Forty0ztoFreedom
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I've connected with this girl I've known for a while through social circle. But we've only starting hanging out (just me and her) recently. First time, she came over, we got wasted all night, but I didn't REALLY make a move (short of asking her to come 'pass out' with me), but she went home.
Next time, at a small party at my house, I say fvck it and start flirting, 'clawing', kino & slapping her ass. Her friend is leaving, and it looks like she's gonna stay at first, but she goes! Fvck!
Last Friday I came across two free concert tickets. I decide to ask her on a whim. Pretty spur-of-the-moment actually. I get a room so we can stay over. She agrees.
This girl fvcking parties. And I like that. I party too. (I have no idea why guys here think thats a negative). In fact she's probably the only girl I've met that can hang with me, party-wise. Every other girl *****es out and frankly, seem boring now. But anyway, throughout the night I'm (for the most part) leading, teasing once in a while, sexual innuendo. She keeps pulling me in to take pictures at the concert, once of which was a long kiss NEAR the lips. I should have went for a makeout there, but didn't.
I did plant a small kiss on her, and she giggled. The rest of the night, we're holding hands, or arm in arm, walking around. She's feeding me shrimp & sh*t at one point, and we're just partying and having fun. At one point in the room I just start grabbing @$$. The thing with this girl is, she never OBJECTS to this. But there's no positive reaction either. Its like I'm just not even doing it. She doesn't seem phased at all, but no negative reaction. I do it throughout the night. I have a fear of escalation, so I always assume the negative. Even though I'm getting no signs that say this, I figure I MUST be creeping this girl out. Still, I know this about myself, so I push it back and I keep trucking through.
Late night as we're wasted, we're in bed talking. I start feeling her up again. I say "The things I want to do to you." She just goes "Oh stop it!" Like she'd say to her friends little brother or something!
Damn. But I don't stop. I keep going and . . I just go for her p*ssy and start feeling her up. This worked for me before, and it was even the same material of leggings, so maybe it just reminded me of that time or something. No objection, if I remember correctly (at first). But then (part of a joke) I tug down at her leggings, and she sits up away from me. Still though, nothing feels 'weird.' We're still in awesome rapport.
Later on I go back to the p*ssy, and now she says "stop." I wait a few seconds and she says "stop" again, more assertive. Fine. I just act like its no big deal and stop (but not before she giggles . . I guess I tickled her at least).
Rest of the night we're in bed calling a SEX HOT LINE and f*cking around with people on that. And we pass out. I'm in underwear. Nothing creepy about it, she's completely cool with it. Maybe I should have tried again, for just a makeout that time. But . . I don't know, I felt like I already did my part and it just wasn't happening.
Anyway, after some boozing the next day on the way home, I drop her off. She hugs, and being the fear-of-escalting p*ssy I can be sometimes, I don't go for a full-on kiss but I do peck her lips. Her FB status that day is how happy she is and how much she loves life, but now I'm being stalkerish. Still, I couldn't help but notice.
I figured, at first, I should back off entirely. But there's something to be said for persistence, isn't there? We had a few short (very short) text exchanges last week, but besides that, nothing.
I'm torn between forgetting about this girl for a while unless she comes to me (and reconnecting down the line as we will surely see each other out at some point), or asking her out for this Friday and going from there.
Any suggestions, advice?
God, I hate posting such explicit details on a public forum, but there ya go.
Next time, at a small party at my house, I say fvck it and start flirting, 'clawing', kino & slapping her ass. Her friend is leaving, and it looks like she's gonna stay at first, but she goes! Fvck!
Last Friday I came across two free concert tickets. I decide to ask her on a whim. Pretty spur-of-the-moment actually. I get a room so we can stay over. She agrees.
This girl fvcking parties. And I like that. I party too. (I have no idea why guys here think thats a negative). In fact she's probably the only girl I've met that can hang with me, party-wise. Every other girl *****es out and frankly, seem boring now. But anyway, throughout the night I'm (for the most part) leading, teasing once in a while, sexual innuendo. She keeps pulling me in to take pictures at the concert, once of which was a long kiss NEAR the lips. I should have went for a makeout there, but didn't.
I did plant a small kiss on her, and she giggled. The rest of the night, we're holding hands, or arm in arm, walking around. She's feeding me shrimp & sh*t at one point, and we're just partying and having fun. At one point in the room I just start grabbing @$$. The thing with this girl is, she never OBJECTS to this. But there's no positive reaction either. Its like I'm just not even doing it. She doesn't seem phased at all, but no negative reaction. I do it throughout the night. I have a fear of escalation, so I always assume the negative. Even though I'm getting no signs that say this, I figure I MUST be creeping this girl out. Still, I know this about myself, so I push it back and I keep trucking through.
Late night as we're wasted, we're in bed talking. I start feeling her up again. I say "The things I want to do to you." She just goes "Oh stop it!" Like she'd say to her friends little brother or something!
Damn. But I don't stop. I keep going and . . I just go for her p*ssy and start feeling her up. This worked for me before, and it was even the same material of leggings, so maybe it just reminded me of that time or something. No objection, if I remember correctly (at first). But then (part of a joke) I tug down at her leggings, and she sits up away from me. Still though, nothing feels 'weird.' We're still in awesome rapport.
Later on I go back to the p*ssy, and now she says "stop." I wait a few seconds and she says "stop" again, more assertive. Fine. I just act like its no big deal and stop (but not before she giggles . . I guess I tickled her at least).
Rest of the night we're in bed calling a SEX HOT LINE and f*cking around with people on that. And we pass out. I'm in underwear. Nothing creepy about it, she's completely cool with it. Maybe I should have tried again, for just a makeout that time. But . . I don't know, I felt like I already did my part and it just wasn't happening.
Anyway, after some boozing the next day on the way home, I drop her off. She hugs, and being the fear-of-escalting p*ssy I can be sometimes, I don't go for a full-on kiss but I do peck her lips. Her FB status that day is how happy she is and how much she loves life, but now I'm being stalkerish. Still, I couldn't help but notice.
I figured, at first, I should back off entirely. But there's something to be said for persistence, isn't there? We had a few short (very short) text exchanges last week, but besides that, nothing.
I'm torn between forgetting about this girl for a while unless she comes to me (and reconnecting down the line as we will surely see each other out at some point), or asking her out for this Friday and going from there.
Any suggestions, advice?
God, I hate posting such explicit details on a public forum, but there ya go.
