UK Girls Show now Signs of Interest!

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I was out clubbing last night with some mates, and what strikes me about UK girls is that they dont really show any signs of initial interest. Unlike American girls, I find them to be really outgoing, and open to approach.

UK girls I've found are very difficult to approach, espeshially in cold approaches, like on the street. Its tough enough in Clubs anyway.
 

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Tell us something we don't know. I'm near to giving up on them.

Unless you act like a townie who dropped out of school at 15, or have a souped up Peugeot 106, it seems you have no chance with the girls right now.

I'm a sound guy, I'm confident, I'm good-looking - yet I can't remember the last time I saw "buying signals" when I was out and about in several places in the UK.
 

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Well whatever ou guys do DONT COME TO IRELAND! They honestly must be the most stuck up, self centered group of girls in the world. No kidding. I found it easier to chat with girls in the UK. Nigh on impossible over here!

OSCAR and the rest of the irish djs will back me up on that one!
 

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Which is strabge cos I live in New Zealand and as soon as they get down here , English girls are just gagging for the c*ck.

Seriously they're famous for being erm ...outgoing.

Go figure.
 

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For most UK girls, foreign holidays means they can drop their pants at will with no questions asked.

Go have a look at Ibiza, Minorca, Majorca, Ayia Napa, Crete, Corfu, etc etc.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Originally posted by silverwex
Well whatever ou guys do DONT COME TO IRELAND! They honestly must be the most stuck up, self centered group of girls in the world. No kidding. I found it easier to chat with girls in the UK. Nigh on impossible over here!

OSCAR and the rest of the irish djs will back me up on that one!

Funny you say that, I was working at a bar in New Jersey and an Irish girl approached me! Her opening line was What's up babe and "it must fuerken suck to be watching all these people getting pissed." (that means drunk for my fellow Americans) Unfortunately, I pussed out and ended up getting nothing.
 

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Most UK girls give the impression they'd prefer to be single or spend their life with the shit of the earth.
 

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ditto to all that!

yeah its proving to be getting really hard these days to pull girls in nightclubs, espeshially in Glasgow!, dont go to the garage nightclub, its full of stuck up bints!
 

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By and large, the girls in this part of Ireland are stuck up cows. If they are real lookers, they expect you to look at them while they, in utter aloofness, glide on by. Of course, a few babes will give eye contact, but there is more than a fair proportion of them carrying a hateful oh-so-inaccessible air. I just think it's a symptom of the rotten times we live in, where damnable feminism has defeminised women and emasculated men. So when I see a woman who's so full of her own gorgeousness floating along the street, I immediately write her off as a soulless, useless, unlovable, unfanciable, obnoxious, assertive, self-obsessed piece of crap. This is not a mere academic process with me either; their contrived "indifference" is as sexually off-putting to me as layers of cellulite infested fat.

I'm heading to Scandinavia for a wee holiday shortly (DV). It will be interesting to see how the chicks there compare with the dragons here. Having said that, I was in Germany a few years ago, staying with friends, & a guy there complined bitterly about the badness of German women, and I saw nothing among them to convince me he was wrong. As for American women, when I was in Florida I was with my erstwhile fiancee so I never got a chance to see what American babes are like.

One last thing, though. It may be the case that women everywhere find attraction in the novelty of a man from afar. I find lots of English women go nuts for the Northern Irish accent (which Brad Pitt made a gallant attempt at once in a movie), and I almost had to beat a Canadian woman off with a stick in recent times. My mates used to go to France every summer and they always pulled gorgeous chicks - one even wrote back to my friend and said "ta visage est grave sur mon coeur"! This novelty factor may explain why these English girls Walden spoke of are so forthcoming with their charms when they visit New Zealand...
 

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Yeah, english girls on holiday doesn't count.. nor does anyone on holiday..

people are generally alot more friendly to other people when they're on holiday.. not sure why.. I guess its cos you know no one else knows you, and you'll probably never see these people again..

as for girls around tho.. yeah, its as everyone says... on the street in the club, wherever you go, most girls don't seem to want to make eye contact or show any sign of interest unless they know you. If I'm walking around, I keep thinking, if theres only 1 girl that I bump into today thats even half as interested in meeting new people of the opposite sex as I am, then I'm bound to end up with her number at least.. I dunno, women just don't seem to want/expect guys to approach them.. especially on the street..

One area I know I have to work on is approaching girls in groups.. I seem to reasonably regularly get ec from say one girl in a group of friends when I'm out in clubs/bars but while I'm fine approaching the lone girl that shows me some interest I just dunno what to say if I'm going to just stroll up on my own and introduce myself to a group..
 

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Bring your mates with you and use the camera trick, MrNiceGuy.
 

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I've heard of this camera trick.. but completely forgotten it..

do you ask the girls to take a photo of you and your mates?

or if you're more advanced ask to take a photo of them?
 

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The gist of it is casually but directly approach your target chick, or beckon her over to you with your hand, holding the camera in the other hand - unless she's totally clueless, she'll perceive what you're asking her to do, thereby making it easy for you to tell her what to do. Show her how to take a pic and then go back to your group of mates and pose. Once she's taken the picture, you go back over to her ON YOUR OWN to collect your camera. At this point you can thank her for her help, ask her name, etc., and take it from there. You might offer to buy her a drink as a thankyou...
 

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Very true

People do find novelty in anything from abroad.

I oughta make an overseas trip. Would be good for my ego.

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American gals are pretty good at showing buying signals, though. A lot of 'em even straight out hit on guys.
 

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Originally posted by In Sync
Most UK girls give the impression they'd prefer to be single or spend their life with the shit of the earth.
lol this post is gonna change my life, cause I was thinking of moving to the UK after university.

No wonder all the guys are into football so much. One of the reasons why I'd like to move there.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Do it. Just try to move somewhere with a football outside of the top flight (the Premiership). That way the prices for entry won't be too astronomical and you'll not be fighting for tickets by phone and mail.

At the moment, I'm focussing on repairing my bank balance, getting healthier and saving money for a holiday.

The current dating dating situation in this country is a complete joke.
 

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Women are too unfeminine, men too emasculated. Somehow, somewhere, someone contrived to androgenize the genders as a way of replacing the family unit with the nuclear unit. Look at how women are being protrayed: strong, independent, assertive, assured, amazons, warriors - e.g. Lara Croft & all those other fighting computer games & movies like Charlies Angels (in reality Cameron Diaz couldn't fight her way out of a wet paper bag - and she ain't that hot either). Men are portrayed as chumps, sensitive, unable to fight, in need of rescue by a strong woman (e.g. Buffy Vampire Slayer). Heck, even Jennifer Lopez gets to beat a guy to a pulp in a movie (as if!)... Perhaps this is a tangent befitting another thread or section of this forum, but my point is, many of our problems with women are directly related to society's defeminization of women and effeminization of men, and I happen to believe the UK is one of the worst places on earth for this, and that it has affected the dating scene. We need to be MAN enough to be a man in these times.
 

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You guys are funny!


I guess a lot of UK and Irish chicks are just looking for some foreign meat.
 

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Originally posted by Dave111
yeah its proving to be getting really hard these days to pull girls in nightclubs, espeshially in Glasgow!, dont go to the garage nightclub, its full of stuck up bints!
i'm in GLASGOW too dave11. i managed to pull some chicks in the garage niteclub tho... sadly, i can only seem to meet chicks in a nightclub or bar (lots of) but never in the street/supermarket/etc
im not sure if its cos I'm drunk, or cos THEYRE drunk, or both, or because maybe, just maybe, you guys are right and UK/scottish women just dont like meeting people in the street? i dont think ive EVER met a woman this way
no matter, in the clubs theyre more than receptive :) and to the rest of the world, scottish women are HOT!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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