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I got rid of facebook 7 months ago, and it's the best thing I've ever done. You'de be surprised as to how much of the brain is freed when one becomes unconcerned about the ongoings of "online sociality". I stay in touch with whom I want to, and if having fbook really is the maker or breaker with...

I dig this thread and these responses. There definitely is a malleable nature to most things in life, and absolutes are rare. There are many ways to get good with girls. I do find this forum helpful, as pointing out some big psychological triggers for women -- and in some ways, this is...

Gentleman, I wrote quite a long post and unfortunately lost it. So I'm going to try and recapture and get to the heart of the issue. I'm for the first time spinning plates. I've had sex with one of them. The other two I'm taking out on dates (each separately). The situation has yet to arise...

Blak3, I understand in some ways the situations you are facing. I've had my fair share of run-ins with women at work who have boyfriends -- and honestly it never seems like a fun path to tread. Yes, there may be sexual attraction and lust, and there may be a great deal of personal similarities...

I've been dealing with these sorts of thoughts myself. It's amazing how many girls seem to have boyfriends, yet flirt like mad given the right cues. There is the ethical issue in my mind of making the moves on a girl with a BF. And I agree, for the most part, that a girl who gets with you by...

Being intense can also be too overwhelming. I've been this way before. A mind that is moving to quickly, or just jumping into big or deep claims. Woah, intense!

Brother, I hear you on your frustration with the pursuit of happiness through materials and money. These things are illusions. As Jack Lelanne has said, "What good are those shiny cars if you've still got a long face?" I have learned that happiness is not found in the exterior. Money is...

I understand what you're trying to say here man. Basically -- we can enslave ourselves by _worry_ and _fear_ when we overanalyze things with women. What we have to do really is just pull into ourselves and realize that no outside person can bring us happiness. It's gotta be inside, and any...

favorite quote of this entire thread.

Look, getting fvcked is necessary, but there definitely can be other things a person enjoys :) Conversation? (**** was that the inner-AFK in me trying to push through before I smother his ass out?) Good post, definitely made me laugh -- wouldn't be the same without the caps and all of the...

Bleh, you guys are funny. There is no doubt that Christmas is to make money for companies, and honestly, the rate at which we are consuming things we are fvcking the planet at lightening speed -- ie, mining and cutting and clearing so some kid can ***** and whine as he throws his iPod across the...

Thanks for the replies. Frank, I hear you well. Perhaps it's important to remember we can do harm - we can hurt people. These girls may cheat eventually, but I can make the conscious decision to abstain from the whole damn thing. But all of their flirting can definitely be a mental...

Well, this girl who asked me out is heading out of the state in less than two weeks. Her BF is LTR, so she probably hasn't had a good ****ing in a very long time. Should I even care? Seems to me that a girl who wants to stay committed wouldn't be asking dudes to go to a bar with her? This may...

Gentleman, I have read time and time again that boyfriends don't matter. Why is this? Should I not feel guilt that she might be messng around with me while her BF might be at home saying how much he loves her? I know we are advised to be careful about work relations, however my situation is...

I think it is entirely normal to have some down time after the end of a long term relationship. It takes time to heal a bit, and redefine our self-image, lacking the things that the other person provided in life. Give it some time, and keep working on socializing :)

She is clearly giving you some major signs here buddy -- and be happy she said that. Just go in confident, she's just a person like you and me. Don't let her looks cover up the fact that behind them is a human mind, all full of insecurities and fears. Make her feel comfortable and light...

I just had a friend go through a very similar experience, but it took him three years to break off with the girl (after she'd been abusing him again and again). Consider this a gift, that this woman is no longer going to be draining your psyche, and focus all of your energy on how to improve...

It means, ask her out casually and in a positive way -- something fun. If you make it sound like a chore or that her acceptance will validate your life, than this will turn her off. Just be fun, light. Ask in a way that doesn't set you up for failure (ie, "I was about to go ______ [some fun...

And just because you are getting laid doesn't mean you'll be happy. Lots of people have sex all of the time who are very unhappy, and often create children in the world, throwing them between some destructive situation. Women and getting laid does not equal happiness. Perhaps happiness is more...

I understand where you are coming from, and as much as this DJ info is useful, there are probably some girls who break the mold entirely, and some tactics may or may not work at all. People are unpredictable. There is probably truth that most of the tactics have some relevance, since they are...