We are so shallow and we hate to admit it. But tough...

Yea but one of my dates was a pig and the other was in a LTR (which she "forgot" to mention) :) And if they turned YOU down its THEIR loss right? I set off to find a girlfriend at the weekend. I must have came into contact with 10 chicks to varying levels - but I'm still bloody single. Not...

Thanks Phrozen, you da man! Sound, sound advice. She's not just gorgeous but confident and funny and into similar stuff as me. She is pretty young though (18) so I reckon ur right and she's definetely confused if she is interested and I think I can take it from there. If she's not then...

that happened while i was dancing with a chick on saturday and she ended up coming back to my place for some fun ;) whenever i get a hard on i dont want to show i just quickly reposition it so its flat against my belly (ie. straight up). much less noticable, but u might look silly sticking...

Phew some advice! I've never got this close to pulling a chick this hot.. and I am really struggling to fight off the AFC tendencies :) So what ur saying Bonhomme is give her a ticking off in a playful sorta way? Yea I can see the sense in that, thx! Ur right I am too impressed with her...

A major factor that helped me was the concept that being a Don Juan isn't just about pulling chicks, but it will improve every aspect of your life, and your relationships with everyone you interact with! Taking my sights off the ladies for a bit helped me focus on the task ahead. Also, I...

Hey I'm still dragging that ball and chain, but it gets lighter with every step. It was tough Friday, but it got a little easier by each night. My little trick is to think THIS whevever a decision arrives: "What would the old me have done, as a NON Juan?" Of course the answer is usually...

ditto Sounds like the situation I was in. I was with a girl for 4 years and she wanted us to stay friends after she dumped me. I did too but you can probably guess my motives were a little different, AFC that I was. I spent the last year feeling sorry for myself and hanging out with her -...