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^^^Where is this coming from? This is something you were told by your former BPD-ex?^^^ Who the fvck are you banging to hear something like this? /edit/ I do know a guy who def had a ONS with a psycho who pulled, "it's your baby" on him, until the birth occurred and the baby was not 100%...

Zekko -- I agree with a lot of your thoughts -- ssauve has, in many ways a sort of dogma or doctrine for a foundation of thought when engaging the opposite sex... Like most foundations of thought, they can be purely subjective, and reality can bring different experiences. There is no...

Sodbuster...wise words... This would be easier for me if this town had a greater population of available women... I spend hours a day with these girls...there seems to be constant body language communication... Some of them are genuinely interesting to me...seem like genuine people...nature...

Before you NEXT her, get some context...maybe she wasn't trying to diss you...maybe this person comes around rarely and they have a deep friendship...you may gain points if you give her space in those moments even if you are irritated...if you see a trend of being placed on second for more of...

Tom, These things happen man--the thing is when one party wants a terminal end on a relationship, even if the best game in the world rebuilds attraction, you have to ask yourself if it's really something worth being in, and if finding another person who values you more is a better route...

People cheat for all sorts of reasons, sometimes it is emotional neglect, sometimes its because one person has "let themselves go", sometimes its because the woman or man didn't experience enough sexual diversity prior to getting in an LTR or marriage, etc, or sometimes its because they clearly...

Be happy brotha, despite what people say, there are good people out there, you don't always have to be playing games, in fact likely not playing games is the best way to find those amazing people! Karma, props to you man -- keep enjoying life to the fullest!

Maverick -- you sound like a complete loose cannon, and your other post was touting how valuable these great doctors/engineering women are, but now you are saying anyone woman who drops their panties prior to marriage = slut? What the hell is wrong with you? Sandman -- how long have you been...

Why did you decline a dinner date with her? This is how you learn my brother. You have to go out on the limb to see if the fruit is ripe. Sometimes there is a fall to the ground that is very unpleasant... Chick #2 probably saw your flirtation with Chick #1 = this turned her on = she wanted...

Karma -- mad props brother -- I do believe there are respectable women and happy relationships -- we come to SS because of our failures, but it is by failure and learning that we can ultimately be successful. I'm glad you have good things in your life -- every man deserves this. But not every...

Zekko you are probably right...some women get married, then it dawns on them the power they potentially can have if things sour...and a rather selfish person would certainly possibly hold this over the man's head. Re: Marriage -- I definitely would like to get married someday to a righteous...

Maybe our society would be better if we learned from the eskimos or lots of other cultures where women are shared...wives are shared...at least in those societies the context is that men need women, we share what we have, we all care about each other -- there is such a greed that perhaps we in...

Sandman -- first of all, props on finding a way to be good with attracting women -- one problem aside from jealousy, that having multiple partners can create is disease xfer -- make sure you are being safe so you don't spread something unknowingly...not that this may be an issue for you...but it...

Going back to the debate about weight... I mean look at American society -- I'm not sure everything about weight gain has to do with women letting themselves go, or men for that matter, but rather the sedentary nature of our society...people's metabolisms slow down...a lot of people DO NOT...

Right on brother! Eye contact, kino, confidence in who you are! Quality attributes my man. I don't think you have to be the best looking dude to get a woman to be bubbling for you -- and you don't have to be the richest guy either -- it's just a matter of portraying a warm and open demeanor...

She wants more sex than me? I would like to have this problem myself! Maybe she'll have more money too -- that would be nice :) A friend of mine had this situation (was with a nympho..couldn't keep up)...seemed like shoes I wouldn't mind being in -- at least for awhile!

Well, I think the whining comes from a large group of men who seem confused and befuddled about women...often they come here seeking understanding, advice, someone to give them some perspective to keep their minds from getting lost into the abyss... And not everyone on this forum wants to be...

Roissy is too dark -- almost a psychopath in the way he views things -- I would wonder if this man has any real friends at all or just people he selfishly uses for his own entertainment. Not EVERYTHING he writes is garbage -- and I have digested some of his information...there are subtle...

I'm replying to this thread for myself -- mostly to serve as a reminder: It definitely sucks being in a small town where it seems people enjoy one another's business and finding available women seems somewhat scarce. I'm here for life experience and trying to gain some work experience too...

Scaramouche I understand what you are saying -- I have seen couples who bicker and argue but whom are incredibly devoted to one another. This could stem from some degree of attachment (and unhealthy attachment) -- but sure just because someone argues doesn't mean beneath it all they don't love...