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simplyme-- I don't think anyone said anything of the sort as you suggest. I heard a great many considered, well-measured adult replies above. I didn't see where anyone suggested the guy should get petulant and pull the "silent treatment" and manipulate his way in response to a woman's...

Man!--some quality material from the guys here--archive this, the subject will come up again, I'm sure, and we'll likely not get as many good posts on it in one place again.

Interesting, that. Come to think of it, all my ex's never really asked what came before them. Anyone with insight on that? frankcd--any chance of getting her to explain that?

Re: So what should i do??

Calling them on it is a rookie move. It may be a stage you have to go through if you need to jolt yourself out of your fear of women, or your bad habit of putting them on a pedestal. Some guys can do it and make it work--or so I read on these boards. Mostly, though, guys can't pull it off...

Just say that you get 40 or 60 or whatever e-mails every day and--unless they have an interesting subject line--they get deleted. Getting an e-mail is no big thing. Shadow had an interesting point, though...

She probably is part AW. She has let you know her "terms of engagement" (my guess: exclusivity and promise of LTR before you get anything...and even then, maybe you get nothing...) It doesn't sound like you want to pay the cost. Fair enough. But she can tease and is hot and can make you...

Man, will you chill???? Quit spazzing over all those questions, you sound like a chick. 1st: stop carrying on this running conversation with the friend. It's getting you all wrapped up in knots. They're both playing you and you don't really have the skills yet to match or beat them. So...

I remember a lot of UK djs commenting on how hard it was to score UK tail. Then Bugs comes along and gives a whole different view to the place. All I can say is that it appears he's made an amazing transformation in a challenging environment. Imagine if they let him out of the UK?--to...

Fragem--at this point, the only thing that might work (and I don't think it will) is for you to start proving them wrong with actions and by getting results. The reason it won't work is it sounds like they're the types who would rather die than admit they were wrong---that they are, in a...

If she's not LTR material and just there for fun, what does the e-mails matter??? Get it clear in your head---if the e-mails do matter, then maybe she means more to you; if she doesn't matter to you, then the e-mails are nothing but entertainment (and shouldn't be brought up or mentioned.)...

You know, "labeling" is usually a bad thing and almost always referred to negatively. Yet, we do it and do it often, because it is useful and, if consciously done, the right thing to do. I label certain people around me as "healthy" and "unhealthy" (or, for my perverse pleasure, as "tweaked"...

Re: WTF?

Cell phone? If you gave it to her, it belongs to her. If you're paying for her plan, cancel it. And don't think any more about it.

Nah, he'd go for both. Shorty probably covered it right. He sounds like a feminized (or de-male-itized) specimen to me.

Don't ignore your gut. If it was your "afc tendencies" you would've felt--I dunno--fear, wimping out, etc. You probably would've noticed excuse-making going on. Your intuition is an invaluable source of info (it picks up the body language info you receive) -- trust it and it will work better...

She knows you are into her? At this point, if she likes the attention (and she does) you've got an uphill battle. Use what they call around here "gangi games". Withdraw. Watch her come running.

Be aggressive. How do you anticipate doing that? Do you expect to set up a situation and hope that he "gets it" and takes lead? That should work. It may not be enough, though, so prepare on escalating it immediately--force a response outta him! Do that (escalating) by pulling him...

At her age and game playing skills, she's probably ripe, ready and sucker for jerk behavior--guessing here, of course--so decide if you want to go there in order to, <cough>, go there... I mention "going there" because I wouldn't consider dating her for any length of time as being a serious...