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I agree with all of what you guys have said here. Thanks for those who took time to provide some thoughts -- Epsi thanks especially for your words there, hit home, Mike32 same for you man. I have no intentions of being stand-offish or "too-cool-for-school", but it is a big deal this place...

^^I dig all of this^^ It is definitely easy to base self-esteem around (a) lay number and (b) lay frequency, and I wholeheartedly agree that these two things should be separated from the base of our self-value. I don't think every man who turns down a chance at sex is depriving his "carnal"...

Here's an idea I had after seeing a recent popping up of many threads discussing male & female "friends" and the levels of appropriateness/tolerance in a relationship: fvck it, I'll make tons of "friends" with women...is it be bad to become an male version of an AW? Could this repel away decent...

^funny stuff. It should be cool. But sure, professionalism > women, because if she gets angry/vindictive/spiteful (or who knows what) that can foil forwards momentum for sure. Or just lead to awkwardness at work for certain. It should be cool. These threads here popping up about...

I suppose everyone has different psychologies they carry into situations, the world "girlfriend" can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people...it just seems like there is more to life than just banging and popping loads...clearly sexual drive with your partner is...

How do you deal with them? How strongly to do you express your game? I will soon be starting a very important job in a place where there will be attractive women of like-mindedness. I've made enough negative headway with women to be naive enough to get involved with a woman I work with. [I say...

Rule #1: *******s before breakfast.

You've already cheated on her man...probably would have been better to end it earlier, especially if she had treated you well. IDK -- this approach just seems cold especially to someone who helped you emotionally heal. I do understand if she wants kids and marriage and you do not. At some point...

Word. With experience + game + age I shall be able to have the hb9's beckoning upon my window...or so is my long term goal :) But man, there were some times with my hb9 in public where I just wanted to chillax...not worry about other dudes eyefvcking her...in some ways, yes, I don't want to...

Reasons for this I'm glad to be a man and have a consistent sex drive, and I most certainly hope to age like a fine wine... I didn't read the article, but my take on cougars, from having worked at a pizzeria and being young dealing with rather rich (well husband was) bored housewives is...

Ninja -- this isn't an easy situation, I feel for you. You want to do right by your friends (both of them). He has probably been monogamous before and been douched -- he's trying something new and it's working (she's crazy about him). But he is appearing lowly to you (I do not value cheating...

^^ Good stuff. Is it hormones that make reality so hard to see sometimes? What the fvck is wrong with that guy? Sounds like a total douche. Why would anyone go say this to someone? BPD or not...if you are experiencing a cycle of behavior...destructive than love than destructive than love...

^^^ these posts are why after being with what I considered an HB9 that I'm done with these AWs...she was fine...part of the reason I tore myself through fvcking shards of bullsh!t with her that I should have walked away from ^^^ But it's just an uphill battle all of the time -- when dudes are...

Pipe -- I was just thinking today ironically about this thread; you know a relationship really shouldn't be so uphill. When a woman's IOI's are going all over the place -- sure you can pickup your game -- but there are probably deeper issues there that maybe even the best of game couldn't...

She wants her cake and to eat it too...she wants BF-stable and FB on the side...hard situation, human part of me says, "she's hurt", this lies beyond sexuality, "hitting it" that sort of thing -- but one question might be: how hurt is she? Is this like near-death, you want to make amends before...

Man you are preaching the truth here. I had to learn the hard way myself too -- when you start to compromise yourself (often in very small increments), it can suddenly snowball or take shape into something you hadn't predicted -- and the whole time you are only sacrificing frame, and just as you...

gemma, When you denoted you had to "rush off to meet someone", was this another male, or a male friend? Maybe you not showing up or spending time with him, as you suggested you would, and instead "rushing off to meet someone" made him question your motives or what other males may/may not be in...

I tend to agree with the comments on "passionate love" being unsustainable, and the idea that we "romanticize" relationships not seeing what they really are. I agree that LDRs are difficult; they fail to allow the physical relationship to move forwards and keep the relationship in the realm of...

@Spearmint: First recognize you have the ability to feel and care. This is good. Don't let a damaged woman or anyone ever take that from you. This world needs more caring people. Falling for this girl will bite you in the ass because she has stated directly she will never be "with just you". She...

I see the value in a vasectomy myself; I've even seriously considered it. For the same reasons. Fear of getting the wrong girl pregnant -- witnessing unpleasant lives around me because a singe sperm slipped loose and drove it home and now his name is Harold. But not all marriages suck. Not all...