Guys Maybe im making this more complicated then it has to be but if you could answer these questions simply and to the point, it might help me get on track.
1) Why do I have a problem speaking to people, why do i get nervous and feel all those adrenaline running through my veins? Maybe I have social anxiety who knows.
2) Why cant I be as social as every one else around me?
3) Why cant I approach and meet new women and have them like me, why do I rarely meet a new women who seems to genuinely like me? (Maybe to much foucs on women) Why cant I have rotations of women, or how come I just dont meet as many women as most guys do, or new people for that fact.
4) Why cant I get new people who I meet to like me and want to be my friend-male or lover-female?
5) Why do I have problems (i suck at talking) with communicating with people in general?
6) Why is my self confidence and self esteem low?
7) How can I improve mysely?
8) Should I forget about women and concentrate on fixing myself or should I work on both?
Problem is that I cant improve on women because for that you need to be in the field and I dont have enough confidence to be in the field yet. I cant be in the field where I can go meet new women everyday, I dont have the ability and I dont have the oppurtunity such as having many friends or knowing about many social events. Any new people I meet dont usually pan out to be good friends or lovers, so meeting new people or women wont matter untill I learn to befriend-males and attract-women. Say I meet three new girls in my class, even though its a failry low risk factor this is the only place that I have a chance to meet the opposite sex other than a club. I cant even attract girls in my class. So I dont know, because right now im not good enough to even attract the few females that I do meet say about 5 girls every semester and maybe one number. So I suck WITH women and I SUCK at meeting them. I cant meet them unless I have confidence, which can come through self improvement and then attracting them through your high self confidence also. Its just that I dont want to stop trying with the excuse that Im in self improvement becasue Im so frustrated at my success rate.
9) What can I DO to improve myself?
1) Why do I have a problem speaking to people, why do i get nervous and feel all those adrenaline running through my veins? Maybe I have social anxiety who knows.
2) Why cant I be as social as every one else around me?
3) Why cant I approach and meet new women and have them like me, why do I rarely meet a new women who seems to genuinely like me? (Maybe to much foucs on women) Why cant I have rotations of women, or how come I just dont meet as many women as most guys do, or new people for that fact.
4) Why cant I get new people who I meet to like me and want to be my friend-male or lover-female?
5) Why do I have problems (i suck at talking) with communicating with people in general?
6) Why is my self confidence and self esteem low?
7) How can I improve mysely?
8) Should I forget about women and concentrate on fixing myself or should I work on both?
Problem is that I cant improve on women because for that you need to be in the field and I dont have enough confidence to be in the field yet. I cant be in the field where I can go meet new women everyday, I dont have the ability and I dont have the oppurtunity such as having many friends or knowing about many social events. Any new people I meet dont usually pan out to be good friends or lovers, so meeting new people or women wont matter untill I learn to befriend-males and attract-women. Say I meet three new girls in my class, even though its a failry low risk factor this is the only place that I have a chance to meet the opposite sex other than a club. I cant even attract girls in my class. So I dont know, because right now im not good enough to even attract the few females that I do meet say about 5 girls every semester and maybe one number. So I suck WITH women and I SUCK at meeting them. I cant meet them unless I have confidence, which can come through self improvement and then attracting them through your high self confidence also. Its just that I dont want to stop trying with the excuse that Im in self improvement becasue Im so frustrated at my success rate.
9) What can I DO to improve myself?
