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lol this is great! I used to reply with bullsh!t like, 'okay it's no problem!' but in reality, it was a problem, so why pretend otherwise? Silence is probably the most confusing. Lack of data drives people mad.

If she is digging you, keep trying to ramp it up a bit. If she is trying to fvck with your mind and it is causing you misery -- pull back and find other options. Either she will come further towards you, or you have spared yourself a bunch of wasted time/difficulty. But I would say next time...

I think people are being a bit hard on the OP here, saying he's not happy with his life all of that -- it sounds like he has worked very hard to try and complete further schooling and all sorts and just bc someone has lost sight of their fitness doesn't mean their entire lives are basked in...

Go.ddamn nothing annoys me more than that -- slick laid down some solid advice -- when will chicks understand nobody wants to hear about all of that? Switch subjects. Say, "I'd rather talk about the present and exciting things going on right now", or "I'd really rather not talk about those...

Tomato -- Look man, you don't want to hear it, but do you really want to get back into a relationship that ended via text and has been on a two month hiatus? Now you are scrounging around for a group of dudes here to give you a clear game plan back into her world? It just isn't going to work...

Dude, of all people, I'd be the first to say I can overthink things -- but you are totally overthinking this. A few things: 1. If you've been dating for a few months, why have you only banged twice? I'm not saying if you're trying to keep it low-key or something for some reason that's bad, but...

Not once in my life have I ever had success trying to pull the relationship trigger. Every time it's her. She's got to be the one who wants it, seeks it, desires it, and you have to gladly take her under the wing. I am not doubting for some men pursuing the relationship has worked ; but I...

Women can make a man bitter and twisted when he even doesn't want to be. That's part of the battle--fighting against that. At least that's part of MY battle. It is definitely a mindfvck when you (a) believe your woman to be messing with your head and (b) are confronted with lots of things she...

I agree with that statement. Slick -- I can identify a lot with what you have described here. I definitely have had major social anxiety issues in my life but through constant work and cognitive retraining (purposefully placing myself in uncomfortable situations) I have made great progress and...

Des -- Man I totally feel you on the not letting yourself love again. I think what you stated is exactly true and I couldn't really say it any better. It is probably important to love, to experience that emotion, but to somehow keep it in reference or context. Feeling a real spark and...

I lived out of my car for two years sleeping in a rigged bed I made out of it and all my outdoor gear. I had some amazing times introspectively and in the general things I've seen. But OP, I completely hear where you are coming from. A lot of people use travel as instant validation for making...

I was reflecting a bit today and I really felt compelled to write a post here. The value in it to those reading, may or may not be of any use or relevance -- I am not trying to take some sort of soap box. More than anything, following a few of the more intense women-related events of my life...

BB; I respect you brotha -- you are desiring to just get along with your mom and not need this religion bullsh!t. Maybe the best thing you can learn to do is just not let it get to you. I know that's way easier said than done, and I didn't read this entire thread -- but religion was a point of...

Solid advice. Rep+ man.

Mind = blown from this thread. Good one. I don't know how I'd handle such a thing. If she stays out late and doesn't answer = real real real bad sign, maybe relationship breaker 99% of the time. A loyal woman doesn't do this -- this is the act of anger -- and immaturity.

I guess female friendships just are what they are. At the end of the day -- no matter who your friends are -- you only go to sleep with your own heart and mind and breathing sack of lungs. Being self-reliant, is important. Not just fiscally, but emotionally, mentally. There is something...

I think the answer is in this thread and is clear -- hah -- *MAYBE* if she's blackout drunk will she lay you... The question is -- is that worth whatever friendship you are providing? That is a drunken quick lay? And secondly, what are you providing truly if your friendship is just a false...

iamarockstar -- In some ways man I think you might be being too hard on yourself. In a lot of ways, it is easy to look back at an LTR that is unravelling or has and try to piece it together logically and understand your individual errs, where you went wrong, and where to improve next time. I...

Another thing I would note about that video that we watched is that these are all college-aged people. Doesn't this make some difference? If you interviewed a bunch of 50 year olds or 60 year olds, what might they say?

Interesting video. I don't know if everything you are saying here is true. One of the female friends we have is more like a "guy" in the sense we don't and I don't, filter ourselves around her. We talk essentially or mostly the same. DieHard -- Dude I honestly am not attracted to the...