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Probably posted originally in wrong forum...I value the older more experienced gentleman's input on this forum...posted a thread about women at work, how to gauge situations of attraction, etc, in the main forum. Not sure if you older dudes navigate that way so I thought I'd proposition the...

Okay dude -- one last thought after I finished working out here about this: What if she still is interested but just doesn't know wtf she's doing and you're reading too much into this single word and boiling down everything to it. She doesn't read SoSuave...she may be smart but that doesn't...

@Mr. Suave -- part of her desire to have others around could have been her own insecurities, anxiety, etc...sometimes people want friends to come with them to meet a chick/dude or double-date to "buffer" any awkwardness by leaning on the social familiarity of the said friend...you saying "I just...

Re: Work bros: I'm open to the idea of chilling with a few work friends, doing some climbing or having a few beers...I'd say that's not too crazy, eh? Re: Living with female-co-worker: not uncommon in the outdoor field to room with co-workers, even opposing genders...but maybe it's not a...

evilyoshi -- Communication and speaking are skills that take time! I was once very awkward too but honestly man, I can hold a room's attention pretty good now, inspire people. But this took a lot of self-work, away from any woman, a lot of internal reflection and self-growth and...

Update: so I'm in the middle of a very remote place and unfortunately, given the motives of my initial post, am working with some very hot outdoor naturey women (my favorite type oh yes). I've already sensed some IOI's from a chunk of the women I met today...I was dressed nice, first day, lots...

slowhand, Read Desdinova's advice -- this is some good 5hit and solid. The only way a relationship could ever possibly work between you two is if SHE was JUST AS determined for change as you were -- and that wouldn't coverup the scarred past of your relationship or the wounds that are likely...

How can you say this only at age 21? Life has a lot of head of you man -- I hope there are people in your life who love you and whom you love in return. To the OP; Of course people need each other -- anyone on this forum who "doesn't need anyone" ought to ask themselves why the hell they are...

Good stuff man, threads like this should get just as much attention. IE, when you think the chips are cashed out and nothing's left, sometimes something just drops in your lap :) Keep up the successes!

So what is the "once a day" part? You pick one of these activities to do once a day? Ever hear of this? You might enjoy: "Benjamin Franklin's Thirteen Values" http://www.sfheart.com/FranklinsVirtues.html There is no doubt it is this method of thinking that underpins many many...

thedol -- You're not alone man. I'm experiencing many of the same things. As perhaps it was Desdinova or some other once wrote on this forum "you are caught playing the mental highlights reel over and over in your head". Realize that you are likely only focusing on the good things -- and the...

This woman sounds like an uber-wh0re of whom I'd like to urinate on. Really. I know this is a trollish post but READ those comments of hers -- INSANE bit.ch alert!

^ what Mr. Positive said ^ There's a thread of Roissy's somewhere where he talks about the AFC downward marriage sex spiral...sounds like this guy has gone too AFC awhile back and lost frame...there may or may not be hope for reverting things depending on the situation...he's going to have to...

In regards to OP -- brother the standard american diet + lifestyle, especially given certain genetics, can lead to being overweight. Rather than next this girl so quickly for something so shallow, you might be surprised that this girl would probably be/treat you differently than a woman whose...

Sure man, people respond to those who are outgoing, positive, inviting -- that persona surely attracts people. Hard part is keeping that positive persona and vibe alive -- I have somewhat been a bag of turds lately and am hoping this will pass soon -- it is in those moments that being a positive...

Des -- I wish the best to you man, I read your past threads and it sounds like you did make the right decision and even though it sucks for her it would suck for her even worse if you led her on towards what she (falsely) thought she would receive. You've been down that route of what she wants...

Hehe, you are correct, mentioning a "200 pounder" (hehe) or a McDonald's french fry is a straw man argument, you're right there. My points were extreme. But I do get JS on self-respect. I do not think getting laid is a bad thing, I don't think a ONS is a bad thing either. Okay -- how about...

The reason the sex = depression is because the sex = self-devaluation (by low quality/skanky women). I thought one of the primary DJ tenants is that Sex Isn't the Prize. Self-value is the real prize, is it not? JS is, in a nutshell saying, self-value = having sex with good quality women of...

To your question: I would say it depends on the girl. Some girls will take one shot and if you don't seem to be jiving in the same direction, they'll move on, likely to save themselves wasted invested time or effort in a person who may not give them what they want. You've got to show this girl...

I know from my own life I've gone through phases of extroversion and introversion; probably different aspects of yourself develop in these different periods, although sometimes it can appear we are moving backwards. Sounds like you're ready to move back outward again -- I would say if anything...