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I am happy to hear that worked out for you for sure. I myself have had an interesting situation and wonder if there is any insight a person could offer: Stayed at a woman's house (she's 32, I'm 26), she answered the door in her underwear and a loose fitting top, as I asked to crawl up in her...

I think some of this stuff is a fine line. A lot of women who consider a male as a friend still give a lot of engaging signals -- that is because they are engaged -- in being your friend. But as many have covered, transitioning her from friendship to your penis seems to be mostly an uphill road...

Thanks. This is all good stuff and I agree with a lot of the opinions expressed. This is true man, you're not wrong here -- I have been playing it safe as of recent, not putting myself out there as much as I used to, part of this is my working to keep my economic situation stable, ie, I...

This may just be a rehashing of things in the bible, but for the sake of public discussion and my own personal relief (this board can be useful for venting frustration and finding perspective) -- I have become very infuriated with the male satellite mentality, and more so, my own partaking in...

Yes the lines of sexuality are blurred and relative and subjective. People can entertain the sorts of personal experiences they want for themselves. But different experiences can have positive or negative effects on a person and their perception of life. Let's just say the mother of my...

Get yourself to somewhere good and find a woman who you can trust. You've got the right attitude man, and you'll have a better relationship in the future because of it.

Iceberg -- this was interesting, thanks for sharing this. I definitely think there are gray areas for sure in gender, and a "man" can be a "man" without chew and whiskey and leather boots. I think some of it might come down to engaging life, having a sense of adventure, having trust in our own...

I like some of the ideas in this thread. Matt -- I think you are not the only one whose felt as though they could have pushed the boundaries more in college. I know myself I had a LTR for a bulk sum of my college years, and after that ended even passed some good opportunities, looking for...

This post is hilarious. Man I'll tell you women have a way of inviting you into their little web to get your emotions and feelings out, and then once they have them, it seems they either turn them to poison to shoot back at you, or view you as weak that you actually feel...blargh! My new...

You know is it just me or does it seem like there is an incredible amount of pressure put on us men through this mentality? ^this is funny. What about the women? There is a polarized view here that is the Ladies Trying to Crack into Us, but perhaps this is a result from bad past experience...

I should also add -- I apologize for the bitter tone of this initial post. There is some frustration with the ideology of SS -- I know I'm not the only one. But this place does have things to digest and learn from, and is a great place to express and gain insight when going to others may seem...

Warrior -- I really appreciate your words here. This is good stuff.

I like a lot of these responses. I do thank those people at SS for sharing their experiences and from such learning about this world through others. I know that the primary catalyst for people to be at this website is because they were not finding success in their sexual/relationship lives that...

A lot of life is about our choices. There are many potential paths. Weigh what means what to you, what you wish to pursue, and measure your potential consequences upon whatever path you choose. Make many friends. But the grass too is always greener.

I also want to say -- what's wrong with feelings? I'm not saying let's sit in a circle and cry together. There is nothing wrong with having a healthy understanding of your own emotional intelligence and what it can clue you in to. YES, feelings are not always logical, and often can be falsely...

Squirrels--this post is exactly some of my feelings. It is sad. What has happened to our world? It seems the way we've cheapened everything else has stemmed deeply into our interpersonal interactions.

I would agree with that -- I think older women have gotten some understandings in line beyond naieve college sexual experiences -- they are equipped. I've been into older gals for awhile, so much less BS (it's still there but less). The woman I'm talking to now is 39 (I'm 25) and honestly it is...

And re: Tazman, I am unconventional, I've worked on organic farms and in environmental education the last years, spent over a year camping solo and living in my vehicle on the road. I've had a lot of time outside of major urban spheres and personal time with the trees and the stars and there are...

You must be insecure Tazman. This is is the second time you've demanded, "who are these older posters". Get over it man. That's not the point of this, scratch your ego so it stops itching. Thank you for all of your responses, even the haters. Look -- for those of you who think a Buddha itself...

I'm not going to name names because I'm not interested in diverging my argument into personal/character/EGO battles. I'm not saying all of this so that SOandSO can rant and rave at me for naming them--I'm saying all of this so people can have an alternative perspective. Let people be the judge...