This is crazy yet funny

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Ok for starters I am a person of morals. I make light of almost everything except the utmost serious of things that really matter due to having been in the military. Most average people are serious about the most futile of things. This is just a little story about one of the broads I've been seeing and would appreciate opinions just for the hell of it..

So this plate I have been spinning starts spilling the beans about her life after she says she wants to be exclusive. Granted she has a young child around 5 years old. She tells me she used to strip for a living while in college. Then she tells me she met the father of her child through the strip club because he frequented it. He is in the military. Sounds like a typical military relation****. haha.

Tells me she was 20 years old when she met him there and he was 27. She got pregnant and she stopped stripping because of this. They went and got married at a courthouse. Awesome marriage idea. lol. Said she married him only because of the child and because he told her she'd never make it on her own. She tells me the whole time they were together he would accuse her of cheating because she would be out and about for long periods of time. Put a GPS tracker and all on her cellphone. She said she went out and got a second phone in her name to avoid the tracking crap. She is going through the divorce right now.

The whole time I am just getting sick to my stomach and start laughing on the inside. lol. About the dumbest crap I've heard from someone in a long time.

Then she asks me if I think she is a hoochie. I told her I dunno are you? She says I don't think so. I'm sorta laughing inside still. Because this is some retarded crap. I'm thinking at the time she asked me. Well if you're asking me if you are then maybe you really are and try to hide it.

So yesterday I start thinking about how she acts. And I came to a realization that she probably is a fluzie judging by the past she told me and her current actions. Example: Out at a public place and she flirts like crazy. Tells me she went to the bar and some guys tried taking her home. Mind you I don't give a crap about it. Tries to act all innocent and naive and talk in a really feminine voice to ice people over. It makes me laugh. She mostly cares about what she looks like on the outside and seems to me she doesn't care what she is on the inside. She has no hobbies. All she does is work, take care of her child, go to the clubs and bars and shop for materialistic crap. So I should say her hobby is going to clubs and bars and shop. lol. She thinks she has more to offer than that but it is apparent she doesn't. I've even told her looks aren't everything. What's on the inside really counts in the long run. But obviously she is too delusional and self absorbed to realize that.

I just talk to her nonchalant and really don't give a crap. Classic example of a Jerry Springer ala headcase in my opinion. Why the hell would a woman tell you about this crap and expect you to have any degree of respect for them?
 

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cognac said:
I just talk to her nonchalant and really don't give a crap. Classic example of a Jerry Springer ala headcase in my opinion. Why the hell would a woman tell you about this crap and expect you to have any degree of respect for them?
Perhaps she sees herself at the hero of her own movie and she believes that others are as equally impressed with her..

I am wondering why you started a thread about a woman who is low on your value scale and for whom you express open contempt?
 

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I posted this for some constructive feedback not in any form of contempt for her. It just boggles my mind when a women tells you these type of things. Ya know a person of moral decency and intelligence wouldn't let these things happen to them.

Either way I've found she lives for the drama. I don't give her a ledge to stand on when it comes to this and I think it increased her attraction ten-fold. Because it seems she is trying to break my wall of decency down. She has the mindset of a BPD. I've already told her this is going no where because she has too much baggage and I'm not claiming any of it.
 

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She tells me the whole time they were together he would accuse her of cheating because she would be out and about for long periods of time. Put a GPS tracker and all on her cellphone.
ROFL!!!

Anyway, here's what I think: A part of you feels sorry for her and wants to take care of her, even though your rational mind is telling you "NO WAY!" You've started this thread to get support in shutting up that part of you...

Well, you have my full support, man! Disconnect yourself form this chick, she's no good. And don't feel guilty about it coz there's nothing you can do anyway. She's f*cked up and she always will be, and yes, guys will always treat her like sh*t and use/abuse her. Don't give in to the fantasy that lurks deep inside most men: to be her hero, to be the one that safes her. Don't try to be Christian Slater in 'True Romance'...

Stop wondering how a person could let these things happen to them! Those kind of thoughts are usually the first step on a guy's crusade to "safe" some girl. Think of all the people dying of starvation in Africa at this very moment. You don't feel an urge to help them, do you? Coz you have to go on about your own life! Same counts for her, you shouldn't even think about her and just go on about your own life.
 

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Haha. I know Diehard. I was holding back from laughing while she was telling me this ridiculous crap. lol. When she left I was actually laughing out loud to myself how stupid some people are.
 

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Hmm so odds are some crazy guy is now stalking you as well then? I am in the miltiary active duty and see a lot of crazy ****. Unless I drive 45 mins away every girl I meet has married or dated someone in the military. They all have the same stories, we met got married too soon, got divoriced, he was possevise, he cheated on me down range, I cheated on him, one girl told me how she got pregant, and the guy said he was going to leave her and she had an abortion. This was on the second date, that was a major buzz kill for me. I am not perfect, but some **** you can leave out for a real long time.

I wonder myself sometime, is it because i ask a lot of questions and apeer interested that women open up to me and tell me things they shouldnt?
 

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No he wants nothing to do with her so I'm golden on that. I hear what you're saying though Vitor. Women close to the bases, married or dating a military man, are just ignorant to reality. I have never met a decent girl while I was in that lived close proximity to the places I was stationed.

And you know when the husbands and boyfriends are gone the wifes and girlfriends are out at the bars whoring around. You can spot them a mile away. Usually all dressed up like they are going to some high-end resort even though they are at a sleazy-assed off post bar. Just despicable behavior.

I always wondered if these females are just born with a stigmatism and they think they will get a free ride in life from the stability of income and household that marrying into the military brings to them. But then reality smacks that one brain cell into gear. ha.

I'm no perfect person either. But by golly some people like to learn the hard way. Lack of common sense. I do the same I ask questions and they just pour it out. Hey, it's better we know from the get go than to find out what kinda wackjob they really are after wasting time with em.
 
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