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^righteous post^ It's always easier for people to slander and talk sh!t than it is to generate a genuine complement and positive observation. People seem to enjoy cutting one another down over building one another up. Fvck these bastards -- disconnect -- let them believe what they want --...

^this was a great post, I'd rep+ you if I hadn't already given you some recently^ Man that is tough losing one of the people most close to you -- I definitely know that when one party doesn't want to make it work, it just can't, no matter what. I've never been divorced, and more and more the...

I agree that I myself would have trouble with it. This chick is meeting with guy#1 for dinner in a night or two, and he is unaware that guy#2 got in there while he was gone. Guy#2 was invited over today to her house to watch a movie and 'cuddle'. He said, 'you are playing mind games, make up...

I had a 2month LDR by which we communicated everyday via text, calls and video chat. It worked for awhile, but when I came back, things just weren't the same. Some momentum had been lost, and the opportunities in her area were not abundant -- this lead to scarcity and difficulty finding...

there is love in the mind, genuine connection, yet frustration can breed when we lose again and again bitter or jadedness perhaps we all feel, when we are being grinded by life's wheel, but to give up, is to miss the thing entirely

It is easy when you meet a woman to see all of the gentle sides in relationships -- it is much harder after you've deeply loved and deeply lost not to get cynical sometimes about the real pains people can breed in one another. I agree that mind-games and mind-control is never the way to genuine...

I woulda slapped the sh!t out of myself many a few times in the past -- I've done some major wussball things; but my intentions were in the right place. Part of life is learning, part of life is pain -- it takes balls to try and grow from a negative experience and to fight towards a positive...

In terms of 'breaking a woman', I don't know if that's the best approach for everyone...I understand what you are saying about not being directly manipulated and controlled...but women are not inferior animals like dogs exactly, needing to be broken. I think what's most important is that...

I'm sorry to hear you are in pain brother -- I know from your original posts your marriage was having trouble. Don't give up on yourself right now -- don't confuse yourself that your life is forever bruised or hurt -- you will succeed through this, you will be a greater man -- this woman...

Of course, humans love to socially deprecate each other once someone has been ostracized. Easy to shred someone apart with words and revel in it. Fvck this situation man, no marriage should function this way, I'm 26 and I feel that way at least. Not healthy or positive. You need to find a way to...

Look--this girl has issues that you can't understand--I am giving you the benefit of the doubt that you didn't foce anything on her, and she went with it. Maybe she had buyers remorse after, or has some weird psychological thing with sex where she wasn't able to move past the fact she had a...

Good lord Paris -- this woman sounds like a nutcase. Yes -- I think a high number of sexual partners for a chick can decrease her ability to be solid LTR material, partially because her lifestyle and habits are for STRs only -- she may not understand the dynamics of an LTR and she may also have...

Would you still take her seriously? Not a personal experience, but occurring around me and not always sure what to think. Dude and chick hook up. Dude very into chick, perhaps AFC pushes her away, she bangs other guys, then brings back on high IOI's to original dude. If original dude, is she...

Update for myself--avoid work sexual encounters for if they sour negative vibes may ensue. Not needing drama at the workplace. Must abstain from the gorgeous women all around me. Must not try. Must be professional. If a genuine real connection is formed where a woman cares for me deeply than...

Dude, you don't want this chick or your ex-wife to be your wingman... What sort of decent woman would view you seriously when upon their first encounter with you, you're surrounded by these broads? Cut your ties with these women. Take your new self and grow wings -- fly up into the sky where...

lol, best response I've read to something in a long time!

Attention -- one of the greatest relationship currencies, eh? To the OP -- I would say don't take the full blunt force of this upon yourself either, this chick just got out of an LTR, is looking to date around, she may not exactly be what you are looking for if you are looking for a...

Hey man sorry to hear that -- Santa Monica is a beautiful area you're not going to have much trouble meeting new women who are in the same geography as you. Stay positive man -- sounds like you are and you learned a lot.

Goddam.n this is well written and insightful. Thx for posting this man, rep+ for this. I am going to give this decline of sex thing a try and see if I better understand this subtle power dynamic. Slickster -- man your posts are blowing my mind here as well. Especially in regards to female...

Colossus -- lol, I could probably work more on 'saying more with less'. I guess I just get going and the steam starts pushing and the keyboard starts clicking. I hear you on over-analysis. Man this is something I deal with beyond just the subject of women. It's like my frontal lobe wants to...