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This has not always been easy -- and changing habits takes time. I've been on the road and am now recently in an area where there are less abundant young women. This definitely has an effect on the practice of these things, as truly, I've found myself jumping at things that before I wouldn't...

Keychain, this was a righteous post and I appreciate this. I myself just got done with a two week break and its helped me. Sometimes we can become overly fixated on something, and this can actually negatively affect our action. Too much information, not enough processing time. Another thing I'm...

LOL. This is a good thread. Man, I'd say you are doing things well. You've got two girls who want to be with you. I've been in the same shoes where you may enjoy them, but not want to be with either. Just keep doing your own thing. Take out Girl3 and enjoy her. If she is someone you'd like to...

Dude, I think your idea is very clever and definitely made me smile thinking about it. Give it a try man. Good attitude as well. Keep rocking.

Dude, don't go on a cruise with her. That's a waste. If she bought her ticket, fine, ignore her and mack on another lady. She started this whole mess. She is unstable and going to d!ck you around until eventually cheating on you or leaving you. Find a better woman!

Look man, we've all been down this road. I saw an ex-gf taking another man by the arm 1 day after she broke up with me. It's ****ed yes. It's not easy, no. But this is part of the reality of dating and breaking up. People move on. **** those two people and live your life. Who cares about them...

Dude, look -- I believe you are doing what I've done countless times: over-thinking. See if she wants to chill sometime. Find out some of her interests, and invite her to do something where the interests overlap. Her inwardness could be a few things: (a) wants only friendship/acquaintanceship...

It is nice having her in my life in some ways. I can talk about sex with her, all sorts of things -- pretty much anything at all. Maybe there are at times different feelings I have towards her. I know that she has them at times for myself too. I'm just not sure how to tell her, "hey...

I do have a level of discussion and rapport with her that I could probably bring it up. I'm not sure where it might go. But the deeper issue I'm facing: is this friendship even worth saving? It was initiated by attraction and lust, which did not gel due to some poor strategies on my part...

Here is my dilemma, and I would be interested in perspectives: I've had a female friend now for about five years. We were friends through college, and I've helped her out and spent time with her countless times. It hasn't been until this last year that I've started understanding where I've...

"Have you guys ever dealt with a woman like this and if so, were you ever able to get things resolved or did you just dump her and label her as a psycho?" I think most men just tolerate the psycho far too long -- years on end -- thus the problem.

I had a very interesting online dating experience recently, whose details I won't go into depth, but more or less I'm believing now I'd rather meet people through my day-to-day life. We spend enough time online as it is, and I'd like to get to know someone's real energy, not their fictionalized...

Are you crazy?:cool:

Yes, I agree with this man. I've learned these lessons my own way and it sucks. If you're as good as you say you are, why not just go out and find another young 19 year old to let your mind let go of this one?

exscall, Keep up with no contact. You said you aren't happy with where you're life is: get happy with it. All else will keep flowing. Strength brother.

I would never tell him. I haven't been with a chick with a BF -- although I have had opportunities. Ethics get in the way. Maybe I'm still too young. I'm not sure. I will say though about cheating women: they can never be (a) a successful girlfriend, (b) a successful wife. Maybe this trend has...

Woah now sir, perhaps all of us were guilty at some point of this. Otherwise we wouldn't be here. The above is like calling someone a "fatty" who is on a fitness forum working to lose weight. Rama, I do agree with Jophil that you cannot let yourself be a dart board as you have. When a...

Have you met her in person yet? Chemistry can change if you don't connect on the physical. I can tell you this from experience. No matter how emotionally/romantically you are involved mentally -- if you don't dig her physically, it can stifle the flame. I'd say meet her in person before...

I think DonS is on the spot with this one. This is a typical ho3 who doesn't know what she wants, is exploring you because she's too weak and unsure to really decide anything for herself. She may be cute, but sounds to me she's about as honed in as a an arrow missing a feather. I feel bad for...

Quality response. Thanks for all of your input, good things. When your above children's games (sex mang), children themselves become the potential outcome.