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You're on a steaming train to frustration-ville. Do your best to let it go. You're the man after all. There are plenty of other women out there -- outside of work -- whom you could really connect with -- and without the collateral damage. If something randomly developed and grew, that is one...

I moved into my vehicle a few years back and never regretted it -- well, maybe some low-times, yes I thought "good lord what the hell am I doing?" -- but man life is about adventure and new experience and you won't grow any better way than some self-derived challenge! Isolation, new culture...

Not trying to be a d!ck but didn't you say you cheated on her? This is probably why she is going balls-to-the-walls to be an @ss to you. Look, sh!t happened as it did--it's over now--take the advice of these guys, get a set payment plan, pay her on whatever day of the month it may be, and don't...

By girlfriend, you must mean platonic friend. Because I am not a woman, and nor do I act like a woman. I read your article Rollo, and you know sometimes I think you can be overly-harsh, but you also know I respect you for the ways you've reached out to me and because I believe ultimately, your...

Alex keep writing buddy! Hah, great journal some interesting reads you've made some incredible progress, just even in your confidence levels!

Look man if I can take a crack at this -- it's probably because there is a mutual attraction there, but because of the BF thing she has going on, you're "really good friends". She probably doesn't want to FB Add you because of said interest, probably not the best thing for her to be mentally...

Borealis; Man cheer up a bit. The fact she came and talked to you is a really positive thing. Sure it's an "AFC MOVE" on this site to express your feelings, but that's not true in every case. She probably really does like you but is dealing with her own issues. Her oddness, just as yours, is...

Honestly, this overanalysis is making my head spin. I just wanted to write to you Jariel because you're definitely a righteous dude. Maybe you just haven't met the right chick yet. I know that sounds so goddamn.ed cliche but really you can sit here and like a scientist try and pick this thing...

She probably is just that -- a little embarrassed -- just let her come back to you, stay as a warm anchor -- ie, you don't judge her for getting down with you that night and she understands you still dig her...make sure you embrace her sexuality, if you respond all weird, it will make her...

If she said you were cute, you should have gone back and gotten her number. You probably could again. I don't think you were getting pegged for "nice guy", and again, "nice guy" can still get laid. Loud and obnoxious can work with women -- but in the long run that can definitely turn anyone...

I know what to do -- have a date with her anyways, what do I give a shi.t, I'm not breaking up a marriage or dating someone's ex... Just because some friend burned a bridge with a chick doesn't mean if you're connecting with her you ought to let that residue stop you.. Those are my...

Okay; well being GAY means you enjoy homosexual relationships and want to be sexually or romantically, with MEN. If you do not have those feelings; than you are NOT GAY. Now that your sexuality is secure, let's talk about GENDER. Gender is very different, it's the sort of social or cultural...

This is not in reference to the old Nickelodeon show, however: At my place of work, which I have created a thread about already in terms of keeping myself metered there and keeping myself in check for self preservation purposes, there is a very cute intern soon on her way out. She will be done...

I would agree with this. Sticking a cucumber down your pants might help at the club -- but you likely would scare away a woman who was considering any genuine relationship, lol. I'm average size, not small, and I have my moments, lol, but genuinely I've never felt this mattered too much to the...

BB; I hear you man, especially on demanding respect. And a person can't really expect to demand any respect until they are, as you say, taking care of their sh!t. I struggle with that fine line of trying to be 'understanding' in reference to people. For example the woman I live with who I was...

Brother I am 27 but look 22 at most sometimes -- I have facial hair and longer shaggy hair and this makes me look older. It's vitality man. It's not a bad thing. Your body is aging more slowly than others -- this is a major asset -- fvck what other people think honestly; you are a boss. I have...

If you hadn't noticed I mentioned the intellectual discussion (talk of quarks, atoms, etc). But you know what? You guys may be right. We just all went to dinner, and the female roommate was truly pissing me off -- fvck it man, maybe you are right, they're just a huge pain in the ass -- and if...

Sounds like this chick was just horny as fvck, and yes desperate. Man this thread makes me feel like shi.t for having not gotten laid at all recently. I've been in a drought, mostly because of where my mind has been. It'll come -- but as I denoted in another thread, I gotta get my ass out there...

How do I describe it -- sometimes I sort of feel like their "brother", looking out for them, and in some ways they look out for me too. They help me -- my roommate for example makes me coffee, she bakes things and shares, cooks meals. But she also genuinely seems to root for me and believes in...

LOL man c'mon you can't really think this can you? Not all women are like that!