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For a little knife-twisting fun, you can call, she won't pickup, then casually let her know a few days later what spectacular party or great event you all (many friends) went to---she'll figure out that she screwed herself and missed out on something. Don't be obvious about it, just mention the...

Steele has another take on it---you have needs, sexual needs being one, that need to be fulfilled. If that need isn't getting filled, you are Lonely Horney and Desperate. Women can smell t hat. Even some guys can smell it, too. And if it isn't there, there's a lack of that smell, which...

I was wondering if it was something like that.. I know that d'Angelo (DYD stuff) recommends it for learning to kick back with the ****y and funny stuff--and for practice, that stuff is good. It gets you thinking of funny curve balls to throw back. Of course, this is strictly practice, so...

Damn! This whole post was a delight to read. That part about "the only bad attention is no attention" was something so clear that I couldn't find the words to say going on 2 years here-- vote 1 for archive material.

I recently read Maltz, Mr. Mystery---good book. He doesn't give a "technique" as such, so you have to think about it and put it to use on your own. This is good, because then you OWN it. Good rant. These are needed from time to time.

He lost 130 lbs over 18 months--??? Fvcking-A, that's some work! Ok--he's heading in the right direction, cut him some slack. He can't fix everything at once. Some days he can work on things, other days he can only limit the damage. Getting that weight thing under control is an...

Oh yeah, girl behind door #3 is putting up challenges and getting you to jump thru hoops. Either she likes the attention and control and has no intention of really getting together with you or she's into establishing control and getting you to jump through hoops--and it sounds like you're...

You're in college but you're going to the internet to meet chicks--??? I'm not sure the reasoning for this---you're in a time and place where meeting women is literally shoved at you, and it will never be like that again. You must have a good reason for this. I am wondering what it is...

Shouldn't this be Anything Else? Anyway, I asked once and I think they have the reason posted in FAQs or Anything Else or somewhere. I forget the reason, I always assumed it was to keep us off the search results for every porn-keyword search running out there. Keeps the flies away...

Quality post! This should be an example of working through the basics in the bible, IMO. I know on Steele's list he rigorously forces newbies to write out what they intend to do (draft a plan) get feedback on it, revise it, go out and execute and then do a post-event breakdown very much like...

I don't think you need to explain why you didn't pickup. If you don't pickup, you don't pickup. But before she even brought it up--we don't know if she was even intending on bringing it up--you're jumping forward with an excuse. If you need a reason, you can tell the truth: sometimes I turn...

Interesting comment 86 made about "not throwing away the last 6 months..." here. Some people have touched on it, but I think some other things need highlighting on it. It's natural to think that thought. Unfortunately, you'll use it to cloud your thinking and make bad decisions. If she's...

Alien biological experiments. No shyt.

3rd person: sounds like you're disassociating from the situation in order to see it objectively (or go into denial..I dunno..) Her: sounds like a variation on the "I need space" theme. Give it to her. Lot's of good threads on that in the past.

Don't forget it makes the guy seem kinda creepy and sneaky. Too many negatives add up too quickly that way. It may be your only shot--a very low percentage shot. Take it if nothing else--but I wouldn't bother. I remember when I used to make few attempts and the attempts I did make were...

You know caving in is fatal--as in trying to guess what is wrong, or guessing and trying to apologize or explain, or trying to draw it out of her (this doesn't contradict the good advice above.) And even standing there stupidly and saying "Wha? What is it now?" is deadly. I haven't...

Its--- If she's turning in guys at work--justified or not--DO NOT TOUCH HER EVER AT WORK! She gets pyssed for whatever reason at you and you will find yourself in someone's office having a very uncomfortable conversation. Which leads to--if you've read the bible, did you skip that part...

This is a test question you can flip to your own advantage. First: realize you are not obligated---and SHOULD NOT--answer an intrusive and inappropiate question. And her lines of inquiry are certainly that. You can play off it with a C&F style "that's classified information and you don't...

iqqi---you'll probably have to step up to the plate and become the neighborhood's friendly ball-breaker. Him: "I dunno, whadda you wanna do?" (or "where do you wanna go?" You think: "How annoying! Wuss alert is blaring and the red lights are flashing and how do I salvage this situation?"...

Duke007--you tried to do a favor and he wouldn't be helped (in fact, he kinda turned on you in a really wussy way...) No more words. Leave him to his fate, you can't save him now. In the meantime, your actions will speak louder than words. Be the DJ. He'll be too whipped and embarrassed...