She wants to live with me

[Slickster]

Theres a chick at work who only comes to work with us during the summer months. She's got a 7 Face, 9 Body, 4 Personality.

Two summers ago I took her on a few dates and fooled around with her a little but never had sex.

She eventually flaked out on me and gave me some lame reason. I'm pretty sure she was interested in someone else.

Well 2 years later she's back again and showing some high Interest levels in me. Now from what I've heard about her she's the Fatal Attraction type. Falls for guys really hard and is semi-delusional. I've noticed conversing with her that I'll say one thing and she hears another. Its weird.

I'd love to bang her because she's really quite hot but I know I should just keep my distance cuz she's starting to act loonie.

She told me yesterday that she's decided to move to my town. And asked if I knew of any places for rent. She's leaving behind a possible management position where she lives to come to a town where jobs are really scarce.

Today she really threw me for a loop when she asked if she could move into one of the spare rooms at my place. I just laughed and said "You'd never be able to stand me" Luckily a co-worker arrived on the scene before the conversation went further.

I'm hoping that my DJ behaviour with this chick isn't what's causing her to move her life to be near me. Especially when I want nothing more than just sex.

What should I do.

 

[STR8UP]

If you want sex don't even think about getting it from a semi-psychotic roomie. For that matter don't even think about getting a semi-psychotic roomie in the first place.

 

[Slickster]

She's definately NOT moving in with me!

My question is what the hell do I say to her?

 

[Quick]

for examples of what happens with female roommates, read twistedgreen's post that's right below yours. It's a lot harder to get rid of them than it is to get them in. If having sex with her requires you to let her move in, then believe me, the sex won't be worth it. Don't encourage her to move to be near you either, you want the psycho girls as far away as possible.

 

[bugsquish]

go to her town and screw her, then get some bodyguards

 

[Quick]

I didn't see your last post. Tell her that you think it's a bad idea for her to move down at all. Point out the job situation. Point out that it's hard to find a good place. Tell her that you need the space for something else (how does she know you have extra space anyway?). If she's still coming, offer to help her look for some other place. If being subtle doesn't work, then tell her straight out that you don't live with any girl you aren't married to.

 

[violator]

Correct me if I am wrong but this girl is coming in to town and expects you to act all AFC as she remembers you in the past, perhaps. She has ulterior motives. She has no place to stay so she is using you as a temporary pit stop until she settles in, finds a job, etc. She will pretend that she likes you and will feign interest and maybe offer you her pu$$y as compensation.

I know the type. They are psycho bytches and users. They have no principles. In other words this chick is toxic so stay away. Just politely tell her some BS that you can't spare a room; that your aunt from Topeka is coming into town and needs a place to stay or something like that.

This girl is from your past and it should stay that way.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

Originally posted by violator
Correct me if I am wrong but this girl is coming in to town and expects you to act all AFC as she remembers you in the past, perhaps. She has ulterior motives. She has no place to stay so she is using you as a temporary pit stop until she settles in, finds a job, etc. She will pretend that she likes you and will feign interest and maybe offer you her pu$$y as compensation.

I know the type. They are psycho bytches and users. They have no principles. In other words this chick is toxic so stay away. Just politely tell her some BS that you can't spare a room; that your aunt from Topeka is coming into town and needs a place to stay or something like that.

This girl is from your past and it should stay that way.

Everything he said. One more thing, when a woman contacts you after things ended a long time ago, it's because she needs something (a place to stay), or she needs attention because of a recent breakup. I doubt she will have sex with you if you didn't get it 2 years earlier.

 

[htemorp]

Since you said she seems psycho, unless you're extremely desperate, which no one should be in this situation, you should just ignore her and end all contacts.