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    First 3 hours on POF.com . .

    . . with a fake profile and a picture I took from some dude's modeling page. An 8/10 contacted me and after some back-and-forth VERY DIRECT flirting has agreed to bang next Friday. Looks don't what? I'll let her down easy. I just wanted to see for myself.
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    Beta Words to Ban from your vocabulary!!!!!

    I've noticed some truly beta words and phrases in my and most people's vocabulary. I think a list can be useful. I notice I use these at work a lot, for whatever reason. I feel a twinge of disgrace each and every time, and have decided to BAN them completely. The words/phrases aren't beta in...
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    Beta Words to Ban from your vocabulary!!!!!

    I've noticed some truly beta words and phrases in my and most people's vocabulary. I think a list can be useful. I notice I use these at work a lot, for whatever reason. I feel a twinge of disgrace each and every time, and have decided to BAN them completely. The words/phrases aren't beta in...
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    Ever reboot your social life?

    I was really tired of my social scene. First, I'm trying to live more healthy, get in better shape, etc. and the only thing to do around here is drink to blackout at local bars. This is not sustainable if your goal is a calorie deficit. But even beyond that, it seems nobody ever plans a trip, or...
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    Why do I hate the idea of the happy couple?

    I think this has been one of the things holding me back all these years. I cannot get over that image of a lovey-dovey happy couple. The ones who hold each other at parties and talk to each other like they're five. There's something about it that just seems so fake to me. So much so that its...
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    Ethics (School during Work hours)

    I have a low-paying deskjob where I do Web-Design. The projects come few and far between. I get a project and I work on it for as long as I want, basically. Its almost like I'm my own supervisor. I can milk so much extra time at work, its not even funny. Should I capitalize on this and do...
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    Looong Facebook messages

    How do you get out this trap? You go back and forth with a girl with flirty, funny exchanges . . and then when its about time to wrap it up and give it a rest, there's one long one about mundane sh*t that you're supposed to respond to. This will be an endless loop of back and forth messages...
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    Epic Moral Crisis

    Cute girl. Changing for Shower. Window directly across from you. Blinds/shades WIDE open. What do you do. WHAT DO YOU DO. I don't go looking for this. Its hard to miss this window, especially knowing this almost happened once before. You can see that the light is on just by...
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    What is the point of all this?

    Seriously, what is the end game anyway? I guess I'm in a period of clarity. No oneitus, no standard of any kind to live up to, no rush to 'settle' (if anything the opposite), no feeling of lack because I've never had a committed real relationship. I haven't been actively 'on the field' since...
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    Why is it so hard to maintain the TRUTH?

    It really doesn't matter. None of these girls. Not the past love. Not your 'soul mate.' Not the oneitus. Not the girl who gave you good reactions in the bar in front of your friends (who don't matter either). Not the girl who didn't return the text you sent 25 minutes ago. Not the flakes. Not...
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    Fat Burners

    Long story short, I've started diet/cutting again. I know the whole deal about lifestyle change and what not, but honestly, its hard to keep at this when I don't see progress. So the whole "just cut 500 calories a day" thing ends with me on a drinking/eating binge on the weekend. I have a...
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    Comedy Central = Pvssies

    http://livefeed.hollywoodreporter.com/2010/04/south-park-censorship-.html AWESOME. Good to know in 2010 America an extremist religious group can make thinly veiled death threats and get 100% compliance in 24 hours. Way to go Comedy Central.
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    Cool to just stop contact?

    I don't mean for playing games. I'm just sick of flaky girls, past oneitus's, etc. It feels sooooo uncool to just not get back to someone, but I guess thats the inner-AFC talking. A past oneitus from a few months ago called last Friday, then Sunday. I picked up neither calls. Not for a...
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    "Date" turns to FR! (Long)

    I was supposed to go out with this girl, but the event was canceled. So I decide on going to a brewery, and it turns out she had the same plans with friends already (before she knew about the show). Not to be negative, but as I am clearly focused on her, I will refer to he as "oneitus." So I go...
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    WTF. Comedian cancels show . .

    Need some ideas. Felt like everything was going great, girl seems eager, I call for tickets, and the guy cancels the show. Now I have this thing set up for tomorrow with this girl, and nothing to do. Its weird because if this was like a friends meetup thing, we would just not hang out at ALL...
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    Where (if anywhere) should I take this?

    I've connected with this girl I've known for a while through social circle. But we've only starting hanging out (just me and her) recently. First time, she came over, we got wasted all night, but I didn't REALLY make a move (short of asking her to come 'pass out' with me), but she went home...
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    "I like you"

    So I was talking to a buddy who is pretty good with getting girls. I mean he's not like super pick-up guy but he seems to do well when he wants to . . He told me he pretty much always tells hem "I like you." To be honest sometimes if I'm in a good set and we're vibing/being playful . . this...
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    Epic Rejection Run

    This is just funny at this point. Starts last week, we'll call it Tuesday, I get rejected by a past oneitus who I was getting over but decided to give it one last college try anyway. Hey, whatever, fine. But maybe that set off something in me that is just super creepy or something . . Friday...
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    Who wins?

    Guy 1 - Typical guy who's never heard of "pick-up." Likes a girl, makes mistakes here and here, ie, telling her he likes her, giving her flowers. Not a NEEDY CREEPY guy, just a normal guy not worried about being AFC or keeping up attraction in her or being ALPHA, yet not following guidelines he...
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    LMFAO - Poor Guy

    Behold, the secret to what women want: http://www.politicsdaily.com/2010/02/03/i-have-a-wife-and-hes-spectacular/1
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