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here's one: last night one woman i'm seeing called me from her hotel -- she's away doing job interviews -- b!tching at me for "not calling to wish her good luck" and also to tell me she had "run into a really good friend" at her hotel and she was having a drink with him. how would you...

It totally depends on the people involved. sure you can have crazy sex in relationships. by the way -- since you'd like to know -- the sex that you see in porn movies is not totally realistic. In reality, sex can be MUCH MORE crazy than that. I've had women ask me to do things i had no idea...

hell yes!! man i've been with LOTS of girls who liked to be spanked, bitten, have their hair pulled... sometimes they'll even ask for it. it's not unnatural at all -- women sometimes want rough animal sex just like we do! also there are lots of ways (spanking, hair pulling, etc.) to...

boner--i gotta say that this is a hell of a surprise--that was a damn good post. i totally agree with you. I think some of the so-called "don juans" here with thousands of posts are actually giving pretty bad advice. a lot of it seems to be centered around "nexting" and maintaining a stable...

when she likes you, you will know it. how bout that.

well said. this is already a concern for some of the guys i hang with -- needless to say i keep my distance. maybe you're right -- we shouldn't expect even our best bros to have the same ethical standards when it comes to these things [i've had experience with this, but was hoping it was the...

You're missing the point. Obviously I don't need anyone running damage control FOR me. but it helps to have somebody who really knows what's going on when your "girlfriend" starts spreading some insane rumors about you, because you said you don't want a relationship or something...Francisco --...

lately my dating life has been pretty complicated and enjoyable-- juggling a few girls who all sort of know each other (i live in a small-ish college town) -- so i've been trying to keep 2-3 of my closest friends apprised of what's going on with these girls. just so things don't start to spin...

don't worry about it -- you were going to get rejected when the conversation started. it's pretty clear that she has a boyfriend and there was no context for you to even ask her out. you're off to a good start. a few comments: 1. unless you are SURE that you have seen the girl before...

I have a very recent experience with this sort of thing. I recently have been seeing (dating/sleeping with) a girl who has had a boyfriend of many years. This is not something i usually do -- b/c it's not my style to deal with infidelity -- but for a lot of reasons i made an exception here...

Hey B. the "skill" I'm talking about is a compilation of a lot of things. The first thing I worked on was what most guys here call "inner game" [it's an ongoing process though]. i wanted first to get a handle on my beliefs about women and about myself as a man...i think the more solid you...

if you want to know -- the text message after the date is a pretty definite sign of interest. she said she wants to see you again -- what more do you want? if you want to see her before the break, just ask her out. or if you're super busy and would like to see her but don't have time -- call...

it wasn't all that dumb, since it actually WORKED. If you really like a woman, you make last-resort bold moves like this -- take it from me, they love it. do you think women want a guy who is tough and will hang in for her, or one who can't be there for her because he's to worried about...

If it bothers you, you should say so. but you can't change her. and to leave a girl you really like because she smokes -- that's just stupid. I know a guy who wanted his girl to quit smoking. So he STARTED smoking -- so they could quit together.

you guys are fvcking RIDICULOUS. I don't need to see another one of these damn "can average looking guys get chicks?" threads. this is the last i will ever say about this: 1. I'm not great looking or in great shape (these days i'm about 20 lbs overweight), but I haven't gone a week without...

kevin. this here is pretty much to be expected of ANY girl you go out with. how long have you been dating? if it's for more than a couple of months, then you really SHOULD be listening to her and being understanding. Now the ex boyfriend probably affects her a lot, but he's not relevant...

thanks for the insight guys. Lost In Tr: the thing is, i *didn't really reject her -- I actually told her i wouldn't mind being exclusive. She said she wanted to "keep things as they are -- with no pressure." that's fine...but if she wants to keep things the same, then why does she keep...

This might be best answered by you ladies, but guys, if you have a related experience PLEASE chime in. i'll keep it short: I've been seeing this girl (not exclusively) for about 3 months, been pretty laid back about it, see her maybe once a week. I told her when I met her that i didn't want...

get with her like you would any other girl. if her job is THAT big of an issue, then she won't (shouldn't) let it happen. Totally NOT your problem. I have a rule about passing up chances with beautiful french women: DON'T!

tmpgstx -- fvcking excellent post. Fellas, do like fortunate juan and take notes. these are the biggest obstacles to finding your inner game. Working on eliminating the need for approval from your life is probably THE critical first step in getting yourself into prime condition...