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Definitely sounds like either (a) seeking "the one", (b) not closing properly either due to inability/fear/lack of desire, etc. Man I've been down that road myself ... most of the time I went home alone was because I wasn't assertive enough ... I hadn't mentally resolved the close, was letting...

Saw this article last week at livescience.com and was wondering what others thought about some of their claims: [FULL ARTICLE BELOW] The difference in men's and women's attitudes toward sex are often taken for granted. Men want sex, women want commitment; men look for attractive mates and women...

These are all great posts -- I definitely gained something just by reading people's responses here. I wish I could say I myself never have felt lost, but surely I have. We have to find ways to charge-up our lives, re-invent our minds, re-inspire ourselves, re-kindle that awe and splendor that...

How about focusing on how she treats and views you...

Unfortunately this isn't socal...I'm in some of the least populated areas of the united states...beautiful here...but lots of big women with tweety bird shirts!

Well making money and being good with women are likely two entirely different skill sets...one does not necessarily facilitate the other.

People get married for all sorts of reasons. Some who re-marry are likely going into it a different way. I don't think just because something failed in life, means all post-attempts will be a failure. Celebrity relationships are hard to really use as a metaphor or analogy to your own life. The...

Don't talk about it man -- don't key in details -- just go with the experiences you are having and try to learn from them. I've never found it to be helpful to discuss other women, past relationships, or any of that, with women. Maybe life has led you to this current place for a reason.

Well, in your defense, a lot of what you are describing or did say is emulated in pornography. Which is what most men watch and use to understand what sex is supposed to be. Which is, unfortunately, very false. IDK man, some chicks would have responded well to this. I've had some nasty shi.t...

Update -- I went out and did my thing -- there was however a massive work party afterwards. Everyone ended up getting rather drunk; I danced with pretty much every hot chick I work with, simply walking to them on the dance floor and just grabbing them -- this worked well -- and I took the lead...

This is what I'm off to do. I'll send her a nice text saying maybe another time. She seems like such a good person I definitely don't want to hurt her -- I just don't know if this is a good path to go down right now. I could be screwing up any potential for the future by canceling on this plan...

Honestly man, some chick younger than me who was a virgin would be good LTR material -- because she's not riddled with emotional residues of pain or as duly noted on this forum, ridden the c0ck carousel (lol). BUT -- a lot of guys on this forum are not necessarily interested in monogamy (in...

There is truth to your guys points. I'm sure when the relationship is going well, or in its beginnings, it would be great to meet a chick at work -- shared passion or similar direction in life. But it's not so much about when things are going well -- that's fine and dandy -- it's more so when...

bmp2cpm, Those are good points -- you never know what seeds I could be planting now for the future. But right now I have the internal mantra, "dont fvck girls at work".. I've had enough female drama the last few years to need that sh!t in my face all day at my work place... I have...

Try dating her or entering into an LTR with her and re-read what you wrote here.

Dating a stripper? Good luck.

SecondHalf -- I hear you man; it's still definitely a struggle not keep my reigns in with some of these ladies...a friend of mine says, "don't turn donw a new experience", but not sure if he's the most trusted female resource. There are fine lines between business and pleasure I suppose. More...

I hear you man. Already second day I am picking up on vibes of others and the relationships that are occurring around me. IDK, I'm just surrounded by natural beauties and unfortunately work with all of them. This position could lead to better things here. I ought to protect myself but part of...

You've hit it spot on Epsi. Mad props. Definitely am the new guy, getting some attention, but that will fizzle away, and god knows the next new dude through here will be a temporary big-deal. But people (especially women) can lose interest very fast, especially at the first sight of major AFC...

Opinions and thoughts here greatly valued. You gents have provided insight that may have prevented me from being rather foolish. Thanks guys, I can't argue or disagree with anything stated here. Backbreaker -- thanks for that story, very interesting, crazy too, this man allowed an assistant you...