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Do you honestly think that Love can be understood so simply, that's like sitting down with your journal and capturing Truth. It's there man but its a slippery thing and you just know it in your gut when you feel it. Dude sounds like the woman you let go was really a special person--and people...

PS -- do you really think someone who is genuinely happy with a healthy relationship would be on this board posting about how "*****y" and "weak" women are? These older fools you all look up to so much have FAILED to have any REAL relationship, and their BITTERNESS is spread all over this forum...

You know quite honestly, I think most of you are so egotistical and protective that you'll never have any sort of real notion of a healthy relationship--because most of you and your player tactics truly prevent any true depth from occurring. I'm not saying everything on here is garbage...

****ing hilarious!

Sure, but not in every case do you accept. I have lots of work to do, and I created another post here tonight about my struggles sometimes making transitions into intimacy without letting nerves get the best of me. But even this being said -- I have had cases of cute sexy girls wanting to...

This was a good post and I identified with a lot. A little drama-full at times, but honestly there are some good lessons from all of this text. I like the idea of a 100 day "Goal List".:up: I myself have a LJBF situation in some ways and I'm interested to see how it'll unfold. To...

Back off a bit, people tend to forget the unpleasant things with time and remember the good things. She'll come back around and say hello if you pull back and distance yourself a bit. When she does come back -- be less needy, be chill. If she doesn't come back around, then you know enough right...

Maybe there's a reason some people use this forum so much... Threads like this speak a lot about how you value you people. Sucks for you man.

For now, I want to genuinely thank you all for your comments. I'll address each one here soon, for now I have to digest some of what I've read. One difficult thing sometimes about the pursuit of knowledge or a higher path, is letting go of what you'd believed to be real for so long. More...

Anyone in Washington, Seattle area?

Thanks for the feedback This is more or less what I'm talking about. It also relates to being in a situation where other plates may become evident -- ie, text messages, phone calls from another woman, while with the "main dish" -- this could lead to some jealousy could it not? Is it...

Question for you all: Spinning plates -- can this sabotage a potential LTR? What if you are spinning several plates and a girl wants to become exclusive. Do you drop the others and go exclusive? Where is the fine line of cheating?

Just relax man, everything is going to be fine. Just let this one go, as hard as it is for you -- just let her go.

Most people who get married likely don't plan on it failing. And all people have faults -- being a good parent or being a good partner in a relationship doesn't require perfection from anything. Give this guy a bit of a break. He's clearly working hard to forge a positive life for his child...

What the hell is wrong with you people? Nobody is perfect -- she aged and raised a family. Isn't there more to people than their outward appearance? Maybe half of why most relationships fail is because of the incredible expectations people demand from one another. If you hope to ever love...

Why is it that women can cause men to do the __dumbest__ things to ourselves? Are biological urges really that strong? FindingMyCool -- how'd it go??

Alright man -- I'm in. Post instructions and I'll give it a try.

This man is speaking the truth.

I agree with ATP ...I feel the truth of your post and replies ATP. If you follow everything on this website, you are right, it is very possible to push away a good girl who would be great for a LTR. The methods and tactics on this website have some value. There is an underlying message that...

DMS -- Thanks for your reply, it definitely provides positive insight. I also agree that who we choose to bring into our life plays a big part in what conflicts we deal with, ect. Sometimes this is difficult, as you can't always have control of these things (ie, co-workers, ect) -- but you can...