Attention W***** or Not

[itstough]

Ok I have been dealing with a woman who I think maybe a attention ***** and she maybe not be. I have read many posts on attention *****s and I am still confused. SO it seems I understand that attention *****s do find you attractive?? I also read that Kino, if she uses or let's you use Kino she may not be a attention *****..


The woman in question has let me use Kino on her and she use to use it on me but has since stopped. Another guy asked her to bend over and she turned him in for harrasment. another guy touched her shoulder and she said get off me. another guy looks down her shirt and she yells at him. I guess this is all attention to her, but she turned in one guy.


So my point in this post is What are the signs a woman is NOT a attention *****? Heck now that I think about it I like attention from woman!!! Geez I am so confused.

 

[squirrels]

"Use kino on her?"



You know, the longer I'm on here, the more it irks me when people talk about things like Kino as if they were some kind of secret weapon or tactic. "DEPLOY C&F! READY ON KINO!" LOL

Now...WHY do you think she's an attention *****?

 

[GirlCrazy]

/sarcasm on

She must be an attention wh0re if she doesn't want every guy feeling her up, insulting her, or trying to look down her shirt.

/sarcasm off

 

[b's nuts]

sorry, but its "an attention wh*re", not "a attention wh*re". For some reason that really bothered me because it was through the entire post.

 

[itstough]

You know, the longer I'm on here, the more it irks me when people talk about things like Kino as if they were some kind of secret weapon or tactic. "DEPLOY C&F! READY ON KINO!" LOL

Well I have read in the Bible "never underestimate the power of Kino" "makes her think sexual of you" "shows your not afraid to touch her" etc etc I also read in a post about somebody asking how to tell if a girl wants stolen or some similar post and it said "if she is head over ass with her boyfriend she will not even think about touching another man"

Now...WHY do you think she's an attention *****?

Well 1 she Kino's me or at least did would come around me. would sometimes do things for me. but I went in for the KIss and got shot down I told you not here which she did when she said something could happen between us.

 

[itstough]

She must be an attention wh0re if she doesn't want every guy feeling her up, insulting her, or trying to look down her shirt.

Well I didn't mean to suggest she should let people do this. I even told her that she should turn the guy looking down her shirt in but she is afraid of him. I just made that statement because it made me think that those things are attention like those guys find her hot so they will look down her shirt etc

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by itstough
Well I have read in the Bible "never underestimate the power of Kino" "makes her think sexual of you" "shows your not afraid to touch her" etc etc I also read in a post about somebody asking how to tell if a girl wants stolen or some similar post and it said "if she is head over ass with her boyfriend she will not even think about touching another man"


Well 1 she Kino's me or at least did would come around me. would sometimes do things for me. but I went in for the KIss and got told no I told you not here which she did when she said something could happen between us.

Was the mood right? Or did you just go for the kiss because a post on sosuave.com told you to?

 

[itstough]

Was the mood right? Or did you just go for the kiss because a post on sosuave.com told you to?

Yeah Maybe the mood was not right, I don't know. What are you saying I should not listen to what i read on sosuave.com??


Whether I jumped the gun on kissing her I could care less at this point. Well except to learn for next time. What I was looking for in this post is what are signs that she is not an attention hore? I just feel very sick with this woman due to the fact that I wonder if she had other motives why she gave me these signs. She is already involved with somebody already. But at the time I would have banged her anyway, just not now. I mena this woman was my friend for a while a good friend then we start acting different to each other. One thing that makes me wonder is She and her SO will have a party and she will ask me to come

 

[Player_Supreme]

1. I personally think they are all attention who*res myself
2. If this is happening at work you better let it go...she is a time bomb. looking for attention so she can make it a negative by screaming "rape".

 

[Pimp-sicle]

LOL Attention *****!!!

SoTough: Bro the reason she lets you touch her and she touches you is BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE GOOD FRIENDS!!!
If you wants some other words to describe what you are to her, then her the are:

no fuking zone
like to tease you
i know you want me and its fun to play

and finally........drumroll please.....

nice guy



She looks at you, like she looks at one of her g/f's. You never pointed out in your initial post that you guys were good friends. You've been cast off in to LJBF zone a LONG TIME AGO!! You also have a mild case of one-itiis. I want you to fuvk 3 other girls over the next few weeks and come back and see if you feel better.

DR. PIMPSICLE

 

[itstough]

I want you to fuvk 3 other girls over the next few weeks and come back and see if you feel better.

Provide those 3 girls and I will do it LOL

SoTough: Bro the reason she lets you touch her and she touches you is BECAUSE YOU GUYS ARE GOOD FRIENDS!!!

Oh I didn't know. She has touched my butt once my coxk Bounced up and down on my lap. told me if we was alone and something started she wouldn't put a end to it.


Thanks guys I need schooled badly

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by itstough
Provide those 3 girls and I will do it LOL


Oh I didn't know. She has touched my butt once my coxk Bounced up and down on my lap. told me if we was alone and something started she wouldn't put a end to it.


Thanks guys I need schooled badly

And you didn't get her alone? What are you THINKING?

You know what I'm reading here?

Implied by itstough, translated by squirrels:

"She wanted to have sex, but I was afraid so I didn't, and now she's moved on...stopped touching, etc, looking for another guy to bang...and I justify my cowardice by telling myself 'she was an attention ***** anyway.'"

You want her? Stop being afraid of your d*ck.

 

[itstough]

LMAO squirrels I seen that quote from me and I am like I didn't say that..

I said when she said if i ever got you alone i wouldn't put a stop to it. I said " you are full of it" we have never been alone then she said later on why don't you come over tonight. so I did and she had her kid in her arms and I couldn't go for a Kiss then another female friend showed up which I knew was coming. Oh the Humanity I could have shagged this hunny huh.. I never had a woman that looked like this into me before

 

[TesuqueRed]

Its---

If she's turning in guys at work--justified or not--DO NOT TOUCH HER EVER AT WORK! She gets pyssed for whatever reason at you and you will find yourself in someone's office having a very uncomfortable conversation.

Which leads to--if you've read the bible, did you skip that part about dating at work--???

It sounds to me like you're confusing a lot of different things, among them attention wh0re. Yes, she could well be one and some of her behavior sounds like that. It sounds like you want to nail that piece of hers and wonder why it hasn't happened yet--hence, your confusion.

Meet an attention wh0re once and you'll learn to sniff them out in the future---they do things to get what they want and need: attention. You, of course, give it in the hopes you get what you need: a date, a relationship, sex. But she doesn't deliver. This causes you to look back and see a sort of tease occurred. Later you can get a sense when attention is desired (other than the normal attention someone wants when they have mod to high IL in you..) -- but no real interest beyond getting the attention is at play.

Now--she stopped touching you. Back off pronto! Her "letting" you continue means you haven't annoyed her enough yet to report you. If you withdraw it, she may want the attention back, but I wouldn't fall for it, keep away.

 

[violator]

To me an attention wh0re is basically a girl who will lead you on for no other purpose than to garner your attention. The signs are clear. She calls you, tells you how much she likes you or gives you that impression, but when you step up to the plate to progress things, you come up empty handed with no date, no kiss, no sex, etc.. You feel that you are walking on a treadmill, expending energy and resources(money), but getting nowhere with her.

 

[itstough]

To me an attention wh0re is basically a girl who will lead you on for no other purpose than to garner your attention. The signs are clear. She calls you, tells you how much she likes you or gives you that impression, but when you step up to the plate to progress things, you come up empty handed with no date, no kiss, no sex, etc.. You feel that you are walking on a treadmill, expending energy and resources(money), but getting nowhere with her.

Well that's just my thing I never spent a dollar on her. She has offered to buy me food before and has brought me food. I don't say dam your hot or any sort of thing "thanks to the bible becuase i would have told her how hot she is etc etc" plus she has a SO. I thought we would just have sex and that's it. But my point is I really never gave her attention in the sense of saying your sexy i want to make love to you etc etc etc


So is there signs a woman is not an attention *****????? That's what I am worried about now.