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Do you really think this is an effective idea? I'm curious if others to do? I try not to base my relationships, any, on BS straight lies...now a bit of lack of information...or a bit of emphasis of other information is one thing..ie, build wonder, market your strengths, be aloof...but I...

Well we are human, perfection is a tough thing and I've never seen it. But I do appreciate this list, it reflects on some things I need to improve upon. Here's a few more: - He chooses not to approach and let's fear control him. - He lets one rejection or failed relationship bet he keystone by...

Well it's the passion and fire in people that make them most lucrative. Boring Boringsville Betty is no fun to hang out with. Where's the life adventure? I wonder if half of these women are just horny. Do people really think they'll meet someone meaningful at these? Seems best strategy is...

No man the hurt is not your fault entirely. You both were involved together and she ended it, whether or not where fingers are pointed, the pain you experience is not a direct result of only your actions. You learn from it and move forwards and you almost must know that a greater level of...

This was one of the greater responses I've seen on this forum -- so spot on. I struggle too with unresolved emotion, it is difficult when we do not have a nice neat fitting "cap" for emotional issues we've experienced or suffered from. This can relate to things well beyond women, but anything...

^^^^ mostly what slickster said. But I believe it is possible for a male to have orbiters -- women dismissed early on because of some lack of mutual sexual interest/personality/compatibility -- but whom still desire to be with the man. I've had this happen to me before inadvertently. It is...

My question regards the authors of many of the DJB articles -- where are these people now? Some posters, pook, for example, seem long gone, as some of these threads are nearly 10 years old (amazing this database has been preserved so well). My questions are: have they found the success they...

Totally insightful post. I've been down this road in the past myself, and this thread gives some clarifications. We were banging every day in a row and suddenly it dropped off -- I was hook line and sinker in and she knew it, and I got douched in the end. Regarding this girl, I think you...

Look man, at the end of the day you just have to be confident that *even if she was to cut things off* you would be fine and happy and live life confidently.

Man I just don't know why a woman would want to stay with someone who: 1) cheats on her, and 2) places relationship on hold regarding future career success Ultimately, both of these factors have 'broken the vase' as saramouche says. What exactly are you getting out of this that makes...

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I would say if your only motivation to get a place is for all the girls you are going to bang, you might want to consider something different. You say you are having no problems with women, so enjoy the free or cheap living you have for now, enjoy these women, and things will gel in your 3...

Good lord this woman is insane.

Dude let me say this is an uphill battle and you need to release your sexual interest in her and free your time. Here are my reasonings: (a) you said in this thread yourself, "she's a 'loser' but a good looking one" (b) she has a boyfriend and talks to you openly because she considers you one...

Dude you are heading uphill fast and you will come rolling backwards. "she is a loser herself, just a good looking one" was a quote I saw from your post. I have been in your situation before (although real-life encounters), where a woman will be very open, sometimes even in her distaste...

What a **** deep world some relationships can go, eh? "release" her man; this is clearly a woman who enjoys being abused, and perhaps you do too.

I think respect and trust are big issues in an LTR. I view cheating as a termination of your said relationship. If she had cheated on you, what would be the advice of this forum?

Look there is nothing wrong with gifts at appropriate timings in the proper frame. But buying a woman things to maintain her happiness is going to end in you being douched around and dropped. I agree that HB9's are hard to keep up with; a lot of this is because the average super fox who reads...

Well yes, having your lady sign papers saying, "I won't fvck you over when I decide to leave you or you leave me" is not going to add to a nice warm cozy cuddle session by the fire. It is going to lace a seed of distrust into your relationship. "Why would he have me sign this?" It's like...

Hey man we've all been there. Trust me on the fact that you are lucky to be free from this b!tch. It is easy when you are head-over-heels about a girl not to see the ways that she is not only mistreating you, but also how truly she isn't worth much anyhow. A girl whose happiness involves you...