Be Afraid...Be VERY Afraid!!

[SadBlues]

I just discovered this site a month ago and I found it highly entertaining. The advice given here is pretty much on point. I have always been a natural at this "DJ" thing. My older bro was quite the ladies man and passed his game knowledge to me. For years I was happy, lots of FB's in rotation and a few ONS's here and there. Then I met my match and decided to go LTR. We both took STD tests and I didn't think anything of it. One of the 1st things my bro sed was to always use a condom, and i took that to heart.

The results came back yesterday. I can't believe it guys...but I have herpes


Apparently herpes can be spread easily, even if you do use a condom. All it takes is some of her juices to come in contact with your nuts and it's over. If this post scares you, then GOOD! Please don't make the mistake I made fellaz. I am so ****ing depressed right now and if I can spare some of you from going through this bull****, then it will at least make me feel a little better. The ****ed up part is that I have never shown any symptoms. No sores, no nothing! The virus is dormant in my body and I am stuck with it for life! The doc told me that 1 out of every 5 women has this virus. Do you want to take your chances by boning tons of chicks? I think not. Please guys, be careful where you put your ****s and stay away from those easy skanks.

My LTR girl is obviously no longer interested, and I can't say I blame her...
Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go and cry now

 

[Don Ronny]

Holy F*ckin Shiznit!!!
Is this for real?
I don't even know where to begin!

I'm so sorry you are going through this, man! At the same time I am sh*tting my pants cuz I have definitely been a slut myself and I haven't used condoms everytime..

damn.

I think I speak for everyone on this board when I say our hearts go out to you. I wish I could say something to make you feel better, but in your shoes I don't think any words would do the trick. Maybe you will take comfort in the fact that your post is very effective. I am literally dropping everything I am doing and heading to the clinic. I have to know NOW!!!

thank you for warning us!
and stay strong dude

 

[iqqi]

it is true. one of my girlfriends got herpes after her FIRST TIME. and she doesn't share that info with her sexmates. and she doesn't like condoms...

guys beware. trust noone.

 

[Don Ronny]

iqqi, that is even more disturbing!

Have you confronted her about this because that is severely fuct up!!!

I would b*tch slap any of my friends who were doing that just based on principle!

God, some women are just plain EVIL

 

[iqqi]

i know. but you can't tell some people anything. you can't slap any sense into some of them. i'd just say observe a lady's actions, and you'll learn who to stay away from. if she doesn't seemed concerned about herself, she ain't concerned about you.

and here's what is really going on, with her and many of those other 1 out of 5 women: denial.

 

[Walden]

Walden

It seems like a really big deal right now, but it is manageable and it isn't as big a deal. A lot of guys have the virus and never even know it (I've got antbodies for the virus and have never had any problems from it).

Take it easy man.

 

[squirrels]

...

I was under the impression that herpes can't be transmitted except during a breakout.

 

[Ronin I]

Re: ...

Originally posted by squirrels
I was under the impression that herpes can't be transmitted except during a breakout.

NO, this is absolutely wrong. You can also get it during what's called "asymptomatic viral shedding" - meaning you don't show any symptoms (breakout) but you are still shedding the virus and can give it to someone else.

SadBlues - man I really feel for you. I recently had a scare and know exactly how you feel. I cried for the first time in 15 years (except for 9/11).

Do your research though. Not having symptoms is obviously a good thing. It is much less likely (but still possible) that you can transmit the virus.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

I'm truly sorry to hear about that bro. I dunno what to say.... just be thankful you don't have AIDS.


Where is The Edge when we need him?!?!

 

[ShortTimer]

asymptomatic viral shedding

Originally posted by iqqi
it is true. one of my girlfriends got herpes after her FIRST TIME. and she doesn't share that info with her sexmates. and she doesn't like condoms...

guys beware. trust noone.

If you knowingly infect someone with a disease like this isn't there a law against that or something? Wouldn't it battery or malicious something-or-other? Damn this is just beyond wrong.

Oh wait I just thought of something else, maybe Ronin can answer this:

If SadBlues ever wants to have children then wouldn't he also infect any woman he impregnates? Also, would the child automatically have it?

 

[Don Ronny]

I am afraid..I am VERY afraid!

 

[Squy]

thanks for that information

****

 

[bugsquish]

how serious is herpes? can someone answer this? im getting tested on thursday....

 

[Kwah]

It isnt life threatening, but its uncomfortable as hell. Ever have a cold sore or wicked scab that hurt like ****? Pretty much imagine that.

Yes there are laws against knowingly infecting someone with an STD.

 

[toot86]

ok..

Hey BUt how do You get if some one doesnt START OFF WITH IT FIRST??


SOMEONE has had to had the virus from birth.. Because then how would anyone eles get it..

IF your a virgin could you still have it??

Do you get because you dont wash your balls if your a virgin?

 

[Salamder]

http://www.emedicine.com/emerg/topic246.htm

 

[Ronin I]

Re: asymptomatic viral shedding

Originally posted by ShortTimer
If you knowingly infect someone with a disease like this isn't there a law against that or something? Wouldn't it battery or malicious something-or-other? Damn this is just beyond wrong.

Oh wait I just thought of something else, maybe Ronin can answer this:

If SadBlues ever wants to have children then wouldn't he also infect any woman he impregnates? Also, would the child automatically have it?

No - it isn't spread through semen - the virus is spread through the shedding of skin cells where it first enters your body. (For a man this is usually somewhere on the penis).

Now a woman can pass it to her child while giving birth which is why women with herpes usually have c-sections.

 

[Ronin I]

Originally posted by bugsquish
how serious is herpes? can someone answer this? im getting tested on thursday....

It depends on the person.

Some people contract it and never show any symptoms.

Some people contract it, have a VERY bad initial outbreak (tons of sores all over the genitals) and then really don't see any symptoms after that (the virus lies dormant in their system).

Some people struggle with outbreaks on a monthly basis.

What makes the virus serious is that it is HIGHLY contagious and even if your partner rarely/never shows symtpons, if you contract the virus you could be one of those people that's fighting monthly outbreaks.

 

[Ded_Skin_Mask13]

My step-dad has herpes, and it BLOWS! Even though he hasn't shown symptoms(that I know of) he's always getting refills on his medicine like every week! Its crazy! Maybe thats why he's always so bitter.............I'm utterly sorry that you have to go through this, but at least be thankful it isn't HIV(seriously) or otherwise you would be f------ no matter what. And plus, are you totally sure you got herpes from intercourse?


There's many different kinds of Herpes and a couple of different ways to get it...........


And that should be enough proof to show that all those ppl on the forums that claim to have banged 5800 chicks and aren't infected are utterly lying or are very very lucky....

I suggest that whoever posts about banging 58-98 chicks and what not and being healthy and are lying should stop!

 

[Mr. Fingers]

damn

My heart goes out to you, man. Thank you for the warning. I think a lot of DJs need to understand the risks they are taking when they shag everything that moves.

Take Care SB,

Mr. F

p.s.- Don't be a stranger dude. There are some really great people here, as you can see. It's actually pretty amazing how much compassion and wisdom one can find in this, a seduction forum, of all places.