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no no no -- it's not that you should stop listening to their problems. you need a major overhaul. there is a perception that they have of you from the beginning that makes them WANT to talk to you about their problems...i think you give off a "nice guy aura." women just don't talk about their...

man, you'd like to undo 10 YEARS of her seeing you just as a friend? that would be impressive, indeed...though unlikely. why don't you enjoy things with the woman you already have?

that's bullsh*t. being "nice" or "confident" or a "jerk" is not something that's an immutable part of your personality -- it's something that comes through in how you live your life. these aspects of your inner self are the result of CHOICES you make. it's a total copout to say that it's hard...

believe it or not -- as long as the friend is NOT another dude, this is a pretty good thing. she wants the friend to be impressed -- but you will surely be evaluated, so make sure you deliver!

there are lots of ways to tease a woman -- i'm in the 25+ bracket, so the women i hang with are a little different from college girls. i generally just act like she's a big pain in the ass all the time -- like she's some 'princess' type who can't take care of herself... call her petnames...

i think david deangelo's stuff is good if you put in the work to internalize it and make it your own. the techniques are NOT a "ready-to-use" package. i tried some of the "techniques" at first a year ago and it was total crash+burn. in a way, you have to learn it really well, and then forget...

Let's start from (9) and work our way up -- gradually. First of all, you NEED TO STOP WHINING. now. it's only making things worse. second, if you don't know ANYTHING about yourself that you could improve, then you're not being honest with yourself. have you succeeded in everything that you...

honestly a concert is not the best first date option. it will be insanely loud, and there's no opportunity for her to get to know you in a comfortable setting [being trapped in a car for 90 min. doesn't count]. besides, why do you "really want" a "date" for a concert? aren't you going because...

sure, go back to the hair-gel smelling, inbred, bastard city metrosexual *******s that you usually hang out with. you supercilious bottom-feeder. you won't be missed in the country -- all you do is stink up the clean air. you're pathetic.

i'm in grad school in an extremely demanding major -- so i have experience with balancing these sorts of things. i agree with nosexbox--you definitely should be able to open up to your girlfriend, and express your fears and vulnerabilities. on the other hand...losing your edge because you have...

actually, alphathree might be onto something -- probably the best idea is to say something like "hey, it's what i felt like saying at the time. enjoy it now...b/c i don't very often say stuff like that" it's a strong response, you get to be honest, while keeping your dignity. the whole "it...

don't worry about it man. definitely go out with her on tuesday, but make it something fun and active (maybe fly a kite or bike ride or something) that doesn't afford you the opportunity to get all "deep" or whatever... and just hang back and kiss her when it feels right. if a woman...

question 1: Yes, many women do this. your girlfriend probably does it, and you don't know. a woman's experience is not like ours. women ALWAYS have lots of other (single) men around, looking for an opportunity to date them. and generally you're mistaken if you think they're not ALWAYS...

pimpin' is totally right. If you guys don't know that MOST women have lots of men waiting "on reserve" (yes even YOUR GIRLFRIEND probably does this), then you are incredibly naive. just like us, women have two kinds of male friends -- platonic friends, with whom they have absolutely no...

i went to a college in an even smaller town than yours -- fewer than 2000 students. (read: four years of intensive learning and nearly constant fornication). in a lot of ways, it's much easier than dating in a larger city -- it's easier to find connections and really you can figure out how to...

why not do it? it's actually not uncommon for guys in their 20s to get chances to do this stuff...because most guys are not out there *looking for a modeling career. this unpaid thing might lead to something paid, and getting paid for modeling (read: standing around doing nothing) is always good!

No. This is not interesting. This whole thread is pointless unless you can give better advice--stuff that people here can use. At the moment, tristan, you're just saying "get up off your ass and start talking to girls" when many guys are here specifically because they have trouble doing that...

sure, a few times. mixed reviews--one time the girl was MUCH younger than she had said (too young to go to the club with me) and extremely lame. so i gave her the slip early. another time no chemistry, another time a great one-night stand... just show up and see what happens!

i agree...only in the movies could you turn this one around. if you're looking for a female friend, then cool. but otherwise it's best to avoid this one.

Your dignity should not depend on your relations with women. I agree with porky. you have to be persistent -- women have lots of reasons for "rejecting" men who they really want...a lot of times it's because of fear of some kind of judgment (i.e. thinking of herself as a slut) or emotional...