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Ah man, once you care about someone it's hard to not (unless they've really hurt you)...I believe NC can be a bit extreme..there is something good about being on good terms, and there is some closure that can take place at the end of a relationship if things are kept civil...(I'm not advocating...

I agree with the thoughts here -- most people gloss over most blocks of text -- most people exaggerate perspectives and notions here. What I enjoy more than anything is a reference point to others, an exchange of an ideas, and the ways it challenges my perceptions of women, men, relationship...

Epsi and davewe, you guys give me hope for the future :) I'd like to be a connoisseur at age 40 :) I have to agree with those here mentioning young = good and old = good...it's all about that connection and enjoying amidst the spectrum... Personally, I've enjoyed being with older women...

I am in the encampment that all people can change. But change is a choice -- takes action, and is not easy. Most people think changing is a simple overnight thing -- it is an entire reprogramming of oneself -- an entire change in self-behavior...all sorts of cascading changes.. So yes, can...

I don't think men @ strip clubs are creepy...they are there for what they want. I've been to a few clubs a few times...I do mostly feel like I've wasted my money...and I do think most of those chicks have issues. Ex-GF was an ex-stripper and that was a mindfvck...it revealed itself slowly...and...

^^ Smart on your part! These attributes you've described pertain in absolutely ZERO ways to any GF I've had...and they ended no good! You are spot on in your notion of not being able to turn a hoe into a housewife... Duffdog -- I do disagree with you man. Not every hot chick fvcks the entire...

LOL man this thread! Crazy stuff here! "adaptogenic herbs" ?? ... suuureee....want to pass some of those "adaptogenic" herbs my way? hehehe Few things man: (1) It takes balls to go out and throw yourself into the world that way. I commend that courage. (2) If you are seeking sex from...

She will: (a) end up pregnant by some random dude (b) pick up some STD (c) get some older dude jailed for statutory. Ever hear of the term "jail-bait"? This is that case. She's 16 and has a fvcked background. You can't save her man. Why are you even trying? She herself is choosing her own...

Man I'm not knocking you for being head over heels for a chick. You're talking to a guy who has had the habit of falling in love at first sight...I've been "easy" in terms of caring about people...I know what it's like to GASP want that ONE HOT CHICK RIGHT THERE! But I'm telling you from an...

I would agree that "tagging along" is placing the frame in her hand (essentially saying: okay, you are in control I submit to your agenda and will place myself amidst the running to spend time with you"). I myself, would have immense trouble allowing a girl I'm with to have 1:1 day with her...