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When you truly are with the right person it just works. You don't have these issues you were experiencing. Lose the nostalgia and let her go. If you were meant to be then you wouldn't be here. You will find something better.

First of all, get the heck out of Surrey! Surrey is a bit of a joke around these parts. Especially Surrey girls who have a rep for being slvtty and easy. Not the right place to be forming a general opinion of the entire west coast. The opinions you express are much like many other east...

Hey Killerasp I once had a similar relationship and although it was a tough breakup it was for the best for both of us. You aren't doing her any favors by staying with her. You both deserve to be happy and by staying in this relationship you are delaying that and wasting everyone's time...

Haha Warrior, I was just about to post a similar tale. My buddies and I used to use the pitiful job schtick as well. I've been a garbage man many times. I've used drywaller and sewer worker as well. This is a good way to show ultra confidence as most dudes are trying too hard to impress...

He lives there because it's the most isolated place that is closest to the majority of houses he has to deliver presents to. Can you imagine having to fly all the way back to the South pole every time he has to reload the sleigh. Major hassle! Don't be trying to second guess Santa's methods...

This situation is a little unique cuz she's asking you to buy a drink for some one else. My two favorite responses for when a chick asks to buy her a drink are: 1. "Sure, let's make-out first though." I may or may not actually buy her a drink depending on her response. If she kisses you...

She isn't your problem, you are. Your problem is lack of self respect. Here is how it works. In a relationship the VERY FIRST sign of disrespect NEEDS to be dealt with immediately with an ultimatum. IE. "This stops now, or I am out." She gets ONE chance to fix it and you NEVER bring it up...

I always advise fellow SSers not to cheat. I've stated my reasons many times so I won't get into that here. To me this website is about making your life better, and cheating doesn't fit into that IMO. As far as judging another man for cheating I believe that it's none of my business. A...

Holy fcuk dude! Complete and utter FAIL!!!! I guess I came to the party late with my advice. Good luck with that. Keep us updated.

Don't kid yourself about the distance thing. A woman will move mountains to be with the guy she wants. To me it sounds like she has lost the "spark". She isn't excited by you anymore. From what you are saying she is used to dating/screwing bad boy types. While the right thing to do is...

Sounds like you are wasting your money. If previous girls are giving you opportunities that you fail to capitalize on then how are you going to get the job done with hired help? Even if you go thru with it, it will change nothing going forward. There are millions of guys just like you...

Some advice from a happily married guy.... If she really was the right woman for you then you wouldn't be asking this question. I'm sure she is a great person and the two of you could make things work but you shouldn't have to talk yourself into it. In my life I've had several LTR's...

Would you really want to be any of those guys? Other than the rich jet-setter all those guys sound like douches to me. The women those guys bone are worthless in my opinion.

The problem is that there are too many people who suck at their jobs and still get paid too much. As well there are too many losers who somehow get together with great women. The lazy ass men who see this think that they are entitled as well. You are totally correct BB. It's just the...

Exactly! I bet if you look at this chick there are red flags all over the place. Knowing whether your girl is faithful starts with you. Guys are so stupid when it comes to this stuff. They attract flashy women using their money and flash and then wonder why they are having problems later.

I believe in being honest with yourself. Lying to yourself about your looks comes from a position of insecurity and is weak. I've always found that the most harmonious relationships are with women who are close to you in terms of looks. If you venture too high or too low you will be...

If you want to stay looking young for longer I see no shame in dyeing your hair. Considering the length and effort many people go to trying to stay young, dyeing your hair seems pretty cheap and easy. Wanting to look young isn't vain. Seems pretty normal to me.

Last two texts unnecessary but whatever you got a date. "Deal with it" was super cool. The last two kind of sounded like you are trying a bit too hard. Less is more.

It doesn't even matter if you look different. When you commit to improving yourself other people (especially women) can sense it. Your aura changes. Don't just stop at working out. Learn something else. Challenge yourself to do stuff you never thought you'd do. Read, learn, whatever...

I don't hate you at all rhcp. I've been trying to help you all along. You continue to post these calls out for help yet you dismiss pretty much all the advice you are given. Why is that? Why does someone come to a help forum, ask for help, dismiss the advice, and then ask for more help...