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"there's no spark" = "you will NEVER see me naked" move on, man, move on... btw--there is no doubt in my mind that you came across as desperate. dude, don't EVER call a woman 5-6 times with no answer [unless she owes you money!]. that's not "too nice," it's insane.

i'd say there's maybe a 5% chance (at best) that this girl will get back with you. what she really is saying is that she "thinks you're attractive" but is not "attracted" to you. happens all the time. that's why there are lots of "attractive" guys who come to this site. your best chance...

These are good things to think about--I went through a similar thought process a few years ago. in fact I HAD lots of friends, lots of pvssy, and enough money for a guy in his early 20s. but i was f-ing miserable. why? i think the answer is mostly up to the individual. but but it does have...

Jariel--a woman has NO power over you when you realize that you could do without her. Just keep it in your mind that you can "take it or leave it" and literally drop everything if you want.

Yes--JPR you've given me no choice. you are a big whining, sobby, simpering wuss. In fact, i'm not even totally convinced that you're a guy [please, don't respond to this by telling me how 'masculine' you think you are. that would be worse.] As for the feelings of being "ogled"...

I think you get David D's technique when you see that it's not really the c&f that matters--more what it says about YOU. I think DD does the best job with putting the internal game into place.

Knight Ryder--this sounds like a first date with this girl. so here's an idea...something that goes smoothly for me: call her around monday and say something like "I'm totally swamped this week [ only if you actually are] but I'll have some free time around thursday afternoon. I'll probably...

knight ryder--let me present another perspective. Why do you want a girlfriend? It's been my experience--and the experience of lots of guys here, I'm sure--that you date and date and meet tons of women for months on end, but you only end up connecting with one you like as soon as you...

I agree. don't worry about it, man. It takes a lot more to actually get me upset. just don't push your luck :D

Lost in translation, you're an ok guy, but don't be so sensitive. You completely missed the point of the post, because you didn't seem to understand the next three lines of it. [How's that for irony?] You know (well, at least I hope you know)--even in the midst of all your histrionics--that...

you can't expect me to read all this crap. something you should consider: if someone asked HER about YOU, would she have this much to say? Of course not--and that's why you have a problem. if you have other prospects you can work on, then do that.

Right, Francisco. Onthepath--you acted like a wussy, and that's why she's turned off. Boasting about how "easily" you are "going to" get good grades is not showing a "don't care" attitude--to me it sounds more insecure and eager to impress. What do you have to prove to anybody? Let me add...

apocalypse, I do have some advice for you--lately, I've been trying to do the same thing. I believe I *used to be very social, but the past 2-3 years, my work has pretty much consumed me, and I realized that it will literally kill you if you don't eventually loosen up a bit. So--do you have a...

1. Get in shape (just dropping 20 lbs can do wonders) and get some new clothes. I suggest some good quality jeans/flat front pants and some well-fitting button-down shirts (with no words or numbers, NO SILK--and in solid colors). good shoes (VERY important). Try Kenneth Cole, Banana Republic...

DeathDealer, with all respect: You are absolutely full of CRAP. There is no biological evidence for what you're talking about. Earthshyne--that article should really be taken with a grain of salt. It doesn't *prove any link between being first born and being a leader. clydehysp--just...

I disagree. Duke--my guess is that she WAS interested (at best). but... "well, if I'm here then I'll go out with you" is not a plan for a date. You said "you're on" to what? some vague hope that she would come down from her pedestal for a few hours to be with you? F*ck that!! man, she was...

does anybody wonder WHY this chick would tell the poor guy about her orgy with his friends?? I don't know man--I'm generally wary of women who want to "be open about sexual history"...(I actually had a girl tell me how she liked the way her previous boyfriend did her in the ass.) It does...

right you are. good stuff, bro...thanks for your words.

Fine. I don't care--throw out the word AFC and replace it with LAME-ASS. Yes, your views ARE flawed, ill-conceived, and the product of programming. The vast majority of gays live normal and productive lives, and have never engaged in any of the pathological behavior that the MEDIA (yes...

Give me a break. The damn dog will be fine. She's overreacting. As far as "losing control" goes--melodramatic women love to orchestrate and spin these reactions into sweeping character flaws. They're often the same women who threaten to break up with you if you don't get along with their...