Oh my god. WHY WHY WHY!

[cognac]

I'm damn ridiculous. Need someone to just punch me square in the nose. I texted a couple days ago that girl I flew out to see that I talked about in a different thread that I was reflecting about the past tens years of my life.

She texts back must be nice to be able to show emotions in a text message. Told her that's not what I meant and it's not like I can talk to her face to face. She says it's what she meant and at least I don't have her problems. Dumbass me tells her I didn't get ahold of her again to get crapped on and if I could get her outta that situation I'd do it in a heartbeat and she knows this. I help people if I'm able to. (I cringe just typing it)(Damn oneitis creeping)

Someone just castrate me. I feel like a total balless wussbag for what I texted. This whole thing was a damn bust from the getgo and I know it. I can only imagine how much of a chump I sound like to her. barf. I'm doing the whole no contact thing from here on out but that's what I said to myself after I got back home from wasting my time flying out there. I know what I should and shouldn't be doing but for some reason I duped myself again into AFC land. Guys I needs some helps.

 

[Radninja]

Spin more plates.

 

[Mr.Positive]

Spin more plates.

And...don't take life, and women, too seriously.

Just forget this ever happened and focus your attention elsewhere.

 

[cognac]

This chic must be retarded. She sends me a text today saying she's gonna use me as her boss instead of her real bosses name from a previous job she had as a reference. WTF. DUR dur dur. No damn response from me.

 

[WaterTiger]

This chic must be retarded. She sends me a text today saying she's gonna use me as her boss instead of her real bosses name from a previous job she had as a reference. WTF. DUR dur dur. No damn response from me.

Potential employer: "Did this woman work for you?"

You: ((snicker)) She worked UNDER me if you get my drift! If you don't mind the tardiness and lack of job skills, she's worth her weight in gold for bl0w j0bs under the desk!

Potential Employer: Ummm...I see..."

You: You'll see all right! Dresses like a tart and goes comando under her mini skirt! If you have a tough client, send her out with him! She'll have him sining any contract you want!

Potentail Employer: "Thank you!"

 

[cognac]

lol. Thats awesome but I don't think I could do that to someone. lol.

 

[Joe Stud]

"she's not much at shorthand, but takes DICtation great"

 

[cognac]

Ive been thinking maybe to respond by telling her not to use my name for that because if I don't respond she'll probably use it anyway. Wouldn't that be considered fraudulent info? And she'd be basically using me just to gain a job.

 

[Kailex]

What in the world is WRONG with you? Are you a glutton for punishment?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=171293

Re-read that thread again. I responded TWICE to you in that thread, and you KNEW she was a mistake from the get-go and you STILL text her?

Look, if you are feeling lonely and want someone to ponder the last ten years of your life with, call your mom/dad/family member or buy yourself a damn puppy.

You made the WORST choice possible by texting THAT woman with something like that. And you know, KUDOS to her for the way she responded to you. When you sent her that original text message, you were baiting her, you were expecting some sort of a sappy response from her, something sympathetic...

You need some "helps". You need more than our help, because we've already TOLD YOU to NOT contact this girl anymore and you STILL keep doing it.

Blame yourself for your current predicament. Is it THAT hard to just delete any trace of her in your life??? I mean, you obviously have NO ONE else going for you right now that you would even consider texting that THING with some philosophical mumbo jumbo. Not only that, but you texted her wanting to the focus of her attention and then... she went and turned the tables on you and started going on about her stuff...

Man... when are you just going to quit?
BTW, this woman is a REAL winner. And the worst part is, she knows she has you so wrapped up in her web, that she'd rather use your name as a reference. I wonder why she won't even use her real boss? Hmmmm... oh right, because she probably is terrible at her job too.

BTW, who CARES whether she uses her name or not... jesus christ, just move on from her already. And if you don't get it now, you never will. This has been going on for weeks on end... and you're going nuts over some girl that lives hundreds of miles away and is pretty much bottom of the barrel...

 

[Buddha_Mind]

Just relax man, everything is going to be fine. Just let this one go, as hard as it is for you -- just let her go.