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I agree with this -- I've had a positive male father figure in my life -- this is probably why I am more prone to believe in good relationships, etc, and despite my personal pain, still have some conviction there ARE good situations out there. But what about someone who has had very very...

There was an issue around here recently where a young man, whose girlfriend ended a relationship with him, drove his own car into on-coming traffic, not only killing himself, but an innocent person in on the on-coming lane. It was a suicide by desperation and sadness, that very selfishly, took...

Maybe it's about disconnecting from almost all things... The lovey dovey images we carry about women...the naivety...our current approval/rejection rates... Countermart -- very interesting points. Backbreaker -- all of your posts are so loaded with personal experience I enjoy them. Fvck women...

Dude, I cannot disagree with some of the bulleted principles at the bottom -- I think some of that is very wise -- but I do feel bad for these ladies, especially the one who genuinely cared about you, yet you deceived her. She will likely take a long time to heal from some of the emotional pain...

lol. Dating coaches eh? I would like to sit in on a conversation. It's funny how so many people are wanting to be with another person -- yet we are supposed to feign disconnect, feign disconcern, etc, etc -- honesty is the way of the male or female chump and spits out the romance...

This is so well articulated I've got to give you some karma after this reply. I feel you 100% on this. Lifeislearning -- my past LTR was this exact way...little by little the truth came out and you just to look in the mirror and say: Can I accept to be with a woman with this past? In some...

Die Hard -- I appreciate you kicking me in the ass a bit. Re: Sentiment/Reliance, etc:: Well imagine a situation where these two people probably had been through a great deal together in life, maybe raised children together, were young once too -- I am sure that if there is some sort of genuine...

I appreciate you sharing your experiences. Acknowledged man. I definitely think a mentality of scarcity is why most people date at work -- you are around these people all of the time, and most crash out after and put little effort into going out into the world, or to find the motivation to...

Die Hard -- maybe you are correct, a bit too much rumination, dwelling, getting clouded. I suppose sometimes I can get a bit of tunnelvision. Upon what I'd like there to be, if that makes sense.

Mr P -- glad you are alive brother :) Every moment is a gift!

Backbreaker -- I totally see where you are coming from and acknowledge your experiences. I really have to say, at least 8 times out of 10, it seems that soured work relationships end in the scorn of one person or another, in worse enough cases likely one person leaves. I suppose for most people...

Most people never take the time to discover themselves...I truly believe looking within to understand yourself will bring about the best in self-actualization...suddenly doors in life begin to open that before you could not have imagined...I can attest to that through direct first hand...

I went to some natural hot springs this past weekend, and observed some interesting things. One particularly was this older couple, not in good shape, definitely had not likely taken care of themselves, but seemed to really have a strong companionship with one another -- we did the sauna and...

I can't get down with SM because of the baggage and I keep feeling like they are just waiting for a cuckolding situation....plz take care of my baby....takes all the blood flow away from my penis... At least you are getting some responses Des, and more in your court, I know you were frustrated...

I would say it depends what you have to offer...a lot of mistresses stick around because the dude is loaded or has high social status...she may stick around to fvck you but she has some dibbs in what you have too... She may secretly dream of being your wife at some point also...replacing her...

I do agree with that -- I was overreacting been frustrated lately, suddenly get lost in a haze of half-truths and begin wondering if I just want to go abstain from all of this to begin with and meditate on a mountain and drink coffee and live life a monk until my time ends... The reclusive...

Rollo, first of all Zekko is not married. Secondly, why the fuk is everyone sweating Zekko so much here...I completely agree with him...if you can't see some of this stuff at SS IS DOGMA than you are lying to yourselves...these are not iron rules written in the sands of time... Look...there are...

Dude mad props, see? Congrats!

Brother, Do not destroy yourself over a woman! It's not worth it! We've all felt it! The better question to ask: Why don't you think you deserve better than this crazy bi.tch!?

Fvck man, sometimes absolutely after some close calls, odds are condom + birth control = pretty solid, but yes the idea of having a baby with a woman who I do not intend frightens the living piss out of me. Maybe I just need a vasectomy...there's always adoption. edit--my mind might just be a...