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Well, it really doesn't matter, does it? If it's a ****-test, you need to back off and let her miss you. If it's a lack of interest, you need to back off and let her miss you (to build interest). I'd say go a week without calling, date other girls, and see what happens. And don't stress so...

@Kailex: Not a problem, it was totally my fault for not explaining clearly. You were kind of harsh though, haha which is exactly what I would have needed. As to why I broke up with her... it kind of goes back to why I got with her. When I first got on this forum, 7 years ago? it was to try...

For the stats, my current workout is pretty different from what most people do, so I don't really know my max. This is what I did last week, but it probably won't tell you my maxes because you have to kind of pace yourself so you can finish. Day 1: Circuit one -Bench: 10 x 150 -Pullovers: 10 x...

Wow, really hoping I wouldn't have to give too much detail, but OK. I think I'll answer Kailex's post, since he seems to be the one most off. If you want to get into this, I actually broke up with her. At the time I didn't feel like I wanted an exclusive relationship. I liked her a lot...

Don't want to bore you with my exact situation, so I'll make this short. I've been hitting the gym 2 to 5 times a week for the last year - I'm a student so sometimes I cut days when tests are coming up. I haven't been eating like I should so the weight gains haven't been coming like I would...

I would recommend NOT using a belt until you get close to the point that you will need one. Not using a belt lets you use more stabilizer muscles and will strengthen them as well. A belt is only used to prevent injuries. PLUS, if you start without a belt you should be able to feel it when you...

First off, I KNOW. I shouldn't do this, I should forget about her and move on. And honestly, I had. We broke up two months ago. For the last two months I've been going on two or three dates a week with different girls, broke off all contact with her and had finally gotten her out of my head...

I say go for it. Worst case scenario (which probably won't happen) is it's a little awkward. Most likely she's flattered, possibly hooks you up with one of her single friends. I really do hope you're not hitting on her though, I think that married women are a line that's best left uncrossed.

@SeymourCake: I don't play video games anymore. Well, OK, that's a lie, but I don't play the games I used to or as much as I used to. I'll play guitar hero, or boxing on the wii, but it's more of an excuse to have people over than anything. As far as becoming part owner of a business, I went...

@Wodinart: Work hard man, 5 years is a long time and you can be just about anywhere you'd like in that time. @Stayfly: I really hadn't thought about contribution goals, that's a good idea. As far as buying a house or an apartment, that's something I'd love to do and will be added to my list...

Actually the third most common fantasies for women according to most surveys. So totally normal. And realize it doesn't mean she ACTUALLY wants to be raped, if it actually happened she'd be traumatized by it and it would be a horrible experience. The fantasy kind of allows a woman to have the...

This post is both a thank you, a tip, as well as me asking for some advice. First off, I'd like to thank this forum. When I first started reading I was a skinny high school kid who played video games a lot and had no clue with girls. That was 7 or 8 years ago. The one thing I learned that...

It's not really something you can do overnight. It takes a lot of work. I'd say first, start doing stuff that's just different, or outside of your comfort zone. Pick up new hobbies. I live in a medium sized college town, and most people here go to the same places on their dates and... it's...

Kino escalation would be key, start small and if she responds positively then you know to keep going. and I usually just show up at the time we already talked about, but if you're afraid she might have forgot then yeah, just something implying that you're coming over, the blu-ray thing should...

Yeah, you need to have some interesting stories to tell, something funny that happened recently or whatever. I don't know, I think it's just something that you'll get better at with time. Next time your hanging out with your friends try to keep track of how the conversation goes - it's...

Here's what I would consider to be far more likely scenarios: 1) He has different taste in girls than you do. A lot of the girls I think are hot my friends think are average, and a lot of the ones I think are average they think are hot. I actually read an article once where they did this...

Here's the #1 reason: people on this board read waaay too much, and most of them have decided it's easier to play the numbers game than actually work on yourself and get what you want out of life. And here's the thing - getting out of "LJBF" isn't that hard either. I used to read this stuff a...

Kinesthetics - Touching, physical contact with a female.

dude she wants you. and if she doesn't anymore, wtf you'd be right back where you are right now. Just call her up and ask her if she wants to come over for drinks or something.

Getting the girl dude, you don't have to be an a-hole to this girl. This is one of the biggest problems I see with advice on this forum - most people think it's all about quantity over quality. You know what you want, don't deny yourself just because it takes a little work. I literally just...