I've been dating a girl for the past 6 months and everything has been amazing. We got along so well, she is beautiful, she takes me out to dinner sometimes, shes low maintenence and I love her. She always told me how amazing I am and how she could see herself with me for a long time.
Our one issue throughout the relationship is that shes from the city(not a really good place) and I live an hour away so she takes the train out here to see me. Our work schedules are different so at times we'd see each other once every week or other week. Also before me, she dated a lot of bad boys, older guys, guys with tattoos and I'm not an afc or nothing, I'm a tall good looking guy and I'm not super nice or anything, but they were a lot different in bed than I am.
She didnt like how things were originally in bed so she started taking birth control so we could stop using condoms and things got better. The thing is she was frustrated with how the sex wasn't how shes used to so lately shes lost her sex drive. Also the distance started getting to her. It seemed like she wanted to have kids with me one day and marry me one day all that stuff.
Now she said stuff like shes frustrated and that this relationship is a lot of work. She hasnt replied to my text yesterday or Monday, and I feel so bad. I know that women change pretty quick with things but she seemed like she was deeply in love with me and wanted to make this work.
I know that the right thing to do is to leave her alone and let her text or call me instead of chasing her, but I was thinking about sending her a long text telling her how I feel and what we could do to fix the issues and saying if the feelings arent mutual I'll leave her alone
Our one issue throughout the relationship is that shes from the city(not a really good place) and I live an hour away so she takes the train out here to see me. Our work schedules are different so at times we'd see each other once every week or other week. Also before me, she dated a lot of bad boys, older guys, guys with tattoos and I'm not an afc or nothing, I'm a tall good looking guy and I'm not super nice or anything, but they were a lot different in bed than I am.
She didnt like how things were originally in bed so she started taking birth control so we could stop using condoms and things got better. The thing is she was frustrated with how the sex wasn't how shes used to so lately shes lost her sex drive. Also the distance started getting to her. It seemed like she wanted to have kids with me one day and marry me one day all that stuff.
Now she said stuff like shes frustrated and that this relationship is a lot of work. She hasnt replied to my text yesterday or Monday, and I feel so bad. I know that women change pretty quick with things but she seemed like she was deeply in love with me and wanted to make this work.
I know that the right thing to do is to leave her alone and let her text or call me instead of chasing her, but I was thinking about sending her a long text telling her how I feel and what we could do to fix the issues and saying if the feelings arent mutual I'll leave her alone