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How many people with serious drug problems have you interacted with? I've had experience with this realm of life, seeing a few friends cross the line. But some have come back. And it's certain friends who never gave up on them who did help. Often this was coupled by their own perspective...

Well, I'll tell you that just because someone has an addiction to cocaine doesn't make them or the people they know bad people or "losers" as you guys call it. Certain drugs interact differently with the mind and body, and some simply suck you in. I've had a few friends go down the path of...

Do you have friends who stick by you even when you are struggling? Can a man be a Man and still struggle? Do the people who _truly_ care about you, abandon you during times of your own battles? Or do they try and aid through perspective and support? Part of life is having others in...

Nervousness isn't always a bad thing. And being nervous, in my mind, is often a good sign. It means I'm excited about something, and I'm working towards a desirable outcome. There are definitely times when nervousness can paralyze. But a big part of showing mental strength, I believe, is not...

These are good replies. I believe there is definite truth to the idea that by pursuing your own goals and forms of personal development, women will flow more naturally. This is because when we are happy and working to develop ourselves, our relationships with everyone around us can also improve...

You can always go out and retrieve a new fvck buddy without all of the emotional past and residue associated with this chick. I concur with everyone else, and it sounds like you know inside the right thing. Sometimes going backwards like that only brings back the problems, and prevents us from...

I agree that human energy is limited. In a lot of ways I compare human life to other forms, such as plants. We're growing all of the time, and we've only got so many resources and energy to distribute to that growth. If you have a plague sucking you, cut it. When a tree has a deformed and...

What sorts of texts are you sending them? What are you saying? Change your strategy. Next time you feel the urge to send a text similar to ones you've sent before (that have received, the aww, LJBF), stop and think. Reword. Take a different approach. If you are coddling them with complements...

You know life is so short to spend around people you don't care for. If I don't like her friends, I won't spend time with them, and in a lot of ways too it reflects her values. If you're not digging her when she's around her friends, and her friends in general, this will probably lead to...

Look man, I would say you are venting some of your frustrations and placing blame here. A person can fill their mind with as much information as to how to build a plane as they'd like -- but maybe they still never quite take flight. Maybe they mixed up their information, maybe they used parts of...

Man, seems this woman isn't the type you ought to be with. Now that you know that, where do you go from here? How do you get what you do want?

Do you find that your game with women comes in ebs and flows? Perhaps in some ways just like life, there are days of extreme clarity. However, they too are balanced by days of fog and haze and confusion. I'm not sure if any formula/methodology will ever fit life or women to any exact mold...

:nono: Wrap it, yes. Getting laid is great, and I know condoms are highly effective, but do any of you older gents ever worry about this?

The truth is that children will never save a relationship. That's like saying a bandage will save a leg infected with gang-green. Perhaps even that metaphor isn't constructive. Any sort of superficial anything to save a relationship will likely fail. I think that bringing kids into the equation...

Dude, you have to chill out. You have to stop and breath. Go some place and meditate for awhile on the temporary nature of all things and how some day your beating heart will cease in its chest. Why the **** are you worrying about this woman? Any person who unleashes on someone like that is a...

Sometimes we look to ourselves for what went wrong, but there are so many variables, it is complex. Don't get down or hate on things, stay positive and she'll come back around if she is interested in you. Losing someone a woman loves to a fatal accident might make her afraid to feel certain...

There are lots of alternative ways of living. I spent some time recently on an organic farm, and there are lots of people who live in different ways. Some of them pay for health care policies, ect, but for the most part refrain from mainstream society. There are many people who run their own...

Have any of you ever thought of this little phrase, "the grass is always greener on the other side"? I have been thinking of this recently in a personal situation of mine. There is a female at my workplace, she's thirty-two, I'm twenty-five. When I met her I was immediately attracted to her...

From your first paragraph, you need to look seriously at where you are in life and where you want to go from here. How long would you like an abusive relationship in your life to continue? The best thing I can say is, end the situation you are in and create something far healthier.

Brother, I agree with you on that one. I am working to kick back the philosophical waxing a bit (on women and other dimensions of life), but I also recognize this as a valuable character trait. A tree is sometimes a tree. Plate1: upset that I may be leaving, started going nuts at a bar, I...