Brothers are a lost cause

[Fragem]

My brother thinks he knows everything about there is to meet women, and I don't know ****. He has had only 1 girl. Who slept with him cuz she pitied him. So I was talking to him about women, and gave him the url to sosuave.com guess what he and my littliest brother couldn't stop talking for an hour trying to ridicule me about Djism. Saying women don't fall for that sort of ****, and being a player is wrong. They also said Dj's are self serving people who will not have successful relationships. I have tried to make them elightened, but every chance I try I meet with ridicule, I'm TIRED of NEGATIVE people, especially if they are in my own family. Also they said, I was too ugly to meet even average girls, they said even If I was handsome on the outside, I'm an ugly person on the inside.

Don't you love how AFC's try and defend their chumpism with insults.

 

[Silquee Smoove]

Don't give up on your brothers, just yet.

I showed my brother this site (he was already a success, but you can always use a refresher course) and he loved it and thought it really "dealt with" topics that guys needed to know but wouldn't get out on the street.

Some people just need time.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by Fragem
Also they said, I was too ugly to meet even average girls, they said even If I was handsome on the outside, I'm an ugly person on the inside.

ROFL

Beleive in yourself dude. I know what it's like to have someone in your family tell you that you're worthless. My mom does it all the friggin time because of the small things I do. Like worthless, dumb, selfish etc. It's so frigging untrue. Although sometimes I start to beleive it, by dad tells me not to mind her.

I am working on my brother though. he's only 10 and he has a lot to learn. While girls are not that big of a broblem for him, I want him to be a leader, an alpha male etc. So take him to the parties and explain how people work, how girls work. He likes it and usually he becomes the center of attention.

Imagine a 10 year old at a party of 17-19 year olds, and he's the only one that young. It's like: "hey little fella, want some beer?"

The best thing is when he asks the chicks to dance. His head is usually just below the tits of the girl, and of course the girls NEVER refuse him cause they know me and cause he's so darn cute. He actally helps me with the chicks, cause then I get "oh, he's such a sweet kid" and "I like the way you treat your brother"


I hope this way he'll get used to pretty girls, to kino, to being around them. He actally can be the center of attention and be cool with it, joke around etc.

He's the best wingman I've seen so far.

 

[Beige]

Just make sure that girls won't be his primary interest. Imagine him in a five years - aren't you afraid that parties and girls will be the only thing that he'll have?

 

[TesuqueRed]

Fragem--at this point, the only thing that might work (and I don't think it will) is for you to start proving them wrong with actions and by getting results. The reason it won't work is it sounds like they're the types who would rather die than admit they were wrong---that they are, in a sense--admitting they are inferior to you (that's the emotional equation I think is playing inside them at this point.)

 

[Fragem]

Ohh yeah this is the best criticism they have. They say I'm only after HB9's and 10's and they think UG3's are 7's. I told them whats wrong with a girl that's not overweight and decent looking. Heck I even gave an audience to an Average 6, so I don't know what they are talking about, picky picky they say, you should apperciate even getting a girl, they say.

 

[Ice Cold]

Originally posted by Beige
Just make sure that girls won't be his primary interest. Imagine him in a five years - aren't you afraid that parties and girls will be the only thing that he'll have?

Well, I don't party enough for it to be the only thing he'll have. He still has his school where he's getting As and his karate and his classmates who he hangs out with.

It's not I'm making him do tricks for me every evening

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

Loser or not, you never give up on family.

Lead by example and he'll find the way.